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How do you sit at home alone for hours and not drink alcohol?

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Anyone who can sit alone with their thoughts for hours on end, days on end, months on end and years on end totally sober must be some type of a superhuman. I can't resist the urge to start drinking to feel better especially when there's a liquor store a 5 minute walk from me. I used to go to bars but after doing that for years I realized they are just traps or places for boomers to hang out and watch sports or groups of people who were popular in high school to walk around and feel important by accomplishing nothing and looking down on you. I even did PUA in bars and was subjected to endless "I have a boyfriend", "Get away from me" or even being kicked out of the place.

I can't enjoy any "copes" because in the back of my mind it just feels like a waste of time. Ted Kaczynski was right I guess. They are all just bullshit surrogate activities.

When normal people experience chronic loneliness, they still can muster up energy to go out and do things or call up a friend. If I called anyone no one would pick up. I literally exist to be ignored and laughed at by other people
 
My parents hide the alcohol away from me, because I used to get drunk all the time so now I have nothing
 
idk just watch slop essays on youtube about shit you don't care about or games you last played a decade ago o algo
 
My parents hide the alcohol away from me, because I used to get drunk all the time so now I have nothing
I would kill myself if I ever had to live with parents ever again
 
This is no point since I'm going to wake up sober, and alcohol is best used in social situations so I'd rather do other stuff.
 
This is no point since I'm going to wake up sober, and alcohol is best used in social situations so I'd rather do other stuff.
It's more for the buzz feeling at this point
 
I just imagine (remember) the Jews want me to destroy myself
 
Idk I just don’t like the taste of it
 
Internet, food, water, drinks, sleep.
 
Never been under the influence of anything in my life, plan to keep it that way. Ive found healthy ways to cope
 
i don't like alcohol, i would've liked it if i was invited to teenage drinking parties in school though
 
I thankfully haven't tried it in earmest in my entire life.
 
I hate not being at all my senses or feeling like im out of control. Also i have emetophobia
 
I tried drinking but basically passed out and figure that’s how it'll go if I drink again. Recently I tried the vodka and soda mix to no exhilarating avail. Might try it chilled and pour in less of the vodka next time, likely not. A fat juicy burger with some sounds nice.

I can't enjoy any "copes" because in the back of my mind it just feels like a waste of time.
This is how I've been feeling lately ngl. There were particular self engineered-based moments where I remember being somehow mentally coordinated and internally sustained but it's impossible to access anything near their raw earnest caliber anymore. I had no idea that the truth repressed psychic investment would be this frail. The negativity wins even on any better days.
 
I thankfully haven't tried it in earmest in my entire life.
I have only consumed it once when someone dropped a bottle of it in front of me, it exploded and the beer flew into my mouth. It was only a couple of droplets and I hated the taste of it
 
I have never drank alcohol and more importantly it is Haram
 
If I’m this crazy when I’m sober, I’m scared to know what would happen if I was drunk.
 
If I’m this crazy when I’m sober, I’m scared to know what would happen if I was drunk.
Maybe you would be a relaxed drunk, you never know

It depends from person to person, this is another reason I've never tried it
 
Because I got sick of feeling like shit after drinking.
 
Ridiculous hours of Gaming and YouTube. Sometimes better with alcohol but not necessary.
 
Anyone who can sit alone with their thoughts for hours on end, days on end, months on end and years on end totally sober must be some type of a superhuman. I can't resist the urge to start drinking to feel better especially when there's a liquor store a 5 minute walk from me. I used to go to bars but after doing that for years I realized they are just traps or places for boomers to hang out and watch sports or groups of people who were popular in high school to walk around and feel important by accomplishing nothing and looking down on you. I even did PUA in bars and was subjected to endless "I have a boyfriend", "Get away from me" or even being kicked out of the place.

I can't enjoy any "copes" because in the back of my mind it just feels like a waste of time. Ted Kaczynski was right I guess. They are all just bullshit surrogate activities.

When normal people experience chronic loneliness, they still can muster up energy to go out and do things or call up a friend. If I called anyone no one would pick up. I literally exist to be ignored and laughed at by other people
I've very rarely ever drank alcohol in my life, only a handful of times. Never smoked or tried any drugs either. Never tried marijuana (I wouldn't have any idea where to get it anyway).

Because I've rarely drank alcohol I have no desire for it. Getting drunk doesn't appeal to me and it tastes bad.
 
I got on some sort of waitlist for experimental "ketamine therapy" (or was it kratom?) long ago but they never got back with me. Damn.
I did experimental ketamine with a doctor. Idk how much it helped me. It is kind of like a weaker version of morphine where you are kind of under but you can tell what's going on somewhat

I've tried the powder kratom online but it tastes terrible and doesn't really do anything for me
 
idk just watch slop essays on youtube about shit you don't care about or games you last played a decade ago o algo
idk just watch slop essays on youtube about shit you don't care about or games you last played a decade ago o algo
 
Anyone who can sit alone with their thoughts for hours on end, days on end, months on end and years on end totally sober must be some type of a superhuman. I can't resist the urge to start drinking to feel better especially when there's a liquor store a 5 minute walk from me. I used to go to bars but after doing that for years I realized they are just traps or places for boomers to hang out and watch sports or groups of people who were popular in high school to walk around and feel important by accomplishing nothing and looking down on you. I even did PUA in bars and was subjected to endless "I have a boyfriend", "Get away from me" or even being kicked out of the place.

I can't enjoy any "copes" because in the back of my mind it just feels like a waste of time. Ted Kaczynski was right I guess. They are all just bullshit surrogate activities.

When normal people experience chronic loneliness, they still can muster up energy to go out and do things or call up a friend. If I called anyone no one would pick up. I literally exist to be ignored and laughed at by other people
drinking alone makes me feel more sad when i go back to being sober yet i do it anyways lol
 
drinking alone makes me feel more sad when i go back to being sober yet i do it anyways lol
Same. The next day is brutal
 
I don’t drink alcohol, and I never have.

I will never drink alcohol.
 
I lack the aldehyde enzyme. Just 50ml of wine makes me feel bad.
 

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