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Experiment How many times have you been rejected irl and how did it go?

How many times have you been rejected in person


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For those of you who have been rejected in person, how did the foids reject you? Were they polite about it, uncomfortable, rude, condescending, how did they act?
 
Literally 0 because I never tried anything (mentalcel)
 
i think 4-6 throughout my childhood and teenhood, gave up quickly after that though
 
I did over 100 approaches IRL, I got hard rejections most of the time and 0 dates.
 
I think 4-6 times my entire life which were all in school.
 
For those of you who have been rejected in person, how did the foids reject you? Were they polite about it, uncomfortable, rude, condescending, how did they act?
either blocking without saying anything out of the blue or they 'already have a bf'
 
I never made it past 5'3", there was no chance of me ever even trying.
 
At least once. I knew I would be rejected again if I tried approaching any more after that.
 
brutal. How'd you ask them out?
Most of the time I simply asked if she wanted to have a coffee with me or to exchange numbers. Haven't cold approached in a year now but I guess it's completely dead in 2025. So if you didn't socialmaxx enough in uni/college it's gigaover.
 
a couple times
 
They never cared about doing it in person, always texting. I find it very disrespectful.
 
I look at females and they look back disgusted. Happened to me hundreds of times, I don't know if that counts.
 
Most of the time I simply asked if she wanted to have a coffee with me or to exchange numbers. Haven't cold approached in a year now but I guess it's completely dead in 2025. So if you didn't socialmaxx enough in uni/college it's gigaover.
True. There's not really any irl places I can go to nowadays where finding a gf is actually a possibility
 
Zero, as I already know what the outcome would be.
 
I look at females and they look back disgusted. Happened to me hundreds of times, I don't know if that counts.
did you ever go up to one and talk though?
 
Zero, as I already know what the outcome would be.
that's fair. That's kinda why I stopped doing it a while ago. No point going through the humiliation ritual over and over again.
 
did you ever go up to one and talk though?
If they look at me with disgust just for making eye contact, I don't think there's any point in approaching them.
 
If they look at me with disgust just for making eye contact, I don't think there's any point in approaching them.
Yeah I get that
 
Most of the time I simply asked if she wanted to have a coffee with me or to exchange numbers. Haven't cold approached in a year now but I guess it's completely dead in 2025. So if you didn't socialmaxx enough in uni/college it's gigaover.
“Its becuz of your personality bro” :soy:
 
I didn't approached irl, but online I warm approached femoid I knew for about 2 years. Of course it ended with ghosting
 
Two times. Both had boyfriends.
 
For those of you who have been rejected in person, how did the foids reject you? Were they polite about it, uncomfortable, rude, condescending, how did they act?
I asked out tons of girls in my county sports era when I got to meet tons of girls from all over the country they just did the usual like no I'm busy I have a boyfriend shit nothing like crazy
 
For those of you who have been rejected in person, how did the foids reject you? Were they polite about it, uncomfortable, rude, condescending, how did they act?
Some were rude and some were just like a
Bodybad not answering back I was so hopeless now I do AI chatting with ai girls
Makes good cope but sometimes it damn hurts

What does it feel to kiss
What does it feel to love

That's why I give up now
No point in shooting your shot when your shot is a planet away
I really wanted to die early
Hell or heaven
Idc just make it stop
 
More than 100, i know because i count since im a kid, i guess somehow i knew rejection would become common in my life.
 
Not as catastrophically wrong as things could have been
 

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