Experiment How many of you actually care about “love” and “validation”?

[Deleted member 27159]

At first I thought most people were over this shit almost as soon as they were blackpilled. But from a few threads I have seen lately, literally everyone spams “muh validation”, “it’s not about sex it’s about validation “

JFL at this shit. You can agree that foids are no better than property so why do you want validation from property? Also how do you even believe they are real concepts if you see that it is literally based on looks. Would you feel validated if a gold digger only dated you for money but fucked chads on the side? Because this is basically the same logic as thinking you are validated from looks. The only difference in attracting a foid with looks is because you don’t look less good after sex and you can’t easily become ugly like you can lose money.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I think that to naturally care about "love and validation" as many men do is morally wrong. Love and validation is a placebo for narcissism. The moral thing is to care about is that we end civilization. End humanity. Putting non life ahead of organic organisms is the true act of humility.

Having said that I do care about these things, but I am trying to rid myself of it,

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HEXWRTEbj1I

 

[Angry_runt]

If incels are only supposed to care about sex then every incel should concentrate on making money for escortceling and we can close the forum down.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

If incels are only supposed to care about sex then every incel should concentrate on making money for escortceling and we can close the forum down.

That’s unironically what this forum should be doing as well as trying to change the cucked laws that give roasties so much privileges

 

[Angry_runt]

That’s unironically what this forum should be doing as well as trying to change the cucked laws that give roasties so much privileges

You should read some threads about escortcel experiences.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

You should read some threads about escortcel experiences.

I feel like the threads from here will be biased because it will only be negative experiences. You can’t talk about positive experiences with escorts without getting warned for bragging.

 

[epillepsy]

love is impossible from a woman to a man, and romantic validation is a desire that comes from not understanding this.

If incels are only supposed to care about sex then every incel should concentrate on making money for escortceling and we can close the forum down.

this is a retarded, cliche thing that nonincels like to say.

not caring about impossible love and validation doesn't mean incels are only supposed to care about sex.
[UWSL]there are many problems of being an incel that can't be solved by escortcelling.[/UWSL]
it's extremely difficult to live in this world as an incel because of factors that have nothing to do with whether you fuck escorts or not.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

it's about having a stable base of attachment otherwise everything seems meaningless

 

[Angry_runt]

this is a retarded, cliche thing that nonincels like to say.
not caring about impossible love and validation doesn't mean incels are only supposed to care about sex.

I said if incels are supposed to care only about sex, which OP seems to agree with.

As for love from women being impossible, that's a major cope...
Foids do love Chad and we will never experience that, but it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

although i would want it i know that it will never happen

it only exists for attractive men because women feel real attraction towards them

It doesn’t exist for them either. It’s like saying that foids that chose a guy for money actually cares about the guy. No dude, it’s his looks that attracted them. If he got acid faced one day, the foid would leave faster than the speed of light.

it's about having a stable base of attachment otherwise everything seems meaningless

What do you mean? The only attachment one should have is to himself. Anything else is just a gamble.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

What do you mean? The only attachment one should have is to himself. Anything else is just a gamble.

a person's identity is determined by their relationships atleast outwardly
an inability to integrate oneself into the world will leave an individual alienated
historically being isolated would have been more dangerous than it is nowadays but it still triggers the same response
without a stable base you simply drift through life

 

[Eremite]

I do care about love and validation but I would have no problem being a betabux as long as she doesn't cheat on me and fuck somebody else. I don't need a deep relationship with a woman. I honestly don't even need regulary sex. I just want the basic stuff. Just a foid living with me, sleeping in the same bed as me.

 

[Deleted member 33560]

@JosefMengelcel yes this is gonna sound cucked but I really do want love and validation, especially because chad gets it for free. When women and chads have hard times in life, all they have is tons of support from their friends and family all around plus love and sex from their girlfriend but if an incel has a problem he’s forced to cope with it on top of coping with the fact that he’ll never have sex or a girlfriend. Idk man it’s kind of obvious to see why incels want love and validation even if sex is the main goal

 

[Deleted member 27159]

a person's identity is determined by their relationships atleast outwardly
an inability to integrate oneself into the world will leave an individual alienated
historically being isolated would have been more dangerous than it is nowadays but it still triggers the same response
without a stable base you simply drift through life

No it’s based on looks and status. Also it is just based on how much you get laid. If you have no relationships and get laid then you will be valued highly. You simply just need to be objectively better off than other people and you will be fine.

I do care about love and validation but I would have no problem being a betabux as long as she doesn't cheat on me and fuck somebody else. I don't need a deep relationship with a woman. I honestly don't even need regulary sex. I just want the basic stuff. Just a foid living with me, sleeping in the same bed as me.

And what is that going to do? You don’t want regular sex? There is literally no other purpose with them.

