How Do You Guys Do It?

[universallyabhorred]

I see all these posts about incels getting numbers from females, cat fishing them, going on dates and there are many here that have even kissed and had sex with females. Now I know most of you mentalcels or fakecels are decent looking or average at least. But there have been pictures of average or even below average males dating females in some cases, such as in those life fuel posts. I don't understand how you get a date with a female or its number. I know it probably won't work for me since I look like your stereotypical curry or slightly worse but seeing all these incels escaping gives me some hope. I have never approached a female or even casually talked to a female, I can barely make eye contact with them and I have no friends or acquaintances. I probably have social anxiety or autism due to my isolation. I live at home so I don't have that dorm experience which would probably be suicide fuel. I don't really want normie advice nor am I willing to post pics of myself since I do not want to become a meme but I am curious about your experiences, especially if you are somewhat unattractive but still have had success with females. How did it work out for you guys?​

 

[Imgrlbtwxd]

> I have never approached a female

Me neither all of my dates have either been initiated by females or were setup with tinder


> I can barely make eye contact with them
practise LOL, there is a video even especially for that, it's on the improvement pill channel

>I probably have social anxiety or autism
me too thats why I am still a virgin

I can't give you an accurate impression because I am indeed, goodlooking mentalcel, but I learned that looks actually aren't everything.

in order to get a date with a femoid you need ofcourse her phone number,
you can get a phone number by talking to a girl on a dating app like tinder
in order to get girls talking to you on tinder yoou need to have good pictures
you should read some tinder guides which of exist plenty on the internet you will get a match eventually
if you don't get matches than you should consider approaching women in real life, but I can't give you any advise for that because I have never done that

if you use tinder, I also have a tip for you:
don't swipe right on every girl, it will lower you tinder elo.
swipe left on girls that intimidate you, also swipe left if they are not your type (for me it's blacks and feminists, I would NEVER date a fucking feminist )
look up for girls that say "memes" in their bio or have meme profile pics

 

[Deleted member 2901]

If you're socially retarded\don't have the guts to approach femoids, just use a dating website or Tinder or whatever hookup\meeting shit is available in your country. It takes a lot of time and effort and you have to be very patient and lucky and not look like absolute dogshit, but sooner or later you can find a femoid to meet.

 

[universallyabhorred]

> I have never approached a female

Me neither all of my dates have either been initiated by females or were setup with tinder


> I can barely make eye contact with them
practise LOL, there is a video even especially for that, it's on the improvement pill channel

>I probably have social anxiety or autism
me too thats why I am still a virgin

I can't give you an accurate impression because I am indeed, goodlooking mentalcel, but I learned that looks actually aren't everything.

in order to get a date with a femoid you need ofcourse her phone number,
you can get a phone number by talking to a girl on a dating app like tinder
in order to get girls talking to you on tinder yoou need to have good pictures
you should read some tinder guides which of exist plenty on the internet you will get a match eventually
if you don't get matches than you should consider approaching women in real life, but I can't give you any advise for that because I have never done that

if you use tinder, I also have a tip for you:
don't swipe right on every girl, it will lower you tinder elo.
swipe left on girls that intimidate you, also swipe left if they are not your type (for me it's blacks and feminists, I would NEVER date a fucking feminist )
look up for girls that say "memes" in their bio or have meme profile pics

Honestly I'd probably get zero matches but even if I got a few matches for using cherry picked pictures wouldn't the cunts just ghost me? Also, how do you text with a femoid what would you type without looking awkward or cringey?

 

[Imgrlbtwxd]

Honestly I'd probably get zero matches but even if I got a few matches for using cherry picked pictures wouldn't the cunts just ghost me? Also, how do you text with a femoid what would you type without looking awkward or cringey?

don't say "hi"

don't make small talk

look up on /r/tinder for inspiration

name puns are always good

ask for number in max 15 messages at all


next one is from me
DON'T imagine yourself with a girl from tinder that doesn't know you exsist, I did this too many times and it broke my heart.
they are JUST tinder matches or numbers in your phone, until you meet them, don't make a bond to them

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Hey brah I'm also a currycel and I guarantee you that you're better looking than me. Send me pics of yourself, I won't share it. Others can vouch for me if you need. I'll give you advice as well so you can max out.

