How Much Does Sex Matter

[CuriousObserver]

Hear me out before you tear into me.
I'm not going to write my life story here but I the summary is not much different from anyone else's story here. I'm a virgin and celibate and I've been that way for a long time.
Tbh I've been more interested in sharing a meanigful bond with a female rather than sex, porn pretty much satisfies that urge.
But i started looking at myself and I realized how much sex has dominated my life (or the lack of it). I gave up porn (let's just say I'm giving up porn) and i guess i can say I'm becoming more spiritual. I'm not looking for validation so much, not as a prerequisite to living my life anyway.

I guess i asked myself what I am. I've always loved a challenge so I took a good look (over several months) and I asked myself what I could do. What I was worth. I didn't really have much success with being spiritual and all that but i did find a huge flaw in my mentality.
Lots of people changed the world and their life was all about something else they obsessed over. Their work, their community etc. So why punish myself when i can look inward and accept that the stupid world isn't fair and hey! Who knows. Success does have it's perks.

Yeah I'm probably naive but tbh it's more peaceful than being angry all the time.

Okay, you can devour me now

 

[Off_Face]

Beethoven realized this. Realized his marriage project was null and void, went increasingly deaf, and wrote some of the world's most profound, inner, spiritual music. If he didn't die a virgin sometimes I wonder if this music will ever have been written.

 

[reeve23]

Sex is everything for women.
If you fuck her good and hard, she will come back even if you treat her like garbage.


Their whole life is designed around having kids which comes from having sex

 

[Phaoni]

Read this link. Sex is important for all aspects of your being: psychological and physiological. You need sex if you want to push yourself at work or at any domain in your life. Satisfying your natural instincts to have sex can really boost your drive in life. It's not just about experiencing sexual pleasure, it's about indulging in something your body needs.

 

[Spec Carrot]

We no longer live in a world that promotes an individual being able to make a lasting impression for the better. Most people like to think the only thing stopping them from being the next Shakespeare, Alexander the Great or Bill Gates is because they just don't have the right mentality, but the truth is that the overwhelming majority of people lack the conviction to do anything truly worth remembering and of the few that do even less of them have the motivation to do it. The world these days is geared towards pointless pursuits of pleasure and hedonistic lust because it allows everyone to feel like they've achieved something just because they'd had sex.
I know there's lots of bullshit about 'needing' a relationship or 'needing' sex but it's all just lies to make people feel special because they've had sex.

I'd rather be angry and bitter about the state of the world than have sex and think everything is great because I stuck my penis in some rotten thot.

 

[TheHaircutBrother]

Sex is the most important thing in life.

 

[TheRealChincel]

We no longer live in a world that promotes an individual being able to make a lasting impression for the better. Most people like to think the only thing stopping them from being the next Shakespeare, Alexander the Great or Bill Gates is because they just don't have the right mentality, but the truth is that the overwhelming majority of people lack the conviction to do anything truly worth remembering and of the few that do even less of them have the motivation to do it. The world these days is geared towards pointless pursuits of pleasure and hedonistic lust because it allows everyone to feel like they've achieved something just because they'd had sex.
I know there's lots of bullshit about 'needing' a relationship or 'needing' sex but it's all just lies to make people feel special because they've had sex.

I'd rather be angry and bitter about the state of the world than have sex and think everything is great because I stuck my penis in some rotten thot.

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

 

[uninstall]

We no longer live in a world that promotes an individual being able to make a lasting impression for the better. Most people like to think the only thing stopping them from being the next Shakespeare, Alexander the Great or Bill Gates is because they just don't have the right mentality, but the truth is that the overwhelming majority of people lack the conviction to do anything truly worth remembering and of the few that do even less of them have the motivation to do it. The world these days is geared towards pointless pursuits of pleasure and hedonistic lust because it allows everyone to feel like they've achieved something just because they'd had sex.
I know there's lots of bullshit about 'needing' a relationship or 'needing' sex but it's all just lies to make people feel special because they've had sex.

I'd rather be angry and bitter about the state of the world than have sex and think everything is great because I stuck my penis in some rotten thot.

bazooka-kill-count-IQ

 

[CuriousObserver]

Sex is the most important thing in life.

Hmm, well technically sex is the most important thing... If by sex you mean procreation and continuation of species. But that's not what you mean, is it? Just good ole raw sex.
You're kidding some we're just going to have a laugh hahaha about the statement you cannot actually defend

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

 

[CuriousObserver]

it's also collaboration involved in most discoveries nowadays and feeling pressure to give credit to females who were just standing there or contributed a thing here or there.

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

 

[Zaetheus]

 

[Modus Coperandi]

 

[Izayacel]

i just licked and kissed my screen when there was a cute 2d foid,
the deprivement gets to you sooner or later

 

[CuriousObserver]

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Yeah but if that were true you wouldn't have bothered finding and posting this image. So i think you do care and it bothers you, maybe.

