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Discussion How many of you have the goal of getting a girlfriend for this year?

Is getting a girlfriend your goal for this year?

  • Yes

    Votes: 32 41.0%
  • No

    Votes: 46 59.0%

  • Total voters
    78
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Is that one of you're goals? Are you gonna try to do something to achieve it?

In my case, I have given up entirely on that goal or any goals in particular. I just want to ldar hoping my death will come soon.
 
Yes that is my goal. I should try one approach a month. Hell, I might even kick it up to two if things go well.
 
Eh its a goal every year but idk if ill actually even bother
 
Any hole is a goal, bro.
 
would be a miracle
 
I'll try but I doubt anything will happen
 
Even a pothole?
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Not a gf necessarily but getting laid without paying yeah.
Relationships are cucked anyways and girls are bitches.
 
I don't have a goal to get a gf because I know I'd fail.
But I have a wish I could get one because a miracle could happen.
 
Volcel if not. And hey i got a tindermatch today ‍♂️. Hope dies last even though it is hopless.
 
I was taught that goals were supposed to be realistic
 
Not a gf necessarily but getting laid without paying yeah.
Relationships are cucked anyways and girls are bitches.
Same here. I’ve gone full MSTOW that I don’t plan on ever getting married. I do want to lose my virginity and don’t want to resort to escortceling.
 
I vividly remember going into 2016 thinking, "I'll try and make this the year I finally get a girlfriend".

Now, some four years and 200+ approaches later, I know the writing's on the wall and it's no more than a pipe dream.
 
Once you're in your 30s you've long since given up
 
has been my goal for the past 8 years :feelskek:
 
I've already given up all hope.
There's no way it's happening regardless, so I won't even bother trying to make it a goal.
 
I think only about revolution.
 
I have given up, might consider escortmaxxing.
 
lol no its already over
 
It's been my goal before and I've failed, will I get one this year? I doubt it. :no:
 
Nah I'm just kinda at the stage where it's too late for true love
 
My goal is to find a job and get settled, then I will embark on my final approaching campaign. If that fails, I'm done with women.
 
I´m balding fast as hell. So i´l give it a last shot
 
My goal is to not kill myself, I've been meeting more and more men IRL also giving up on love, who just wanna adopt a dog, or some other cope, and not think about women for a year.
 
If you have any hope for ever getting a gf, youre fakecel. That or just extremely delusional and bluepilled.

No coping around this.
Hope = fakecel / bluepilled
 
My goal is to purchase a sex doll
My goal is to not kill myself, I've been meeting more and more men IRL also giving up on love, who just wanna adopt a dog, or some other cope, and not think about women for a year.
So men are adopting the dogpill but instead with female dogs :feelskek:
lol no its already over
Never over for pretty boy changs
 
Nope, it's delusional to have that goal for me.
 
No not this year or any other year for that matter, why bother I'm soon turning 31
 
fakecel if you think you look good enough for that to happen
 
That's a stupid goal, because you assume it's in your hand when it's not. It doesn't depend on you. The only thing you can take as a goal is trying.
 
I only have 1 goal this year, and that is to get surgery
 
Yes, but I have goals that supersede it.
 
Hate to rain on your parade boyos but what makes a +1 to the calendar year going to change anything ?
If it happens for you I wish u the best but don't get dangerously optimistic.
 
My goal is to get a driver licence, so I finally can drive into the sunset.
 
Its been my “goal” for the past 7 new yrs but unfortunately ive never been able to achieve it
 
I just want surgerymoney or an exit.
 
I only have the goal of making a lot of money

IF I get money, I'll try to find a younger woman so I can have something that doesn't resemble the pathetic slave life of most men who start seriously dating in their 30s (giving all their hard earned money to an old divorced feminist woman)
 
Goals are supposed to be realistic and attainable or they don't work as motivation and you will end up even more depressed.

Is like having the goal of going to the moon during 2020,is extremely unlikely to happen during this year (if ever) and you will end sadder and even more depressed when you don't get it.

Instead if your goal is to lose 10kg during 2020 that's an acceptable and realistic goal, you may fail anyway,but it's far more likely to happen and that gives you motivation.

Same with the gf thing,for me it's pretty much a lost cause,I should rather concentrate on more productive things like losing weight or learning to code or get some skills.
 

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