Discussion How many of you actually want to get better

[mcmental]

Genuinely, “getting better” sounds good on paper as you’re mentally okay and have a social life and whatnot, but it’s all fake and you know it

Your years of rotting on forums and outcast corners of the internet will never leave you, you’ll notice that other people look at you different and no matter what you do you will always be different and nobody will ever truely understand you or even bother to have a connection that’s beyond surface

Might aswell just stay here, “getting better” is pointless as you’ll just come back here anyway

 

[A Life Of Defeat]

I absolutely would not want a social life. It would be too straining. I have too much hate and rage inside. can't even pretend anymore

 

[Neurotic]

I just want to have enough money to be able to buy a cabin off grid and live there peacefully for the rest of my life away from normies

 

[Solid State]

I already have to be on lifelong psychiatric medication for a rather serious disorder, so "getting better" has always been a question of managing a known and innate problem for me.

 

[mcmental]

I already have to be on lifelong psychiatric medication for a rather serious disorder, so "getting better" has always been a question of managing a known and innate problem for me.

I feel like that’s the case for most of the people on here
Being ND cucked me so hard

 

[Pancakecel]

I think if you're a sub5 outcast, then "getting better" means to be at peace with your situation, and have copes to distract yourself with.

Getting rich would be another one, which gives you access to surgeries, and obviously a big quality of life increase.

Outside of that, I don't think there is a true getting better.

 

[Extern]

Who the hell would prefer having an account here over not being an incel? Lol

It's true though that even if we were to ascend at this point in our lives, we would never truly be able to relate to normies. If you are here, you are 100% cursed to loneliness

 

[INVERTER]

Genuinely, “getting better” sounds good on paper as you’re mentally okay and have a social life and whatnot, but it’s all fake and you know it

Your years of rotting on forums and outcast corners of the internet will never leave you, you’ll notice that other people look at you different and no matter what you do you will always be different and nobody will ever truely understand you or even bother to have a connection that’s beyond surface

Might aswell just stay here, “getting better” is pointless as you’ll just come back here anyway

I'm always trying to get better but have mostly given up on social self improvement. I want to increase my intelligence and skills and advance in my career. I'd love to see more of the world and the national parks. I want to stay relatively healthy through continual exercise. I'd love to get better at writing music and playing guitar/using DAWs. I'd like to read more

 

[paracletus]

If you are here, you are 100% cursed to loneliness

 

[anon65]

I just want to have enough money to be able to buy a cabin off grid and live there peacefully for the rest of my life away from normies

Exactly.

 

[cactusjuice]

i gave up,i’ve accepted i’ll be no where near a vagina

 

[Pikacel]

Lowkey don’t care about improving tbh

It’s appealing yet I never do anything to change my situation

 

[nazianime]

I can’t even fathom what better is. As a concept it’s as real to me as a dragon or unicorn. They would literally have to slice parts of my mind off to a point I would be a different person. I would literally question everything if I just magically woke up in a new house/apartment with a girlfriend beside me and I would go to work and somehow be ok in whatever I was doing and coming home or going to the gym to workout before coming home and cooking or having a meal with my girlfriend. I would be looking around every corner and to see if there was a camera or wondering how I died and if this was hell trying to trick me into having hope before pulling the rug.

 

[AutismKing]

Who the hell would prefer having an account here over not being an incel? Lol

I would like not to be here as well.
Don't know how though. I never really found my people.
Normies can fit in anywhere really. People have get friends, job, love etc.
Don't know what will become of me but I am still trying

 

[A Life Of Defeat]

i was never mentally ill for reasons besides my ugliness. if i had been born white, i'd probably be a normie working a nice white collar job married to my highschool sweetheart

 

[parbate2025]

Genuinely, “getting better” sounds good on paper as you’re mentally okay and have a social life and whatnot, but it’s all fake and you know it

Your years of rotting on forums and outcast corners of the internet will never leave you, you’ll notice that other people look at you different and no matter what you do you will always be different and nobody will ever truely understand you or even bother to have a connection that’s beyond surface

Might aswell just stay here, “getting better” is pointless as you’ll just come back here anyway

I had a social life in uni and workplace but they were trying to treat me like a subcast.
So i know what will normies think of me when i try to socialize

 

[Theodoregodfd]

Getting better like not in a way to fuck, but in a way to not feel unfuckable to a foid

 

[mikail_idcel]

Genuinely, “getting better” sounds good on paper as you’re mentally okay and have a social life and whatnot, but it’s all fake and you know it

Your years of rotting on forums and outcast corners of the internet will never leave you, you’ll notice that other people look at you different and no matter what you do you will always be different and nobody will ever truely understand you or even bother to have a connection that’s beyond surface

Might aswell just stay here, “getting better” is pointless as you’ll just come back here anyway

Get better as in healthier then sure but not in the mainstream way imo

 

[UnluckyPrimate]

I don’t have hope so I don’t really care anymore, I’ll be dead within the next year and a half anyway.

 

[tired as fuck]

Genuinely, “getting better” sounds good on paper as you’re mentally okay and have a social life and whatnot, but it’s all fake and you know it

Your years of rotting on forums and outcast corners of the internet will never leave you, you’ll notice that other people look at you different and no matter what you do you will always be different and nobody will ever truely understand you or even bother to have a connection that’s beyond surface

Might aswell just stay here, “getting better” is pointless as you’ll just come back here anyway

I got better when I cut all normies out of my life. They were beginning to stray too far into territory that didn't pertain to them, like my health. Hanging out with them has become boring and depressing over the past 3-4 years, they were my friends but they were trannified and TikTok-ified and every time we used to hang together, after 5 mins they'd all be scrolling porn on Instagram or brainrot on TikTok. I had been noticing it for months but I decided to cut them off after a while and now I feel lighter.

You talk about rotting on forums but those were the best years of my life, mainly because I could talk to actually interesting people for hours on end about deeper topics like philosophy, history, mathematics, engineering etc. When I was 14-15 I was talking to people double or triple my age about these shits and it felt wayyyyyy better than trying to interact with a normie.

Other than that, the things you say in paragraphs 2 and 3 are real, I agree with you. I mainly stay in my room all day studying and go out only for exams or returning books.

 

[Grodd]

I think if you're a sub5 outcast, then "getting better" means to be at peace with your situation, and have copes to distract yourself with.

Getting rich would be another one, which gives you access to surgeries, and obviously a big quality of life increase.

Outside of that, I don't think there is a true getting better.