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How Much Do You Care About A Girl's Personality?

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I actually care a lot about a girl's personality, beliefs and value system. I want a girl whose nice, friendly, intelligent, can hold a conversation and has a similar value system and lifestyle to mine. I don't care how cute a girl is, I'm not interested in her as a romantic partner if she doesn't have a similar value system and lifestyle to that of mine.
 
Personality is important for me. Should be educated, friendly, funny and non-judgemental and also motherly.
 
Personality is basically everything to me. Sure I may have a few physical traits I look for that I think are attractive (wears glasses, hair styles one way or another) but if we connect and are able to be comfortable and normal with each other, that's important.
 
people say incels can't have standards and should take what we can get since we are at the bottom of the barrel,
but I do care about personality, sure, I can just pay a hooker some cuck money and get pity sex, but someone who actually loves me and is willing to put in as much effort as I do would be something I'm here for. but that's probably never going to happen since I'm not chad, and since im not chad, they will find someone else to do that for. all I can do is fantasize
 
I mainly care about looks but it would be really nice if she was intelligent and had a personality that I liked.
 
Unlike women most man take personality into account.I would happily past over looks( provided she isn't a complete landwhale ofc) if a girl has a kind and caring personality
 
For me

Body > Personality > Face

I say this because all the cam-girls/porn-stars I've seen, I have noticed that I dont mind if their face is munted, so long as their body is good, now add a good personality to a good body, and yep, Im all over that.

Its also 10000x easier to come across a good body than it is a good face, so having face as a first expectation is not realistic at all for me, considering its already over for me, im not pick about face, i am with body though.

Realistically all this means is just not being FAT, it doesn't mean having some kind of crazy Stacey proportions.
 
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I would love to be with a partner who would be a teammate, instead of backstabbing first chance she gets.

Honestly, I would love to have my own family. Thats like constructing a building. If the woman is just going to say, "I'm bored, onto the next!" it will just collapse on top of you.

I can also say it like this, have you ever played a coop video game? Met a partner who just knew what you needed? And you seemed to know what he needed. Together as a team it was like clockwork, effortless. Everyone worked to make the team better. That, only with a foid.

But I am getting ahead of myself. It is just dreams, after all. :feelsbadman:
If I can get an erection, congratulations, you are looks qualified!
 
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More than her looks.
I prefer a girl who is not a cumdumpster
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Personality is as important as looks. A unfaithful annoying and slutty hole is a horrible thing.
 
For me

Body > Personality > Face

I say this because all the cam-girls/porn-stars I've seen, I have noticed that I dont mind if their face is munted, so long as their body is good, now add a good personality to a good body, and yep, Im all over that.

Its also 10000x easier to come across a good body than it is a good face, so having face as a first expectation is not realistic at all for me, considering its already over for me, im not pick about face, i am with body though.

Realistically all this means is just not being FAT, it doesn't mean having some kind of crazy Stacey proportions.
To the T. This.
(Minus the part about camwhores :feelsugh: - NOFAP crew)
 
it's pretty important. not as important as looks but id much prefer a 5/10 girl who shares my hobbies over an 8/10 feminist partygirl
 
It would actually be preferable if she did not have any particular personality at all, since her main purpose would be to have sex with me. Her sexual attractiveness would thus though be far more important than her personality. It would be preferable if she also had some intelligence though, in case that I would breed with her, but that is not a personality trait, and it can neither be expected from a female to display any sort of intelligence.
 
As i said my biggest problem is i really tend to value her psychology too much. I think i will ignore many phisical flaws if she is able to love me in an altruistic way (as a man does with a woman). However i think it would be much more realistic to desire a fucking 8.5/10 stacy since women are materially incapable of feeling that kind of affection (cause of natural adaptation/different amount of white matter etc...)
 
Lol as if foids have different personalities. They are literally all the same just want to fuck chad.
 
a girl who is a christian,keeps her vows,serves her husband and god,keeps her virginity till marriage,is kind etc etc is the ideal.it doesn't matter since i will never have sex with a female much less marry one kek
 
A good personality trait is to be horny for me
 
Foids don't have personalities
 
I barely care.
 
I would like a girl who is not thirsty for Chad, isn't easy to manipulate and actually improves herself.
Ofc most holes these days are just lazy whores who can sit on their ass watching netflix all day and still receive messages from Chad.
 
Foid personality is a meme.

They literally have no personality at all and are identical Chad-hungry clones when it comes to their "minds".

I suspect they aren't even conscious or self-aware to the extent that men are.
 
Personality is important for me. Should be educated, friendly, funny and non-judgemental and also motherly.


I dont even need her to be educated tbh everything else you mentioned is a must and she also needs to know her place.
 
Personality doesn't mean anything to me tbh.

She could be a weird antisocial bitch, but if her body is banging and she's DTF, I could care less
 
I,want her to be femiine white big breasts , big ass small weist beautiful face . Young and believe in long term relationship tbh ngl .
 
Personality is important for me. Should be educated, friendly, funny and non-judgemental and also motherly.
That’s the bingo of female personality
 
I actually care a lot about a girl's personality, beliefs and value system. I want a girl whose nice, friendly, intelligent, can hold a conversation and has a similar value system and lifestyle to mine. I don't care how cute a girl is, I'm not interested in her as a romantic partner if she doesn't have a similar value system and lifestyle to that of mine.
100% how i feel tbh
 
Assuming she wants to fuck me I can't really afford to be picky
 
Irrelevant question. The girl won't like me back in the first place regardless.
 
looking for a diamond in the rough
 
I don't want her to be a slut or a gold digger, or violent, or retarded.
 
Loyality is very important
 
Nice crosspost you fucking retard.
 

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