Discussion How is it like to be confident? and how did people treat you when you were confident? Will confidence be treated as obnoxious?

[UglyIndian]

I know you have nothing to be confident, because of your looks. If incase if you were confident before how you got treated?

And If I get confident now how will I be treated right now in society?

I would always stay calm in class and don't talk to anyone and I cant talk to people straight to face and make eye contact and you know the reason why!!
Should I still be confident to people now regardless of how I look? And if yes how will I be treated? I am a sub5 currycel right now

 

[Animecel2D]

Yeah people told me to shut up because they thought I was obnoxious

 

[UglyIndian]

Yeah people told me to shut up because they thought I was obnoxious

Then is there a point in being confident?

 

[Animecel2D]

Then is there a point in being confident?

Yeah if you want to annoy other people and make them berate you

 

[UglyIndian]

Yeah if you want to annoy other people and make them berate you

But If I am not confident people are questioning me why am I always silent and treating me as a snob, unfriendly and they are patronizing me. I thought being confident helps but either way I am doomed. How can live my life now?

 

[Animecel2D]

But If I am not confident people are questioning me why am I always silent and treating me as a snob, unfriendly and they are patronizing me. I thought being confident helps but either way I am doomed. How can live my life now?

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t

 

[UglyIndian]

 

[Deleted member 34160]

They will shut you down fast and let you remember to stay in your lane

 

[SuccessfulShark]

It's not just being confident, it's social skills, it's not haveing anxiety, and being NT.

 

[UglyIndian]

It's not just being confident, it's social skills, it's not haveing anxiety, and being NT.

can you demonstrate it

 

[SuccessfulShark]

can you demonstrate it

No, I am somewhat asocial, but I know unnatractive guys who are very social skilled no gf tho.

 

[UglyIndian]

No, I am somewhat asocial, but I know unnatractive guys who are very social skilled no gf tho.

so socially skilled wont get me laid?

 

[SuccessfulShark]

so socially skilled wont get me laid?

It will increase your chances for sure, but it's no guarentee.

 

[UglyIndian]

It will increase your chances for sure, but it's no guarentee.

hmm I am sub5 currycel and i am looking forward to improve my communication skills and want people attention, and I wonder whether that happens or not

 

[NorthernWind]

Confidence is based on real thing. If you are strong, beautiful, smart then you're naturally confident. Ugly people cannot be confident, they need to be humble.
There is nothing more pathetic than ugly people trying to be confident or acting like they're good-looking.

 

[SuccessfulShark]

Confidence is based on real thing. If you are strong, beautiful, smart then you're naturally confident. Ugly people cannot be confident, they need to be humble.
There is nothing more pathetic than ugly people trying to be confident or acting like they're good-looking.

This is fag-tier mentality! Who cares if you look pathetic! Just do watever u want smh

 

[Tenshi]

the answer is no one really cares

 

[BrazilianLiveMatter]

people hate confident ugly guys, they want you to crawl, ugly guys who have big social circles are always the mascot of the group, the guy everyone can make fun of and ask for favors, it's the price you pay for being a socialmaxx

 

[UglyIndian]

people hate confident ugly guys, they want you to crawl, ugly guys who have big social circles are always the mascot of the group, the guy everyone can make fun of and ask for favors, it's the price you pay for being a socialmaxx

I can see a lot of ugly people being confident even they don't study well, with mediocre grades, but they are super confident and girls fall in love with them. how is it possible?

 

[NorthernWind]

This is fag-tier mentality! Who cares if you look pathetic! Just do watever u want smh

It is reality. Fag-tier is believing in 'confidence' or 'self-improvement'. You're either confident or not. You cannot change it. Like if you short, you cannot just 'improve' your height.

people hate confident ugly guys, they want you to crawl, ugly guys who have big social circles are always the mascot of the group, the guy everyone can make fun of and ask for favors, it's the price you pay for being a socialmaxx

They always put you in the last place.

