25? I'd have to check my GoER watch to see how many times the earth has circled the sun since my birth
I was 30 when i lost my virginity.
Validation is extremely important, but there are other sources for it (e.g. friends, developing skills/talents, recognition at work, etc). The problem is a lot of guys on this site lack these things. I think the key to being happy is having a constant supply of both sex and validation, regardless of how it's achieved. Like I would be perfectly happy fucking escorts if I could afford to do it every week and get my validation fix elsewhere.
I don't get how you guys get so caught up on validation, the last time I cared about impressing anyone of having anyone think highly of me was like at age 10 and it was my parents. Validation is useless, its just ego driven nonsense and its going to lead many to make bad decisions in their efforts to attain it, they'll sacrifice things of objective worth over something that is subjective and arbitrary.
Also what you said about getting validation from friends, developing skills, etc confuses me, I don't think anyone seeks these things out for validation, they do it because its beneficial to their existence or entertaining, recognition at work isn't about being validated, its about being seen as a good worker so you can get a promotion and make more money.
I don't understand how you guys get so caught up in your own egos despite being losers, its really ironic, I'd more expect this mindset from a normie or chad, but a lot of self professed incels who have no social life seem to still be clutching so tightly to their egos even though its to no benefit.
I think the key to being happy is having a constant supply of both sex and entertainment.
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idk man, it's just how I'm built. Maybe because I never got it from my family. I was never praised or recognized for anything when I was younger. If I got an A in school they would ask why it wasn't an A+. They were just critical of everything I did, even if I was outperforming them.
30 V
1. Asian parents? (I know I'm stereotyping hardcore JFL)
2. I understand its a part of you, its has and continues to be a part of a lot of us, but why not just abandon the mindset, if I compared my current self to my self at around 14 he's a completely different person. Ego driven, "caring", "kind", "hopeful", etc. Why still latch on to past weaknesses?
As long as you are chasing validation, you're going to ignore good opportunities in front of your face because you don't get an validation out of it.
Like those guys who would avoid a "boring high paying salary" because it "isn't their passion", what they really mean is that doing said job doesn't make them feel important, and they can't have that now can they. So they lose out on a great opportunity due to their own egos. I'd say our ilk is too far behind in life already to fall into that pit.
The only benefit of being black pilled is getting rid of all the mental blocks we've placed on ourselves as being a "normal person". If we continue to operate as normal people, then the black pill is really just a curse, all the negatives and none of the positives.
Does fleshlight and escort count?
Legit wizard checking in.
nah, Caribbean.
But yeah that's real
how do you feel about it now?
I'm 29, but I'm an escortcel, so I don't know If you'd count me
when did you start? How often?
only 4 times, I just wanted to confirm the difference between dream sex and real life sex. Sent 1500€ on that... it sure as hell wasn't worth that amount of money, must have been 3 or 4 years ago
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30 year old KHHV checking in
do a poll
I can't, it's too late
I felt totally unprepared, both fisically and mentally. The theory according to which if you miss teenage sex you'll never know truly what sex is, is legit. Moreover i didn't like that foid and i felt like i was losing dignity. An experience very far from being "ascension". And i've never been able to get laid again after that.
Remember when we compared cock size ?
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