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Serious How important is money in a relationship?

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I have about 30000$ in the bank. I've been thinking of buying a small house and i want to live a minimalist life, i don't wanna buy unecessary things cause i don't need them. Quit my current job and get a part time job so i can get more free time, earn like 800$/month. Will i be able to start a relationship living like this? Can i afford to have children with this income?

I want to have children but i'm afraid i will be rejected by foids cause of my poor income and future small house. Also no drivers license. Is it over? Will i have to get a more high paid job and live a wagecuck life so i can betabux? Even with my current income i don't even think foids will be pleased with me. I currently earn 1500$/month and it's a full time job. Do you need a high paid job in order to have children?
 
if you're chad, women buy you stuff

if you have to buy women stuff, it's beyond over
 
if you're chad, women buy you stuff

if you have to buy women stuff, it's beyond over
Doesn't it have to do with status also? I mean a typical wagecuck normie with a beautiful GF and child often have a high paying job

High paying job=High status?
 
Definitely. Dont let them suffer in poverty.
The only thing that costs is food, clothes and diapers. I still think you could manage if you lived a simpler life without any unecessary needs.
 
Money matters less than anything.
 
There is chance of losing your incel status if you are millionaire.
 
Money matters less than anything.
It's actually true. It's impossible for me to get a tent with a stove, move into the woods and expect a foid to move in with me. However i can do it alone because i don't need much money in my life to remain happy .She needs money to be happy on the other hand. All foids do unless they belong to some uncontacted tribe who's never heard of currency.
 
There’s your answer, if you’re not chad she’s not gonna accept it boyo.
Some foids would probably not even want to live with a giga chad if he wanted to live like i wrote in this thread. Sure they would be happy to come over and have sex with him but not live with him permanently, only if they had a betabux who financed them by the side.
Where do you live?
Sweden, in a small town. Women here only want normies and chads with high paid jobs because that equals status to them and security/comfort. Betabux in other words.
 
Some foids would probably not even want to live with a giga chad if he wanted to live like i wrote in this thread. Sure they would be happy to come over and have sex with him but not live with him permanently, only if they had a betabux who financed them by the side.

Sweden, in a small town. Women here only want normies and chads with high paid jobs because that equals status to them and security/comfort. Betabux in other words.

You answered your own question.
 
  1. I'm envious, poorcel here. Making 300$ a month full-time.
  2. Forget children and women. Just buy the house, live alone, enjoy life and freedom. Even if you got a woman, she'd just bitch and moan and use you for your money, you'd become her errand boy, she'd probably cheat or at least make your life as miserable as possible.
 
Forget children and women. Just buy the house, live alone, enjoy life and freedom. Even if you got a woman, she'd just bitch and moan and use you for your money, you'd become her errand boy, she'd probably cheat or at least make your life as miserable as possible.
This. Its not worth the trouble
 
What most important is looks and rest is cope
 
  1. I'm envious, poorcel here. Making 300$ a month full-time.
  2. Forget children and women. Just buy the house, live alone, enjoy life and freedom. Even if you got a woman, she'd just bitch and moan and use you for your money, you'd become her errand boy, she'd probably cheat or at least make your life as miserable as possible.
That's unfortunate with your salary and i thought my job had bad payment.

So you're telling me i should just travel to Copenhagen and fuck hookers? I never did it before. I don't want to remain virgin for all my life, i'm turning 28 soon.


This. Its not worth the trouble
But muh nuclear family. I feel like i'm spitting on my acenstors by not reproducing. I feel like a complete failure if i don't have children.
 
Money is important of post wall foids, however instead of it superseding genetics they just have that demand on top of good genetics.
Young foids are unironically the least demanding, because they tend to not think they're "experienced strong woman" and just want Chad to cum on their hair.
 
I have about 30000$ in the bank. I've been thinking of buying a small house and i want to live a minimalist life, i don't wanna buy unecessary things cause i don't need them.

Just know that this is a massive turnoff to most foids. Foids love to buy unnecessary things. With the exception of Chad's cock, it's pretty much all they live for. That's not to say you won't be able to find an exception.