 

[BrazilianLiveMatter]

I can see a lot of ugly people being confident even they don't study well, with mediocre grades, but they are super confident and girls fall in love with them. how is it possible?

what's the level of these girls?, ugly and shy foids who don't dare show their ass on instagram don't get validation from any guy, so they turn to socialmaxx guys

 

[NorthernWind]

I can see a lot of ugly people being confident even they don't study well, with mediocre grades, but they are super confident and girls fall in love with them. how is it possible?

Then they aren't that ugly.

 

[UglyIndian]

what's the level of these girls?, ugly and shy foids who don't dare show their ass on instagram don't get validation from any guy, so they turn to socialmaxx guys

they are literally best girls in class with aesthetic looks and they fall for assholes, not saying for too ugly dudes but they are bad guys and not good ones who dont respect girls and treat them like shit ( in india)

Then they aren't that ugly.

but they are assholes they dont study and they even have all bad habits like smoking and drinking but girls still go for them, why is that? (in india)

 

[AllanKing]

it is no use if you have nothing to be confident about

but they are assholes they dont study and they even have all bad habits like smoking and drinking but girls still go for them, why is that? (in india)

the girls are assholes as well， they don't have proper parents' education，and in this age they think it is cool to look bad ，they are in rebellious phase，so just study hard，study is way more important than relationship in India highschool just like China?
I think India is relatively conservative，having sex not so common before adulthood?

 

[UglyIndian]

it is no use if you have nothing to be confident about

the girls are assholes as well， they don't have proper parents' education，and in this age they think it is cool to look bad ，they are in rebellious phase，so just study hard，study is way more important than relationship in India highschool just like China?
I think India is relatively conservative，having sex not so common before adulthood?

They have sex if they reach above 23 or some thing when they re doing jobs if they have boy friend, and right now these women just hang around with these giys have kisses and these guys spend money for them

 

[AllanKing]

They have sex if they reach above 23 or some thing when they re doing jobs if they have boy friend, and right now these women just hang around with these giys have kisses and these guys spend money for them

are you in high school? if so，study hard， it is way much more important than having relationship，it is so in China， and I guess it is also this in India if you have the opportunity to enter college，so don't waste too much time on this forum，these guys mostly from western countries and their situations are very different from yours，don't care too much about what they said， try your best to enter a good college， when you look back，it is way more memorable than having an early relationship，trust me，kid

 

[InMyCellInHell]

I know you have nothing to be confident, because of your looks. If incase if you were confident before how you got treated?

And If I get confident now how will I be treated right now in society?

I would always stay calm in class and don't talk to anyone and I cant talk to people straight to face and make eye contact and you know the reason why!!
Should I still be confident to people now regardless of how I look? And if yes how will I be treated? I am a sub5 currycel right now

People saw through my confidence and laughed in my face. I stopped the charade immediately thereafter.

 

[UglyIndian]

are you in high school? if so，study hard， it is way much more important than having relationship，it is so in China， and I guess it is also this in India if you have the opportunity to enter college，so don't waste too much time on this forum，these guys mostly from western countries and their situations are very different from yours，don't care too much about what they said， try your best to enter a good college， when you look back，it is way more memorable than having an early relationship，trust me，kid

My aim is to do higher education in west and pursue a masters degree and I am currently doing my bachelors degree in india i am 20 years old, and I know I have to study well but I dont have any aim in life as i look ugly my goal is to get sex a lot but as an ugly it is impossible for me, do you think if I study well and do masters in west my future will be good?

 

[AllanKing]

My aim is to do higher education in west and pursue a masters degree and I am currently doing my bachelors degree in india i am 20 years old, and I know I have to study well but I dont have any aim in life as i look ugly my goal is to get sex a lot but as an ugly it is impossible for me, do you think if I study well and do masters in west my future will be good?

at least you can get very well paid jobs in India，so you can have good choices in indian dating market
to pursue master degree in west is very expensive relative to Indian income， so you must be very rich in India

 

[UglyIndian]

at least you can get very well paid jobs in India，so you can have good choices in indian dating market
to pursue master degree in west is very expensive relative to Indian income， so you must be very rich in India

No, i am not rich I want to come there by taking study loan and and i will pay off all of the money after I get a job in west. Do you think it's wise decision?

