Serious how do you recover from embarrassing moments?

[Deleted member 60]

So tonight I had one of the most embarrassing moments of my entire life. How do I cope when I'm sober?
Also, share some of your embarrassing memories to make me feel better.

 

[L9xddddd]

You don't

 

[blickpall]

You don't

 

[▼▼ ΔQUA .biz ▼▼]

Smoke

 

[blickpall]

Still remember embarrassing and depressing shit from when I was 6 years old, and even though the logical conclusion is "you were 6 years old, you were an idiot, you idiot," it doesn't change how I feel.

 

[YungCell]

I think about how from everyone else perspective it was just an awkward moment that they will forget soon enough, but it doesn't help much the best cope is to forget.

 

[Existentialcel]

The first escort I visited, I put on the condom wrong and she said, "have you put on a condom before". I died a bit inside.

 

[San Salvador]

They fade away. I know, because I have experience.

 

[Deleted member 8499]

You don't

 

[Robo Sapien]

You don't

Still remember embarrassing and depressing shit from when I was 6 years old, and even though the logical conclusion is "you were 6 years old, you were an idiot, you idiot," it doesn't change how I feel.

 

[Deleted member 195]

You really don't. They're anxiety fuel to keep you from doing more embarrassing shit.

I still remember gut wrenching things from years ago

 

[UBERCEL]

Tbh, I don't care about them.
Cuz people don't care about them too lol tbh
N
G
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[Newbie17]

So tonight I had one of the most embarrassing moments of my entire life. How do I cope when I'm sober?
Also, share some of your embarrassing memories to make me feel better.

elab

I can’t think of any at the moment, probably because there are so many of them kek due to my social retardation.

 

[Swagwaffle]

About 10 years ago I was close of encountering / spending time a female human . We were talking via Snapchat ... however I did not know Snapchat finds out if u screenshot someone.... well I screenshotted everything she sent me. Fml and she was setting trap stuff for me like just sending me pics of her face arms ect. She was just fucking with me. She ended up ignoring me.

 

[Weightcel]

Still cringe at some of the shit I did in high school...

 

[FiveFourManlet]

STORYTIME

 

[Akira]

When I do embarrassing stuff, I just try to laugh it off. Chances are people will laugh with you. It probably sticks in your mind more than theirs.

 

[Indari]

works every time

 

[Henry de Montherlant]

elab

If people judging you don't have any value to you, just cease caring.

 

[incel-american]

Evolution has molded your mind so that it doesn't get weighed down too heavily by bad things that happened in the past...your mind is designed to "move on." It will, after a time, suppress your memories of negative experiences, though you can always deliberately recall them if you so choose.

 

[Templarcel421]

Still remember embarrassing and depressing shit from when I was 6 years old, and even though the logical conclusion is "you were 6 years old, you were an idiot, you idiot," it doesn't change how I feel.

I have vivid memories of cringey things I did in elementary school and they are so painful to think about even though no one cares

 

[Ritalincel]

Based KSGcel

 

[Volcel420]

The first escort I visited, I put on the condom wrong and she said, "have you put on a condom before". I died a bit inside.

How do you find an escort?

 

[hermitcel]

You don't. I still think of my most embarrassing moments every now and then and cringe.

 

[FoidsDeserveCancer]

So tonight I had one of the most embarrassing moments of my entire life. How do I cope when I'm sober?
Also, share some of your embarrassing memories to make me feel better.

I was drunk and said some really stupid gay shit.

 

[Anger]

You don't, you will be remember every cringe moment of your life until you finally breakdown into insanity because that's what is happening right now to me

 

[Shower_Taker]

OP, I get cringe attacks about stuff I did years ago almost daily. It’s part of the reason why I like staying indoors, every time I leave the house there’s a 1/4 chance that Shrek’s gonna come ‘round with his camera.

 

[Deleted member 60]

bump.

I want to hear stories before I share mine.

 

[maynarde]

Life is messy

This is a bit of advice a pastor gave me once

I use this often for perspective

 

[Deleted member 60]

elab

I can’t think of any at the moment, probably because there are so many of them kek due to my social retardation.

STORYTIME

ok, fuck it. I was at a rave and a girl asked to sit on my shoulders. I was drunk af and haven't hit the gym in a while... so I dropped her.
Her friends caught it on video.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

ok, fuck it. I was at a rave and a girl asked to sit on my shoulders. I was drunk af and haven't hit the gym in a while... so I dropped her.
Her friends caught it on video.

A girl spoke to you?
Lol at this fakecel

 

[Deleted member 60]

A girl spoke to you?
Lol at this fakecel

you think it was an IOI?

 

[meat]

thanks for bringing back bad memorys

 

[Deleted member 5712]

you can never completely recover unless you are into hard drugs so you can completely forget
with that said i usually go home and fap hard (usually) and if it is really bad i go home and wait til everyone is asleep to cry

 

[Existentialcel]

ok, fuck it. I was at a rave and a girl asked to sit on my shoulders. I was drunk af and haven't hit the gym in a while... so I dropped her.
Her friends caught it on video.

Damn that is pretty brutal. I hate when a girl is on my shoulders at a concert/festival. It's uncomfortable and you can't really enjoy the music

you think it was an IOI?

It might be and it might not. They just what a higher vantage point to see everything

 

[EECEL]

Stop thinking about it (+BOOZE)
Usually gets the job done. Also helps that I play vidya all day long.