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You've spent your whole life obsessing over it. You constantly fantasize about it. You've even cried yourself to sleep to the thought of dying without ever touching a woman. But, have you considered that you may actually have an aversion to sex, but don't know it?

A lot of members of this forum are on the autism spectrum (like myself). Many of us have sensory issues that can prevent us from enjoying sex. This means we have an aversion to touching people and to being touched. We're also highly sensitive to odors. These characteristics aren't exactly conducive to having a sex life. The minimal physical contact I've had with foids (light, friendly hugging, handshakes, etc.) strongly suggests that I don't like touching them, even if I am physically attracted to them. I can passionately masturbate to them, but I doubt I could actually fuck them.

My younger brother one time had come back from his girlfriend's house and stuck his index finger in my nose. He said "smell it". Let me tell you, that finger reeked of the foulest stench imaginable. It was worse than a decomposing dead dog. I couldn't jerk off for days after that. How the hell can normies deal with revolting odors like this during sex?? How can their dicks stay hard?

So, even if by some miracle a femoid was willing to cure our inceldom, many of us would likely get squeamish the moment we made physical contact with her (I myself am particularly averse to body heat. It turns me off).

Our problems may be a lot deeper than we realize. Being undesirable to women because we're ugly may be just the tip of the iceberg.
 
I don't know man, what I know is that my dick gets hard when I watch sex
 
You may have a point.

I’m autistic and I fucking HATE it when people touch me. Including my own family. It makes me feel very uncomfortable.
 
Tbh its overrated. But its needed...
 
Well this is just another reason we should just do Elliott's idea and abolish the concept of sex and put foids into prison and camps for decades until they become a myth to the general public.
 
Does sex smell?
 
i dont know what sex is suppose to look like
 
this is a natural need. so you do not need to know it,you just feel it
 
It felt good fucking holes in the wall
 
My younger brother one time had come back from his girlfriend's house and stuck his index finger in my nose. He said "smell it". Let me tell you, that finger reeked of the foulest stench imaginable. It was worse than a decomposing dead dog. I couldn't jerk off for days after that. How the hell can normies deal with revolting odors like this during sex?? How can their dicks stay hard?

What was the source of that smell?

Also your younger brother cucked you.
Well this is just another reason we should just do Elliott's idea and abolish the concept of sex and put foids into prison and camps for decades until they become a myth to the general public.

Legit.
 
I don't know man, what I know is that my dick gets hard when I watch sex
Yeah, mine too. But I don't think getting aroused from watching sex necessarily translates into getting aroused actually having sex. Not for me, at least.
 
:feelswhat: yeah im sure getting the cum sucked out of your dick is just terrible or cumming inside of her pussy.
 
You may have a point.

I’m autistic and I fucking HATE it when people touch me. Including my own family. It makes me feel very uncomfortable.
You would likely have massive trouble with sex IRL. On the bright side, this is a great cope, as it means you really didn't miss anything because you wouldn't like it, anyway.
Tbh its overrated. But its needed...
If you are neurotypical, I say you definitely need it. But, if you're on the autism spectrum, and have sensory issues, it's likely you don't (even though you will mentally have the desire for it. It's like a catch-22).
 
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Well, people don’t really need to be virgins to be incels. Non-virgins can be an incel still just as long as you haven’t had sex in a really long time as far as I know.
 
You would likely have massive trouble with sex IRL. On the bright side, this is a great cope, as it means you really didn't miss anything because you wouldn't like it, anyway.
Yeah I think that’s one area where NTs have it harder, they actually crave that whereas we autists don’t for the most part.
 
I'm not sure, but I am absolutely for certain there is something within me - some biological drive - that makes me desire sex even if I have no plans of reproduction. If I could somehow turn off my sex drive completely my life would improve considerably.
 
What was the source of that smell?

Also your younger brother cucked you.

Her vagina, dummy.

In his mind, he probably thought he cucked me; in my mind, I just wanted to puke.
 
Her vagina, dummy.

Uhh, that is gross man.

In his mind he probably thought he cucked me; in my mind, I just wanted to puke.

