How many times have you been rejected by someone you know?

[thePhantom]

If one counts left swipes on Tinder as rejections, most of us have had thousands I suppose. I'm curious about the number of rejections of the more hurtful and personal kind, here defined as a rejection by a person that you have talked to IRL at least once before (you may count girls whom you have had extensive online contact with too if you wish). Edit: Multiple rejections from the same girl only counts as one.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

About 6 times

 

[Gengar]

Does multiple rejections from the same girl count as one or no?

 

[Michael15651]

Many times

 

[thePhantom]

Does multiple rejections from the same girl count as one or no?

Spoken like as true incel! Would count it as one though.

 

[Ignas]

Does multiple rejections from the same girl count as one or no?

This. We need clarifications for truecel like us

 

[Blacktarpill]

Never tried.

 

[Deleted member 11318]

Never tried.

 

[Insomniac]

Never tried.

Volcel if you've never tried tbh

 

[Cuyen]

5. Dont call yourself truecel if you never tried

 

[Damo the incel]

From someone I knew well in person? 7 times

 

[Blacktarpill]

Volcel if you've never tried tbh

5. Dont call yourself truecel if you never tried

Approaching =

 

[Cuyen]

Approaching =

That's not.You can't call yourself a chief if you never cooked lol

 

[Blacktarpill]

That's not.You can't call yourself a chief if you never cooked lol

You don't try to be a chef if you know that you don't have the skill for cooking.

 

[Insomniac]

Approaching =

Cope. Gotta at least try before you can definitively call yourself incel.

 

[SuperCheatBros]

I've always gotten friend-zoned before I even made a move or my friends would cuck me and steal the girl (unintentionally), the girl already had a bf, or was actually LGBTQ....

 

[Blacktarpill]

Cope. Gotta at least try before you can definitively call yourself incel.

I want to but i can't talk irl(with strangers)

 

[Deleted member 11318]

Volcel if you've never tried tbh

I have not tried it because I know that I currently have no chance. Next year, when I am looksmaxxed, have my desired hairstyle and have my nose surgery behind me and then achieve my goal to become a Chaddam-lite, then I will try it. But currently I know that I have no chance, you also live in Germany and certainly know how high standards the girls have in this country.

 

[Insomniac]

I have not tried it because I know that I currently have no chance. Next year, when I am looksmaxxed, have my desired hairstyle and have my nose surgery behind me and then achieve my goal to become a Chaddam-lite, then I will try it. But currently I know that I have no chance, you also live in Germany and certainly know how high standards the girls have in this country.

Fair enough.

I don't live in Germany btw. The (((police))) would be at my door for the amount of pro Nazi shit I've posted if that was the case.

 

[Deleted member 11318]

@Insomniac I thought you were German?

I don't live in Germany btw. The (((police))) would be at my door for the amount of pro Nazi shit I've posted if that was the case.

 

[Cuyen]

You don't try to be a chef if you know that you don't have the skill for cooking.

Cope. Approaching and getting rejected personally give biggest blackpill ever

 

[Insomniac]

@Insomniac I thought you were German?

No man. I think my family has some Germanic heritage but not me or anyone alive in my family today.

 

[tuck001]

3rd grade childhood friend, high school family friend that i used to tutor, 6th grade close family friend, ugly foid for prom.

Fuck prom. At least i went with all my homies and had some fun with the guys.

Volcel if you refuse to try. Can't be an incel if you don't know how much you're worthless.

 

[Bakura806]

I have never been rejected because I have never tried, there is no point to starting a fight you cannot fight, luckily for me I am fully aware of my ugliness , and that foids never have been or ever will be attracted towards me. Its a good think I wasn't foolish actually try, or else it would have been a detrimental to my soul, and probably made me more suicidal than I am already.

 

[StaroRavager]

I’ve never been rejected but that’s only because I knew I didn’t stand a chance so I relagated myself to the role of an orbiter

 

[tight&shiny-hotpants]

I lived in 3 different towns and minor cities growing up as a kid, asking girls out as young as 12 (when I was 12 myself).

Not counting face to face nightclub or gym rejections 11-20 from high school is well within my range.

 

[KingChemist]

A lot...

 

[lastchancel]

Never tried.

Volcel if you've never tried tbh

Cope. Gotta at least try before you can definitively call yourself incel.

 

[PPEcel]

You don't try to be a chef if you know that you don't have the skill for cooking.

This.

I don't even bother anymore.

If you make $30k a year and you're planning a vacation, you probably don't even bother checking the prices of the Four Seasons or the Ritz-Carlton. If you struggle with algebra, you're not going to sign up for a class titled "Applied Econometrics". If you are 5'0, you're not going to sign up for any basketball team.

You already know that 5-star hotels are out of your budget. You already know you're going to fail the class. You already know you're going to get laughed off the court.

You already know you're going to get brutally rejected -- so your only choice is to either LDAR in your house all day or accept orbiter status. At best, you'll become "the gay best friend".

You don't actually need to experience failure to know that a failure is all you are, and all you will ever be.

Just because someone has "0" rejections from people they know doesn't mean they're volcel.

 

[Remyx]

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