Serious How do you survive in an office?

[City Incel]

I've never even been in an office. I worked ~ 3 years as a freelance programmer.

 

[Incelist]

After lunch, the foids make the office smell like rotting tuna, because of their smelly cunts.

 

[TouhouMathcel]

I was in your position a while ago before i resigned. I understood that the best way for me to mantain my sanity was to get a remote position. I'm also an IT guy, truthfully it depends on what you expect to get out of these interactions.

If you truly consider yourself an incel and know you're bottom tier of looks, the worst of the worst is interacting with normies and girls. Truthfully, you won't get anything good being near them, they'll share their sexual exploits and ask yours, you of course will have none to show and will be seen as inferior and a joke.

In my case it took quite a bit before people warmed up to me, about 9 months i beleive? after that i pretty much got along well enough with anybody and they knew my name. But the problem is that you interact with your good looking coworkers and chadlite coworkers, they do well with women and office women. You talk with the pretty office women and you start to have hope, HOPE for an incel is the worst kind of drug.

Still i think that's better to talk to someone instead of nobody, so just give it time. If i were you tho i would aim for a remote position, i'm never working in a office setting ever again.

But sadly in this life you need both money and socialization, without either you'll face a hard life. Try to get along with the guys at the very least, it's easier and if you are interested enough in hearing their BS they'll love you. The best thing i've found when interacting with people is being transparent and also a little daring, don't be scared to say a little about yourself and don't play it too safe. People don't like boring people

Thanks for your advises, brocels. What's your stack btw and is it easy for you to work from home?

 

[Epedaphic]

Ah man, it definitely sounds like a situation with pros and cons. It's pretty brutal feeling like you are not a part of things socially at work.. have been there before, feeling left out and kind of just dejected doing my own thing. Is there any possibility you can socialize with them at all?

I think it's probably a good idea to have an in-person job especially if you are susceptible to loneliness. I work from home and it's really isolating. Feel like it's not doing me any favors with building my social skills.