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How do you handle your virginity status?

vorinar

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I realize I have to hide it so I don’t get judged and ruthlessly mocked. I’m a closet virgin, can’t admit it to anyone? I already feel like a loser everyday for being a virgin at 28. How can I live forever like this?
 
No one asks me anyway
 
Try to hold myself back from crying on my floor over it
 
Tbh i would just own it, that way nobody can use it against you/ try to make fun of you
 
I don't converse with humans so I don't have to worry about that.

But
Tbh i would just own it, that way nobody can use it against you/ try to make fun of you
 
i don't, i ignore it
 
If they ask you if you have a girlfriend "Not right now."

If they asked you why you dont have one "I am not in the mood for another relationship right now."

If they ask for your past relationships "Thats none of your business."

If they ask if you are a virgin "Not since middle school lmfao."

If they ask for your friends "Just say you dont have any."
 
Tbh i would just own it, that way nobody can use it against you/ try to make fun of you
What upside is there to it??? "Yeah women can't stand me but uhmmm uhhhh.... ITS MY OWN CHOICE OKAY"
 
I lost it to an escort if vaginal penetration with condom counts, but what I want to say is that losing your virginity to an escort doesn't mean shit for normies, many of them don't count it. Many toilets absolutely hate men who have visited an escort. Some normies claim that you lost your virginity when you have impregnated a woman.
 
I say I'm saving my virginity for marriage jfl
 
I have accepted that I will die as a virgin.
 
Funny story. Once, a friend asked me about any funny situations I’d had in bed and started sharing his own. I told him I hadn’t had any funny ones, just normal experiences. I don’t know if he figured out I was a virgin or if everyone actually has those funny situations, but I tried to keep it cool.
 
No one asks me anyway
I have been asked multiple times. Just lie and say you’ve had relationships before but claim to be single for now so they don’t ask for proof
 
ive known no life except it so i keep soldiering forth all alone :cryfeels:
 
Buy a fleshlight and tell people you lost it. I’ve been doing this since high school
 
I have no friends so that means no one asks me about it. Just tell them you're not a virgin so you don't get socially outcasted.
 
I stay away from people
 
Not all incels are virgins
 
If they ask you if you have a girlfriend "Not right now."

If they ask if you are a virgin "Not since middle school lmfao."
saying it as an ugly short aspie would be comical
 
I show EVERYONE I am incel

I wear an incel shirt and hoodie. If anyone asks I tell them I am a khhv

I am sick of incel shaming!
 
What upside is there to it??? "Yeah women can't stand me but uhmmm uhhhh.... ITS MY OWN CHOICE OKAY"
Dont have to lie, but atleast then they cant use it against yoi
 
I saw some female family friend at the bus after years of not seeing her. She studies psychology. I was super awkward but thought nothing of it. Then later on my cousin starts accusing me of being a fag. He said the family friend told him that as a psychology major she is 100% sure that I was a fag because of my mannerisms. He then started pressing my as to why I've never had a girlfriend and I gave him some religious cope as an answer lol.

Before that I thought I could just tell ppl I was a virgin and no one would care, because why would they? But after this I think I'll try to be as ambiguous as possible whenever the topic comes up.
 
I saw some female family friend at the bus after years of not seeing her. She studies psychology. I was super awkward but thought nothing of it. Then later on my cousin starts accusing me of being a fag. He said the family friend told him that as a psychology major she is 100% sure that I was a fag because of my mannerisms. He then started pressing my as to why I've never had a girlfriend and I gave him some religious cope as an answer lol.

Before that I thought I could just tell ppl I was a virgin and no one would care, because why would they? But after this I think I'll try to be as ambiguous as possible whenever the topic comes up.
Brutal
 
I lost my virginity at EXACTLY your age to an escort. I'm 35 now.
 
deep down they already know
 
they dont ask
 
DENY DENY DENY
 
i don’t care tbh
 
People just assume I am so there's nothing I can do about it.
 
If they ask you if you have a girlfriend "Not right now."

If they asked you why you dont have one "I am not in the mood for another relationship right now."

If they ask for your past relationships "Thats none of your business."

If they ask if you are a virgin "Not since middle school lmfao."

If they ask for your friends "Just say you dont have any."

Did people ask you?
 
I stopped caring at a certain point
 
They don't ask, im a truecel, they know instantly that i am a virgin
 

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