Quit my current job and get a part time job so i can get more free time, earn like 800$/month. Will i be able to start a relationship living like this? Can i afford to have children with this income?

Yes and yes. The hard part will be finding a foid that is willing to partake in this with you. You will have to be sure that she shares your vision.


I want to have children but i'm afraid i will be rejected by foids cause of my poor income and future small house.

You will definitely be rejected by the vast majority of foids for the reasons you mention. But as long as you know this going in, you should be fine.

Also no drivers license. Is it over? Will i have to get a more high paid job and live a wagecuck life so i can betabux?

If the foid is willing to drive you around then it shouldn't be a deal-breaker. You can always get your license at some point. Plus, automated cars will be here in the coming decade.

Even with my current income i don't even think foids will be pleased with me. I currently earn 1500$/month and it's a full time job. Do you need a high paid job in order to have children?

Your current income will be enough if you find the right foid. Shoot for 3-4 SMV points below whatever you are.
 
money is a strategy normies use to secure foids, it only matters on the normie level (maybe slightly on the chadlite as well), but chad and beyond it means nothing
 
That's unfortunate with your salary and i thought my job had bad payment.

So you're telling me i should just travel to Copenhagen and fuck hookers? I never did it before. I don't want to remain virgin for all my life, i'm turning 28 soon.



But muh nuclear family. I feel like i'm spitting on my acenstors by not reproducing. I feel like a complete failure if i don't have children.
No, don't blow your money on hookers in Copenhagen. You worked for your money, treasure it. If you really want a hooker, find an average priced one in your city, don't waste your money on overpriced whores.

Giving money to hookers is cucked, they're literally just spreading their legs and you're transferring hours and hours worth of effort and time to them.
 
money is a strategy normies use to secure foids, it only matters on the normie level (maybe slightly on the chadlite as well), but chad and beyond it means nothing
Interesting theory, i think you might be right however if you look at a foid who wants to settle down at the age of... Lets say 26, she really wants children. She would want to have children in a safe environment and she wants to feel safe economically. She's going to want a normie tier guy with a high income, nice house rather than a chad with a low income and a shitty ghetto apartment. Am i wrong? Of course it's individual but i'm just saying that betabux never lose, atleast from what i've seen in my town. Countless examples.
 
Depends how ugly you are
 
Nordic framecel with some ugly facial features. I dont want to run JBW game in SEA, i'd rather travel to Copenhagen.

You can't run JBW game in Sweden? (I don't know how racially diverse it is these days)
 
You can't run JBW game in Sweden? (I don't know how racially diverse it is these days)
Not really, maybe if i traveled to some city, but i hate cities. My town is homogeneous. I live in a small family town. There are no single foids above 17 living here. Last time i checked a dating app, the foids in my town were just two ugly landwhales.
 
If the foid is willing to drive you around then it shouldn't be a deal-breaker.

Lol at that. Letting a female drive is cucked. I hate seeing females driving a car. That is so unnatural. It literally makes me mad.
 
No, don't blow your money on hookers in Copenhagen. You worked for your money, treasure it. If you really want a hooker, find an average priced one in your city, don't waste your money on overpriced whores.

Giving money to hookers is cucked, they're literally just spreading their legs and you're transferring hours and hours worth of effort and time to them.
But prostitution is illegal here in Sweden.
 
Money is the Alpha and the Omega in the majority of relationships in America
 
Money is important of post wall foids, however instead of it superseding genetics they just have that demand on top of good genetics.
Young foids are unironically the least demanding, because they tend to not think they're "experienced strong woman" and just want Chad to cum on their hair.
yes because most post wall foids have chad's kids and need to take care.
 
Id never spend a dime on any of them tbh
 
Doesn't matter chad or not.

Money is the #1 reason people break up, it's always money.

Which is not to say that if you're a billionaire she'll stay with you, she won't, she'll just find a different reason to break up with you.

In 2019 getting in a relationship is dumb, you have no guarantees and the law is on her side, they divorce rape you and make your life a living hell
 
I'd say it's important.
 

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