How many of you try to normiemax? What do you do to "fit in" if when you normiemax?

[Kan>Foids]

It's something I engage in but only when I'm at work because I have no choice if I want to stay employed and have a roof over my head.

I don't like it at all, because I think most of it just nonsense and also because it takes a lot of energy and patience. Having to listen to them drone on about horseshit I couldn't care less about, actively hate, or are completely ignorant about (aka sports drivel and personal drama) means I'm stuck out of 99% of interactions with them. I've had a couple of people who actually liked the stuff I do (gaming, anime, nerd shit, etc), but that's very rare.

Do any of you have better experiences with trying to camouflage your inceldom to others by assimilating the alien world of normie behavior? If so, how do normie males and foids respond differently to your attempts?

 

[Animecel2D]

For someone like me, there’s just no fitting in with normies no matter what I do

 

[Kan>Foids]

For someone like me, there’s just no fitting in with normies no matter what I do

Is it your looks, lack of common interests, quietness, or what?

For me, I think it's mostly my not caring about their crap, but I also know that I'm pretty ugly so that definitely doesn't help matters.

 

[LayDownAndKakarot]

Enough to not be humiliated all of the time, but never enough to ascend. That’s been the story of my life.

 

[Pride]

Started smoking and drinking, started listening to music I didn’t like, bought expensive clothes and shoes, I even started “acting” more nt/confident. It took me a long time to accept that these people just didn’t care, no matter how much I tried to fit in they simply did not care about my existence.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Can't camouflage with this face

 

[yakusai]

Is it your looks

Yes.

 

[Ndp]

i did it sometimes in my life but it's always useless since i give up no matter how much i try

 

[LocalDrunkard2016]

I tried a lot , didnt work for the most part .

 

[Belowthesalt]

I actively avoid it.

 

[Domery]

I used to try to make normie friends, but i gave up.

 

[Peroz Shapur]

For someone like me, there’s just no fitting in with normies no matter what I do

Even if you're borderline NT, if you're even a little bit ND, they'll be able to tell. It's evolutionary and innate.

It's like how when a Fed tries to LARP as a Schizo, or when a ND Foid from IT tries to LARP as an Incel. We can tell they're not Schizos / Inkwells.

Likewise Normies can tell we're ND.

 

[Peroz Shapur]

Enough to not be humiliated all of the time, but never enough to ascend. That’s been the story of my life.

You'll never be able to ascend even if you're trying 24/7 like it's a 9/5. If you know what this forum is and are ND enough to have your application approved it's over for you.

 

[Cryo]

No.

 

[Peroz Shapur]

I actively avoid it.

Smart, if you try to make friends with Normies they will just humiliate you outright or use you as a Lolwcow

 

[INVERTER]

I tried endless barhopping solo, trying to be a clown, doing PUA and whatever other nonsense

 

[Animecel2D]

Is it your looks, lack of common interests, quietness, or what?

All three I’d say

 

[Swagpilled]

joined in 2025, you don't know me. There's no point. I tried all my life. They can smell it. Unprompted they come up to ridicule you and laugh about it with their friends. to your "friendgroups" you are nothing more than a disposable joke. Your only purpose is to be the scapegoat that gets ridiculed by everyone else. When you are the lowest there is nom chance anyone is below you, so everyone can use you like a public hole. If nobody has come up to you in public, unprompted, to ridicule you, for nothing other than a quick joke, I don't even consider you close to me and I wish painful death on you. They wouldn't do this for someone normal. I believe your body produces hormones that have a certain smell and if you have the autism gene (trademarked) you smell like rancid, rotting shit. Like a fly is attracted to a pile of shit, normies are attracted to you, eager to improve their social status and show how normal and adjusted they are to their friends. You are nothing more than a tool to society, a step stool to show there is something below them. A creature not worthy of life, yet it exists.

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

My whole life has been trying to fit in.

 

[Swagpilled]

My whole life has been trying to fit in.

I spent the majority of my life doing this. I spent years of my life figuring out how to "fit in". All in vain. You will never be accepted. Regardless of my looks, which are enough to seek a status reliant normie into ecstacy, for the status boost he is about to receive by kicking down on me, it takes less than 5 minutes of talking to realise I'm nothing more than a subhuman, staus boost-esque, subhuman, that is not worth talking to aside from boosting your status and showing how compassionate you are for "treating the less lucky individuals" like human beings, boosting your humanity among your disgusting normie friends, until they eventually forget about my existence in abut 30 minutes

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

t years of my life figuring out how to "fit in". All in vain. You will never be accepted.

I feel more accepted here than a lot of groups in person.
Being a sub5 taught me how to larp.
I’m okay at fitting in now but I will never truly be like them.

 

[outerdarkness]

Tried, but I’m not neurotypical so it wasn’t going to work no matter how hard I tried.

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

until they eventually forget about my existence in abut 30 minutes

This is why I hate normies. They make me feel sickER and sickER.

 

[Swagpilled]

I feel more accepted here than a lot of groups in person.
Being a sub5 taught me how to larp.
I’m okay at fitting in now but I will never truly be like them.

I could never fit in. Going through life, there has never, ever, been a group, that, not being exclusively online, has accepted me as part of them. Every real life event, I stand out. Every real life group, I'm at best a step-stool. Nobody would accept me. Everywhere I go, I am alone.

 

[Swagpilled]

This is why I hate normies. They make me feel sickER and sickER.

My closest interactions to human life are normie groups coming up to me, pretending I'm a part of them, asking "do you have a girlfriend?" the answer being obvious, the question at best, being a bet between actualk friends.

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

Everywhere I go, I am alone.

At least BP is a thing at my school.

 

[Solid State]

Sort of...I mean, in various low-level retail jobs I have had in the past, nobody really gave a shit about the details of employees either from the management or customer side as long as you could put away inventory, run a cash register or know where stuff was in the store. You might not have been on the fast track to promotion, but since you were just doing it to make a buck, it did not really matter.

In the professional world, I have found ways to "fit in" from the standpoint that people could tell I was somewhat eccentric or "off" but useful because I was good at my job so I have quickly gotten used to being regarded as being a quiet NPC by my fellow employees at the office. I was never invited to hang out with anybody outside of work at the bars or other places because I was never part of the office cool crowd and everybody tends to forget I even exist in many of my workplaces.

 

[VeryNiceGuy]

I remember that in highschool tried to fit it in with the cool kids but never got quiet accepted, then i slowly started to give up in achieving that kind of life and became really introverted, then in uni i got more friends but they did make fun of me a lot of times so i questioned their "friendship" and cut all ties, now im all alone and dont care about socializing at all i just leech from my parents dont even greet people unless it feels really uncomfortable, am very apathetic nowdays

 

[LostSoulUK]

no normiemaxxing for ur face