 

[AllanKing]

No, i am not rich I want to come there by taking study loan and and i will pay off all of the money after I get a job in west. Do you think it's wise decision?

I think it is， if I had your vision at your age!

 

[erenyeager]

Yeah people told me to shut up because they thought I was obnoxious

Same. It's over. Why they tell us to be confident and yet they do the opposite thing when you do become confident

 

[Mecoja]

I dont know what being confident even means,

 

[UglyIndian]

I think it is， if I had your vision at your age!

How old are you now?

 

[crew2]

I dont know what being confident even means,

I made a thread about this a while back. When foids say that you should "be more confident" they mean you should "LOOK more confident", some of them even come out and say that. What people don't realise is that certain men LOOK confident because they have features that exude confidence. Henry Cavill has a confident jawline and a confident hunter eye area for example.

Here's the thread in question where some Brazillian plastic surgeon made some guys who looked unconfident look much more confident:-

Proof that looking 'confident' means looking good facially in most cases

I've lost count of the amount of times people have either said I should "have more confidence" or I "just don't look confident" and that this is what is the cause of my problems with women. I think it is important to cut through the fluffy cowardly garbage and realise what people MEAN when they...

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[NorthernWind]

Sellers of false hope want to create an illusion that with some effort everyone can be confident. No, it is not true. I'm confident enough to write in incels.is in English despite the fact that I don't know English well. But if I were blind or uneducated, I simply couldn't do that, even if I had huge confidence. Just like some people approach girls and go on the dates because they have some basics ( usually looks ) for that.

 

[AllanKing]

How old are you now?

27 and achieved nothing， I went to a famous university at 16yo

 

[NorthernWind]

I made a thread about this a while back. When foids say that you should "be more confident" they mean you should "LOOK more confident", some of them even come out and say that. What people don't realise is that certain men LOOK confident because they have features that exude confidence. Henry Cavill has a confident jawline and a confident hunter eye area for example.

Here's the thread in question where some Brazillian plastic surgeon made some guys who looked unconfident look much more confident:-

Proof that looking 'confident' means looking good facially in most cases

I've lost count of the amount of times people have either said I should "have more confidence" or I "just don't look confident" and that this is what is the cause of my problems with women. I think it is important to cut through the fluffy cowardly garbage and realise what people MEAN when they...

incels.is

How you can be confident with women if you look like that, for example?

 

[crew2]

How you can be confident with women if you look like that, for example?
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Yep exactly. That's what I mean.

 

[UglyIndian]

27 and achieved nothing， I went to a famous university at 16yo

Ohh so it is a right decision to come to west to pursue masters then right? Even though I cannot get laid here that's not a problem for me, my plan is to gain some good amount of money and fuck escorts and high end escorts. Do you suggest me to proceed to this?

How you can be confident with women if you look like that, for example?
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True lmao

 

[AllanKing]

Ohh so it is a right decision to come to west to pursue masters then right? Even though I cannot get laid here that's not a problem for me, my plan is to gain some good amount of money and fuck escorts and high end escorts. Do you suggest me to proceed to this?

True lmao

yeah and if you become rich， you can come back to India and slay，money is very important in Indian dating market

 

[SuccessfulShark]

they are literally best girls in class with aesthetic looks and they fall for assholes, not saying for too ugly dudes but they are bad guys and not good ones who dont respect girls and treat them like shit ( in india)

but they are assholes they dont study and they even have all bad habits like smoking and drinking but girls still go for them, why is that? (in india)

You clearly don't know of the dark triad pill. The most brutal and ultimate pill in my opinion.

 

[Michael15651]

I rarely feel confident unless I walk into a designer cloth store and spend $500+ on clothes I plan on wearing. Although those are extremely rare

 

[Paperman]

The weakest normies are confident, so we should be confident; if people don't like it, fuck 'em.