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SuicideFuel how many of you are 30+ virgins?

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I know I shouldn't because it's not my fault. I've been doing my best and shouldn't blame myself.

But today I'm getting these feelings of guilt and shame over being a 30+ virgin. It's remarkable how much society shames and blames us, it's not even about having a girlfriend per se at this point, I just feel horrible about myself.

There's the fact that society values men according to our success with women. The fact that I'm missing a key part of life and anyone would think I'm incredibly weird for it. The fact that people in early 20s already feel bad about having no sexual experiences, so imagine how fucking horrible I must be. All of this is making me feel like shit.

I feel so fucking bad that I just wish I had had a gf at some point. Don't even care about not having one that much (which I still care about a lot, obviously), I'm mostly just ashamed of myself. I'm usually cool about it but today it's hitting so hard.
 
@ilieknothing is one. Don't know for sure about others. There are a good amount of them but I think they aren't as active.
 
how are you coping?
I took care of my finances in my late 20's and this made the inceldom bearable now, when I'm in my early 30's. I'm also saving up for surgeries currently so I still have some hope left in me
 
I took care of my finances in my late 20's and this made the inceldom bearable now, when I'm in my early 30's. I'm also saving up for surgeries currently so I still have some hope left in me
that's based and giga IQ

having hope makes things better tbh

with surgery you'll probably get to have a good "personality" jfl
 
Not 30 yet, but... not far to go. Also I am a definite 1/10 (not exaggerating), hence I will be a virgin at 30.

I could go book a sex-escort (legal here) but it's not what I ultimately want.
 
that's based and giga IQ

having hope makes things better tbh

with surgery you'll probably get to have a good "personality" jfl
Yeah man, if your stats aren't the worst truecel tier ones then you should try surgeries before completely giving up. It's not like we have much to lose anyways. Also money helps feeling less depressed and exhausted immensely
 
Yeah man, if your stats aren't the worst truecel tier ones then you should try surgeries before completely giving up. It's not like we have much to lose anyways. Also money helps feeling less depressed and exhausted immensely

i dont have a lot of money but i make enough to be comfy while working remotely. to me that's good enough except i can't afford a downpayment for a home, but dont care about that right now

right now im doing something which is somewhat close to surgery and it's growing a beard for the first time. it will hide my remarkably recessed chin that is the main major defect in my face and makes me fucking pathetic. i feel like a retard for not thinking about this before and shaving all my life. i dont know if it will work or be comparable to surgery
 
elaborate brocel

how are you coping

im usually cool about it. i think it's not my fault and im doing my best. but today it's hitting so fucking hard. i started thinking about it when i woke up and couldn't get it off my mind for the entire day. i just keep thinking about how much of a fucking loser people would think i am if they knew it. its not even about having a gf at this point which i really wish i did obviously, but what is making me really depressed today in particular is just feeling ashamed of myself
 
i dont have a lot of money but i make enough to be comfy while working remotely. to me that's good enough except i can't afford a downpayment for a home, but dont care about that right now

right now im doing something which is somewhat close to surgery and it's growing a beard for the first time. it will hide my remarkably recessed chin that is the main major defect in my face and makes me fucking pathetic. i feel like a retard for not thinking about this before and shaving all my life. i dont know if it will work or be comparable to surgery
Yeah I have the same problem, extremely recessed chin and genioplasty is the way since I can't grow a beard to save my life man :fuk: it's patchy af. Though I heard minoxidil works might as well try it out
 
In December I will be.
 
I know I shouldn't because it's not my fault. I've been doing my best and shouldn't blame myself.

But today I'm getting these feelings of guilt and shame over being a 30+ virgin. It's remarkable how much society shames and blames us, it's not even about having a girlfriend per se at this point, I just feel horrible about myself.

There's the fact that society values men according to our success with women. The fact that I'm missing a key part of life and anyone would think I'm incredibly weird for it. The fact that people in early 20s already feel bad about having no sexual experiences, so imagine how fucking horrible I must be. All of this is making me feel like shit.

I feel so fucking bad that I just wish I had had a gf at some point. Don't even care about not having one that much (which I still care about a lot, obviously), I'm mostly just ashamed of myself. I'm usually cool about it but today it's hitting so hard.
Next month I gonna be 30 :feelscry:
 
Yeah I have the same problem, extremely recessed chin and genioplasty is the way since I can't grow a beard to save my life man :fuk: it's patchy af. Though I heard minoxidil works might as well try it out

yea im taking minoxidil pills. it reversed norwooding along with dutasteride
 
Why not escortmaxx once just to get it out of your system? Also next year I'll be 30, brutal as fuck :fuk::feelsrope:
 
Why not escortmaxx once just to get it out of your system? Also next year I'll be 30, brutal as fuck :fuk::feelsrope:

i wanted to escortmaxx but the idea made me anxious

some friends almost called me a premium escort. i was going to go through with it but it hit me that i didnt actually want to, just wanted to "get it out of my system" out of social shaming but didn't actually want to fuck a whore, so told them not to call her
 
Why not escortmaxx once just to get it out of your system? Also next year I'll be 30, brutal as fuck :fuk::feelsrope:
It's not the same man, I think you have had escortemaxx once I have done that too :feelscry:

It's bullcrap man :feelsbadman: I'll be 30 too in one month
 
In two months i will reach Jesus age
 
:feelscry::feelscry: i feel you boyo
Even if you are not virgin at 30 the fact never have had a gf its just depressive :feelsbadman:

I have just accepted my fate now
 
I'm late 30s KHV.

There's the fact that society values men according to our success with women. The fact that I'm missing a key part of life and anyone would think I'm incredibly weird for it.

Which is why you should lie.

Here's a guide on how to do it:

 
I'm late 30s KHV.



Which is why you should lie.

Here's a guide on how to do it:

I wish i could hypnotise normies like Lelouch and command them to migrate to africa and get eaten by lions. And foids would give me segz
 
I'm a wizard. It's beyond brutal knowing how far I have fallen behind my peers. I see them buying homes, marrying and starting families. And knowing it's only going to get worse if I persist like this fills me with dread. :fuk:
 
I'm late 30s KHV.



Which is why you should lie.

Here's a guide on how to do it:

giga IQ
 
Early 30s and totally hopeless.
 
I'm a wizard. It's beyond brutal knowing how far I have fallen behind my peers. I see them buying homes, marrying and starting families. And knowing it's only going to get worse if I persist like this fills me with dread. :fuk:
i feel you brocel, it's both the shame and the dread of feeling worse later on
 
i turn 30 in like 10 years so idk
 
28 and still virgin,never kissed a single foid
 
@Emba is 30 years older than you he is the grandad of this forum
 
Raise Hand GIF by Nick Jonas
 
i just turned 27 and never had any interaction with foid other than forced one in school by teachers or in my wagie job
 

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