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I know I shouldn't because it's not my fault. I've been doing my best and shouldn't blame myself.
But today I'm getting these feelings of guilt and shame over being a 30+ virgin. It's remarkable how much society shames and blames us, it's not even about having a girlfriend per se at this point, I just feel horrible about myself.
There's the fact that society values men according to our success with women. The fact that I'm missing a key part of life and anyone would think I'm incredibly weird for it. The fact that people in early 20s already feel bad about having no sexual experiences, so imagine how fucking horrible I must be. All of this is making me feel like shit.
I feel so fucking bad that I just wish I had had a gf at some point. Don't even care about not having one that much (which I still care about a lot, obviously), I'm mostly just ashamed of myself. I'm usually cool about it but today it's hitting so hard.
But today I'm getting these feelings of guilt and shame over being a 30+ virgin. It's remarkable how much society shames and blames us, it's not even about having a girlfriend per se at this point, I just feel horrible about myself.
There's the fact that society values men according to our success with women. The fact that I'm missing a key part of life and anyone would think I'm incredibly weird for it. The fact that people in early 20s already feel bad about having no sexual experiences, so imagine how fucking horrible I must be. All of this is making me feel like shit.
I feel so fucking bad that I just wish I had had a gf at some point. Don't even care about not having one that much (which I still care about a lot, obviously), I'm mostly just ashamed of myself. I'm usually cool about it but today it's hitting so hard.