 

[dr-problematic]

i got some bad news, pal

its over for u

 

[universallyabhorred]

i got some bad news, pal

its over for u

It probably is tbh.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

SEND PICS. :skeptical:

 

[universallyabhorred]

Hey brah I'm also a currycel and I guarantee you that you're better looking than me. Send me pics of yourself, I won't share it. Others can vouch for me if you need. I'll give you advice as well so you can max out.

I doubt you are uglier than me since it is just your nose that is fucked up, my features overall are probably worse than yours.

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SEND PICS. :skeptical:

No.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Hey brah I'm also a currycel and I guarantee you that you're better looking than me. Send me pics of yourself, I won't share it. Others can vouch for me if you need. I'll give you advice as well so you can max out.

I doubt you are uglier than me since it is just your nose that is fucked up, my features overall are probably worse than yours.

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SEND PICS. :skeptical:

No.

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If you nosemog me then you're better looking. Is your nose crooked? If no -> you're a mentalcel.

 

[universallyabhorred]

If you nosemog me then you're better looking. Is your nose crooked? If no -> you're a mentalcel.

The tip of my nose is huge tbh. Face> nose if your overall facial harmony and bone structure is better than mine then you mog me considering my luck you probably do.

 

[Incel_Dikshit]

Same situation never asked a girl out.  I am average looking 4-5. Had some girls who have shown interest in me. Had a gf. Did some initmate stuff with a girl. Didnt go to like 15 dates/hookups with girls who wanted to do something fun. Hang out with a girl at uni.Shouldve never asked her number (it was the only time i did.) But yeah 20 year no gf until this day still V. Never go to clubs never go to parties. And im not gay. But i dont like the girls who i knew tbh.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

If you nosemog me then you're better looking. Is your nose crooked? If no -> you're a mentalcel.

The tip of my nose is huge tbh. Face> nose if your overall facial harmony and bone structure is better than mine then you mog me considering my luck you probably do.

I dunno bro, my chin is slightly recessed, I have a bad eye area and a huge, crooked nose to boot. In other words, it's over. A bulbous nosetip isn't bad, as long as it's not droopy, you're fine. Nose is most important TBH, you can get away with flaws like slightly recessed chin and a bad eye area if everything is good. Give Chico or another male model a Jewish nose, and it's over for them. Even their positive attributes don't matter. Just take a look at pre-op Octopusgun2. Great eye area, terrible nose and a slightly recessed chin.

 

[/pol/cel]

don't say "hi"

don't make small talk

look up on /r/tinder for inspiration

name puns are always good

ask for number in max 15 messages at all


next one is from me
DON'T imagine yourself with a girl from tinder that doesn't know you exsist, I did this too many times and it broke my heart.
they are JUST tinder matches or numbers in your phone, until you meet them, don't make a bond to them

Jfl at what this site has become. Fakecels giving IT tier Tinder tips. If you dont look attractive absolutly none of these strategies will work. For them to work you have to be Chad but in that case they are redundant because roasties will message you first.

 

[iFartAtRoasties]

When I was 19, I remember waiting around at the mall for some of my back-then friends to come and some woman came up to me "hi, are you the man I've arranged a date with online?". Maybe back then I looked just a little bit slightly better and someone would've found it plausible for me to be the date. If I knew about my bleak and horrible future back then, I should have lied honestly, it's not that morally abhorrent considering all the shit roasties do.

 

[itsOVER]

Move to Asia if you're white.

Or be prepared to ask out a LOT of girls before you get any success. I've got laid once in the UK in 26 years from asking out about 20 girls from college/work, so as you can see my success rate is awful and these weren't random cold approaches either.

 

[NYincel]

Move to Asia if you're white.

Or be prepared to ask out a LOT of girls before you get any success. I've got laid once in the UK in 26 years from asking out about 20 girls from college/work, so as you can see my success rate is awful and these weren't random cold approaches either.

Talking to women, even though you get rejected many times, indicates confidence. Some women may fall for that alone. She may also like how you look. Even ugly cars get buyers. Everyone has a different taste. I mean, if you aren't the elephant man and don't scare anyone. I look feminine and some girls were crazy over me.I got the name studmuffin on one job. Did I ask any girls out? NO. Were there tons of IOIs that I was blind to? Yes.