Seriously, what was he thinking? He immediately turn back home after coitus, did not take a shower (just take a shower bro) only to come to you so you can smell his finger?
What was his thoughts on that smell? Did he liked it?
 
:feelswhat: yeah im sure getting the cum sucked out of your dick is just terrible or cumming inside of her pussy.
It's great only if you are neurotypical. No one ever mentions this caveat.
Seriously, what was he thinking? He immediately turn back home after coitus, did not take a shower (just take a shower bro) only to come to you so you can smell his finger?
What was his thoughts on that smell? Did he liked it?
I think it's a source of pride and a badge of honor for normies to let the stench of vagina linger on their digits. It's kind of like proof that they've been laid.
Well, people don’t really need to be virgins to be incels. Non-virgins can be an incel still just as long as you haven’t had sex in a really long time as far as I know.
I agree with that.
 
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You may have a point.

I’m autistic and I fucking HATE it when people touch me. Including my own family. It makes me feel very uncomfortable.
Even if it is a female?
 
I‘m autistic as well. But I need some form of affection. I hate being touched but I have an exception to a theoretical girlfriend.
 
I‘m autistic as well. But I need some form of affection. I hate being touched but I have an exception to a theoretical girlfriend.
You have an exception to a theoretical girlfriend in your mind. You still don't know how you will react to said girlfriend when you try to get intimate with her.
 
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You have an exception to a theoretically girlfriend in your mind. You still don't know how you will react to said girlfriend when you try to get intimate with her.
Good point. I’m not sure if I want to become a volcel or keep trying.
 
You do because of your hormones same with things like food or water you may not want it but your body definitly needs it to function properly
 
You do because of your hormones same with things like food or water you may not want it but your body definitly needs it to function properly
The only hope for me is if I got REALLY horny in the presence of a woman. Maybe (and this is a big maybe) I would be able to overcome my aversions by sheer lust.
 
The only hope for me is if I got REALLY horny in the presence of a woman. Maybe (and this is a big maybe) I would be able to overcome my aversions by sheer lust.
220px Stephen Craig Paddock
 
i like fapping
 
hi IQ, I think there are many asexuals here who have not realized it yet
 
Autistic people are actually touch-starved. It's the reason why weighted blankets are recommended for those with autism: they simulate cuddling.

Sensory issues related to touching only aggravate this, because these autistic people have a psychological need to get touched just like everyone else yet are physically averse to it. So they suffer from a curious form of the Porcupine Dilemma (i.e. both wanting and not wanting to be touched).
 
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1.) jerking off feels fucking amazing. 2.) looking at naked girls makes me wanna fuck them. Just put the two together
 
Escorts and I don't enjoy it.
it feels like putting my dick in a tight cup.
 
Do not relapse.

trying my best tbh. I'm hoping it'll give me motivation to start gymcelling again, but as of now my dick is much stronger than my brain.
 
It's a human need and when you crave something for so long and finally have it I bet questioning it will be the last thing on your mind.
 
Low IQ .. Assuming you will like sex without having had sex is ok. Every male mammal that’s ever existed likes sex. You’re probably not the exception.
 
trying my best tbh. I'm hoping it'll give me motivation to start gymcelling again, but as of now my dick is much stronger than my brain.

Lead this energy to your whole body. Just hold on for a moment and think about your currenct state. You are actually feel full energy right? Instead of letting it out for a pointless fap, you can hold it to feel good permanently. You can also use more strength and at the gym, because you are full of energy.
 
Because fleshlights feel good.
 
I don’t like to be touched but I can tolerate it. I want to touch a woman’s body more than anything. I don’t even care if we have sex, just let me fondle some big jugs for a few hours.
 
hi IQ, I think there are many asexuals here who have not realized it yet
most of the time asexuality, just like homosexuality, is nothing but a cope for those who can't get normal sex. True asexuals wouldn't feel the need to be on incels.is in the first place
 
I fucking HATE it when people touch me. Including my own family. It makes me feel very uncomfortable
Same, then again I wouldn’t turn down the opportunity to get laid
 

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