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How do you keep away suicidal thoughts?

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I just get so depressed when my ex classmates from highschool text me or post on social media how they are living their life

I know I won't live their lives or anything of what's considered as a good life, and that makes me not want to continue living

I have my whole life ahead, and that's the worst part, so much to live but probably so little to experience
 
The thoughts have been there since 12 so I just carry on with my day. As I've gotten older though the thoughts have become more descriptive like the aftermath etc. Especially after being at my friend's funeral last year who killed himself. Most of my online friends who all happen to be over 5'8 all have girlfriends and I try not to feel envious when they post. If they bring them up I usually change subject or make a stupid joke.
 
The thoughts have been there since 12 so I just carry on with my day. As I've gotten older though the thoughts have become more descriptive like the aftermath etc. Especially after being at my friend's funeral last year who killed himself. Most of my online friends who all happen to be over 5'8 all have girlfriends and I try not to feel envious when they post. If they bring them up I usually change subject or make a stupid joke.
Life has so much to offer for some
 
I don't get rid of them, just bottle and repress them for another day. Who knows when i might need them??
 
Why would you be suicidal
 
Alcohol I guess
 
Because life is over dude, won't ever have what others have, I can't cope as good as you do
Inceldom isn’t a sufficient reason to rope
 
I just get so depressed when my ex classmates from highschool text me or post on social media how they are living their life

I know I won't live their lives or anything of what's considered as a good life, and that makes me not want to continue living

I have my whole life ahead, and that's the worst part, so much to live but probably so little to experience
replace them with thoughts of going er :feelsYall:
 
I simply just continue living and disassociate myself with my feelings
 
I simply just continue living and disassociate myself with my feelings
are you working or studying? that makes it way more difficult than it should be

how could you stress yourself that much knowing your future isn't even gonna be good lol
 
are you working or studying? that makes it way more difficult than it should be

how could you stress yourself that much knowing your future isn't even gonna be good lol
What would a good future even look like
 
are you working or studying? that makes it way more difficult than it should be

how could you stress yourself that much knowing your future isn't even gonna be good lol
The military teaches you that things can and will go worse then they are
 
What would a good future even look like
If you're blackpilled and don't want a gf, then having good money to cope or geomaxx would be a good future
 
just suicide bro :feelsLSD:
 
I just get so depressed when my ex classmates from highschool text me or post on social media how they are living their life

I know I won't live their lives or anything of what's considered as a good life, and that makes me not want to continue living

I have my whole life ahead, and that's the worst part, so much to live but probably so little to experience
Idk, I mean, the common thing people say to this is that you're just seeing snippets from their lives. But I'm going to assume (and I don't mean to be offensive) that you probably don't do much because you're depressed; it is also just hard to have meaningful material growth nowadays, unless you're willing to be hyper-competitive. I think competition is fine, but the level of competition in most industries today is just gay.

Common philosophical take incoming. There is no objectively "good" life. Nihilism is retarded, it genuinely is. You should try volunteering, or Idk if ur actually depressed, u should try and force urself to go for walks; no music or anything, just walk; walk until you feel a bit better. watch movies or enjoy other forms of art. Movies are pretty goated btw.

All of this advice sounds pretty basic, or I guess, "normie-coded," but there isn't much more. You should also seriously decrease how much you use reels or TikTok because that shit is actually cancer. I literally only use reels to pay attention to cultural shifts and categorize memes into different folders, but it's all flat, dead, and recycled.
 
I don't. I want to die, and it almost sounds good, but I don't know exactly what I would reincarnate as, or if it is even possible to avoid coming back, and even if I had confidence, attempting isn't just gonna be a cakewalk.
 
I do everything in my power to distract myself, even if only barely. I also know that my state of degredation will be removed at the end of time.
 
Idk, I mean, the common thing people say to this is that you're just seeing snippets from their lives. But I'm going to assume (and I don't mean to be offensive) that you probably don't do much because you're depressed; it is also just hard to have meaningful material growth nowadays, unless you're willing to be hyper-competitive. I think competition is fine, but the level of competition in most industries today is just gay.

Common philosophical take incoming. There is no objectively "good" life. Nihilism is retarded, it genuinely is. You should try volunteering, or Idk if ur actually depressed, u should try and force urself to go for walks; no music or anything, just walk; walk until you feel a bit better. watch movies or enjoy other forms of art. Movies are pretty goated btw.

All of this advice sounds pretty basic, or I guess, "normie-coded," but there isn't much more. You should also seriously decrease how much you use reels or TikTok because that shit is actually cancer. I literally only use reels to pay attention to cultural shifts and categorize memes into different folders, but it's all flat, dead, and recycled.
Thanks, very good advice
 

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