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Experiment How much "sugar" would it take for you to pay for your companionship?

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Or, "How good an escort would you need to be happy with escortceling?"

Remember Anselm? The composite character we all created through @ldargoblin ? I took him Incelfishing.


Anselm got lots of matches, most of them being young women looking for a sugar daddy. I think most of us wouldn't wanna be a sugar daddy, for a number of reasons. But what if the "sugar" was really good? What if, money being no object, she would do anything? What would she need to do in order for you to be her sugar daddy and be happy with it? Because people do escortcel. But they aren't happy. Something's missing. Maybe the secret to finding that missing thing is more money? Because even though it was Anselm's picture, it felt good to get those messages from women. Even though what they wanted was Anselm's money. Not me. Or my money.

But then, maybe what's missing can't be bought with money. Maybe what's missing is love. Or at least genuine attraction.
 
You can't buy love with money because love for another individual doesn't really exist, you only can ever love your idea and perception of them, and attraction can't be bought at all.

At the end of the day however, another person's attraction to you is irrelevant so long as you're being satisfied, and love is exclusive to the individual perceiving it, meaning whether or not you have it is ultimately up to you and another person isn't actually required. Point is, neither of these things are relevant to paying for sex, either directly or indirectly. Even so however, I personally wouldn't say that it's worth it, as I probably wouldn't be able to enjoy it, and it's a pain in the US anyway. So keep that in mind when you think about my comment.

Maybe escortcelling is worth it to lose your "virginity', but you could also just stop putting yourself down and invalidating yourself to accomplish the same thing, and being a sugar daddy is even more pointless.
 
You can't buy love with money because love for another individual doesn't really exist, you only can ever love your idea and perception of them, and attraction can't be bought at all.

At the end of the day however, another person's attraction to you is irrelevant so long as you're being satisfied, and love is exclusive to the individual perceiving it, meaning whether or not you have it is ultimately up to you and another person isn't actually required. Point is, neither of these things are relevant to paying for sex, either directly or indirectly. Even so however, I personally wouldn't say that it's worth it, as I probably wouldn't be able to enjoy it, and it's a pain in the US anyway. So keep that in mind when you think about my comment.

Maybe escortcelling is worth it to lose your "virginity', but you could also just stop putting yourself down and invalidating yourself to accomplish the same thing, and being a sugar daddy is even more pointless.

So what's missing for you?
 
So what's missing for you?
Physical pleasure I guess? But like I've said before I have anxiety issues and problems letting other people touch me, so I'm not sure how much I'd be able to enjoy paid sex anyway. Beyond that I'm not sure there is anything missing, I feel better than I used to even just a year ago when I joined this forum. The only thing which makes me feel consistently bad is a lot of my past experiences, and how I've been rejected and alienated by normies.

I suppose I just learned that I can either keep dwelling on what's making me miserable, or I can at least attempt to fix it myself.
 

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