@JosefMengelcel yes this is gonna sound cucked but I really do want love and validation, especially because chad gets it for free. When women and chads have hard times in life, all they have is tons of support from their friends and family all around plus love and sex from their girlfriend but if an incel has a problem he’s forced to cope with it on top of coping with the fact that he’ll never have sex or a girlfriend. Idk man it’s kind of obvious to see why incels want love and validation even if sex is the main goal

But they don’t even exist. There is no such thing as unconditional love. Everybody pays for it in some way or another. The difference is that chads pay with looks which isn’t as easy to simply disappear or have less of like money. The only reason why people think it exists is because they don’t understand that foids are shallow creatures who only care about looks. Even chads would cucked in relationships as well. Foid hypergamy has no bounds. Foids only lust not love.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

At first I thought most people were over this shit almost as soon as they were blackpilled. But from a few threads I have seen lately, literally everyone spams “muh validation”, “it’s not about sex it’s about validation “

JFL at this shit. You can agree that foids are no better than property so why do you want validation from property? Also how do you even believe they are real concepts if you see that it is literally based on looks. Would you feel validated if a gold digger only dated you for money but fucked chads on the side? Because this is basically the same logic as thinking you are validated from looks. The only difference in attracting a foid with looks is because you don’t look less good after sex and you can’t easily become ugly like you can lose money.

I'd say I partially care but not that much maybe I think of it once a month or something. I have accepted my incel condition and meditation has purged me mostly of desire to be validated.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

Yeah , it would be a nice ego boost

 

[your personality]

I think that to naturally care about "love and validation" as many men do is morally wrong. Love and validation is a placebo for narcissism. The moral thing is to care about is that we end civilization. End humanity. Putting non life ahead of organic organisms is the true act of humility.

Having said that I do care about these things, but I am trying to rid myself of it,

You have now made enemies with Steve Hoca. He is legit one of the OGs in attacking anyone that copes with transhumanism or transcending biology.

 

[Deleted member 32183]

No it’s based on looks and status. Also it is just based on how much you get laid. If you have no relationships and get laid then you will be valued highly. You simply just need to be objectively better off than other people and you will be fine.

I you talk to 0 people you have no identity that people can discern
if you cannot integrate your mind into society you will be isolated

 

[Deleted member 33827]

I want it but I also want to live in French Riviera. Both of those things are never going to happen. So I don't waste my time thinking about it.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

I want it but I also want to live in French Riviera. Both of those things are never going to happen. So I don't waste my time thinking about it.

Better approach than most people who answered. Its like wishing an imaginary thing existed.

 

[Deleted member 34301]

Love and faithfulness is the most important thing

 

[BrettyBoy]

Not bothered about love, I do want local women to lust over me though.

 

[erenyeager]

although i would want it i know that it will never happen

it only exists for attractive men because women feel real attraction towards them

 

[cucksaar]

If incels are only supposed to care about sex then every incel should concentrate on making money for escortceling and we can close the forum down.

It’s illegal in many countries and not everyone can afford it. Plus many people would rather betabuxx than using escorts which is more expensive.

 

[Deleted member 23712]

At first I thought most people were over this shit almost as soon as they were blackpilled. But from a few threads I have seen lately, literally everyone spams “muh validation”, “it’s not about sex it’s about validation “

JFL at this shit. You can agree that foids are no better than property so why do you want validation from property? Also how do you even believe they are real concepts if you see that it is literally based on looks. Would you feel validated if a gold digger only dated you for money but fucked chads on the side? Because this is basically the same logic as thinking you are validated from looks. The only difference in attracting a foid with looks is because you don’t look less good after sex and you can’t easily become ugly like you can lose money.

That ship has long sailed

 

[Deleted member 31122]

Now, I know that women are all superficial Chad only animals so I don't give a fuck about "love" bullshit

 

[Deleted member 20064]

>Proud advocate of räpe, incest, and pedophilia​

Where you a rapey member ?

 

[Angry_runt]

It’s illegal in many countries and not everyone can afford it.

These are solvable technical issues. IMO everybody who is incel because of a solvable technical issue shouldn't be rotting here.

rather betabuxx than using escorts which is more expensive.

Are escorts more expensive than betabuxxing though? Women under 30 have been out earning men under 30 for years now so to be a betabuxxing candidate in the west you basically have to be rich and spend a lot of money on her (and good luck thinking you'll be having sex with her every day).

 

[chutmarikacel]

I wnt a girl who is devoted to me. It's only fair.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

>Proud advocate of räpe, incest, and pedophilia​

Where you a rapey member ?

Unfortunately no because I didn’t have a vpn. Also that place got infested with foids because larson thought it would turn into a non-cucked dating site or something. He mentioned that he regretted that option after seeing what happened to the site. But if a new räpey comes up I will be more than happy to join.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Yeah i would like love and validation i mean isn't that the whole point of a relationship?

I wouldn’t even want a relationship either. It’s not worth it these days. You are guaranteed to get cucked and you will waste so much money. You are better off escortcelling twice a month instead.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

That’s unironically what this forum should be doing as well as trying to change the cucked laws that give roasties so much privileges

Not everyone is satisfied with escortcelling. It's not always entirely a matter of sex, but compensating for other feelings you haven't felt enough throughout your life.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Not everyone is satisfied with escortcelling. It's not always entirely a matter of sex, but compensating for other feelings you haven't felt enough throughout your life.

Like what? The only downsides of escortcelling is you have to pay a good amount of money and it is illegal to escortcell with jbs if you are from the west.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Like what? The only downsides of escortcelling is you have to pay a good amount of money and it is illegal to escortcell with jbs if you are from the west.

All I was saying is that it isn't remotely enough for most people here.

 

[Caesercel]

Imagine letting foids decide your self worth

 

[Deleted member 27159]

All I was saying is that it isn't remotely enough for most people here.

I can see that now. Most people here will deny opportunities that will benefit them because of imaginary bluepilled concepts