Imagine being in an actual relationship.
Of course it would be of much value to have somebody to kiss after getting home, cuddling and so on. But what about all the other aspects you need to consider?
Personally, I would not feel stable enough to have children and raise them. I think it would just be a disaster. They might get fucked up genetically as well.
Moreover, the thought of being together for a long time kind of scares me. You build up something that can be destroyed so easily within a short amount of time. You might just lose interest in each other. But if you had kids, a divorce could affect them mentally in a bad way. So you stay together and feel terrible. Until there is a major conflict that makes it even worse. You leave her. Your kids life with your mother and they only visit you rarely etc...
I am really interested in what you would do, for example:
Of course it would be of much value to have somebody to kiss after getting home, cuddling and so on. But what about all the other aspects you need to consider?
Personally, I would not feel stable enough to have children and raise them. I think it would just be a disaster. They might get fucked up genetically as well.
Moreover, the thought of being together for a long time kind of scares me. You build up something that can be destroyed so easily within a short amount of time. You might just lose interest in each other. But if you had kids, a divorce could affect them mentally in a bad way. So you stay together and feel terrible. Until there is a major conflict that makes it even worse. You leave her. Your kids life with your mother and they only visit you rarely etc...
I am really interested in what you would do, for example:
- Would you take care of your appearance more or less?
- Do you think you could spend several years together?
- Would you like to have kids?
- Do you feel confident raising them?
- How would you raise them? (strict? chill?)
- Do you leave them enough freedom to decide for themselves (hobbies, jobs)
- or force them to play an instrument, learn a language at a young age, ...?
- What if they have a deficiency (mental or physical)?
- Do you focus on your job or family?
- Would you ever consider marrying?
- Would you give up a hobby you are passionate about to spend more time with your gf?
- Would you do something together you both like (e.g. going to the gym together)
- What if you found out she cheated on you?
- ...?