 

[Zaetheus]

Yeah but if that were true you wouldn't have bothered finding and posting this image. So i think you do care and it bothers you, maybe.

Not really tbh. Sex drive is 0 lol. Fapping does nothing anymore, when u get older it starts to dawn on you that your fucked. When that hits you you more or less give up. Not saying I’ve completely given up, but I’m not thrown in the towel. Sex only matters who you do it WITH and the connection behind. Meaning having known that person instead of a hook u. Without that “ special” someone it’s meaningless tbh. Sex doesn’t matter when you fuck an escort or some random broad. Overall, I stopped caring years ago.

 

[CuriousObserver]

i just licked and kissed my screen when there was a cute 2d foid,
the deprivement gets to you sooner or later

Hmm, i guess I can tell the difference between my addiction to pornography and reality. I think lots of people can't tell the difference. If the deprivement gets to me, it's because I'm an addict looking for a fix not because sex is the center of the universe.
I've been "clean" for about 4 months now and it feels so good

In sorry you licked your screen. A true redpill is what you need. An awakening from the hold your brain has on you

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

if you have food on the table and a tight pussy to fuck every night when you come home from work 80% of your problems are solved

 

[blackcel]

Sex only matters if you aren't having it.

It is like eating a healthy diet. Sure you can life life while only eating shitty food, but your health will suffer because of it and living normally will end up being harder than it has to be.

 

[CuriousObserver]

if you have food on the table and a tight pussy to fuck every night when you come home from work 80% of your problems are solved

Hmmm, vulgar but i guess it sort of makes sense... If you're doing it right. Question: would you be okay fucking this tight pussy as you so delicately put it if she cries like wails throughout the whole experience cos you use her as a human sex toy. I'm guessing no (yeah i know some people are into that kind of shit). For the most part it'll turn you off.
And what if she leaves the room to go masturbate when you're done, would you feel like you've accomplished a lot? I'm guessing No.

The point is, sex is great when this "tight pussy" gives a fuck about you. She'll probably give u more sex than ur back can handle but for that you need to treat her like an actual human being in the first place.
Just stuff I've come to realize i guess

 

[TheRealChincel]

But they've not just been standing there. They've been leaders and warriors and they've pushed the bounds.
Serena Williams is a skilled athelete that can probably run circles around you (yes i know she's a tennis player).
We probably wouldn't have radiotherapy for cancer treatment today if not for the work of Marie Curie. They've not been allowed to flourish because we don't allow them to.

I’m not saying all females who’ve gotten credit have done nothing. What I’m saying is that there have been discoveries/ideas that were attributed to women when they had fuck-all to do with them. Guys aren’t getting credit for discoveries/ideas in the modern era just for being male. Yes, Serena would demolish me, she’s better than all but the top male pros. I just hate how people say “she’s the greatest tennis player ever.” Katie Ledecky is a great swimmer but to say she’s better than prime Phelps, gimme a break!

 

[CuriousObserver]

I’m not saying all females who’ve gotten credit have done nothing. What I’m saying is that there have been discoveries/ideas that were attributed to women when they had fuck-all to do with them. Guys aren’t getting credit for discoveries/ideas in the modern era just for being male. Yes, Serena would demolish me, she’s better than all but the top male pros. I just hate how people say “she’s the greatest tennis player ever.” Katie Ledecky is a great swimmer but to say she’s better than prime Phelps, gimme a break!

I suppose the world is overcompensating; Women have been shafted for a long time (no, not that kind of shafted).
But i see what you're saying though. I still have faint hope that the younger generations will finally achieve a balance rather than skew to another extreme

 

[TheRealChincel]

I suppose the world is overcompensating; Women have been shafted for a long time (no, not that kind of shafted).
But i see what you're saying though. I still have faint hope that the younger generations will finally achieve a balance rather than skew to another extreme

Hopefully but I doubt it.

 

[Kurdish_Incel]

So if you got a problem with yourself you should just ignore it? Problems are there to be fixed not ignored.

 

[CuriousObserver]

So if you got a problem with yourself you should just ignore it? Problems are there to be fixed not ignored.

How do you mean? If you have a problem with yourself you should try to understand it and solve it best as you can.
I'm not sure how I gave the impression that problems should be ignored.
If your body craves sex I'm not saying you should simply supress it cos it doesn't matter. But do you also sleep with your mom just cos your brain somehow finds her attractive.
I mean that would solve the problem, would it not?
But you don't do that, instead you figure out what's really going on and you work out a good solution.
Thats all I'm saying. Sex is fine but it isn't all life is about. If you're a good person who is lucky enough to make a connection then that's great. If you aren't able to then do something else with your life and continue to be a good member of society rather than turn into some kind of sex smigol unable to appreciate anything else in life.

I really do talk too much