 

[theultimate341]

Move to Asia if you're white.

Or be prepared to ask out a LOT of girls before you get any success. I've got laid once in the UK in 26 years from asking out about 20 girls from college/work, so as you can see my success rate is awful and these weren't random cold approaches either.

I think hes a curry from what he said. I dont think he can run the asia game.

 

[/pol/cel]

Move to Asia if you're white.

Or be prepared to ask out a LOT of girls before you get any success. I've got laid once in the UK in 26 years from asking out about 20 girls from college/work, so as you can see my success rate is awful and these weren't random cold approaches either.

Whats the story behind how you finally got laid in the UK?

 

[itsOVER]

Talking to women, even though you get rejected many times, indicates confidence. Some women may fall for that alone. She may also like how you look. Even ugly cars get buyers. Everyone has a different taste. I mean, if you aren't the elephant man and don't scare anyone. I look feminine and some girls were crazy over me.I got the name studmuffin on one job. Did I ask any girls out? NO. Were there tons of IOIs that I was blind to? Yes.

Nah the only super legit thing is move to Asia. Problem is there's a limited number of girls you can ask via work or school. If you're not getting tinder matches then you're pretty much screwed - just think...one lay in 26 years bro...

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Whats the story behind how you finally got laid in the UK?

International student at college, I got to her before she was corrupted by western culture. We only fucked once though and only dated a month.

Maybe a bit of just be first theory too. Shed had 1 prior asian boyfriend for 3 months but was still a virgin and hadn't dated for 2 years.

 

[Grotesque]

I got the name studmuffin on one job. Did I ask any girls out? NO. Were there tons of IOIs that I was blind to? Yes.

Heh, I've got some bad news...

 

[NYincel]

Nah the only super legit thing is move to Asia. Problem is there's a limited number of girls you can ask via work or school. If you're not getting tinder matches then you're pretty much screwed - just think...one lay in 26 years bro...

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International student at college, I got to her before she was corrupted by western culture. We only fucked once though and only dated a month.

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I watched YT vids where this guy approaches random women. Gets rejected, but some give a #. Not the most attractive guy on the planet but a gym nut. Claimed before that he was an incel.

 

[Deleted member 60]

this site is becoming suicide fuel.

 

[/pol/cel]

Nah the only super legit thing is move to Asia. Problem is there's a limited number of girls you can ask via work or school. If you're not getting tinder matches then you're pretty much screwed - just think...one lay in 26 years bro...

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International student at college, I got to her before she was corrupted by western culture. We only fucked once though and only dated a month.

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So is running international student  from non anglosphere countries game a viable option?

 

[itsOVER]

So is running international student  from non anglosphere countries game a viable option?

I dunno, suffice to say I've had plenty more failure than success running this game. You need to catch them EARLY - once they've been in the west a few months it's already too late. Shed only arrived like a month before we met and was still quite conservative Chinese.

 

[Grotesque]

By being white.

 

[itsOVER]

I watched YT vids where this guy approaches random women. Gets rejected, but some give a #. Not the most attractive guy on the planet but a gym nut. Claimed before that he was an incel.

I'll NEVER be low inhib enough to do that. And cold approach doesn't really work even for Chad. I'm not going through 100 rejections to get laid once.

 

[NYincel]

Heh, I've got some bad news...

Yeah, I'm already dead posting here at my age. But I had girls SIT on one leg(between her legs), day after day when we worked on the computer. I had a hardon and she certainly felt it. This was many years ago, but that has to count for something. I loved that job, came early and stayed late. Once she said it is like two hours already, I better get up :lol:

 

[/pol/cel]

I dunno, suffice to say I've had plenty more failure than success running this game. You need to catch them EARLY - once they've been in the west a few months it's already too late. Shed only arrived like a month before we met and was still quite conservative Chinese.

Hmm thats still weird. I would imagine a conservative asian would only date within their own race or not put out at all until your well into an LTR. Dosent matter though if this strategy dosent work for me here its time to formally relocate to Indonesia.

 

[NYincel]

I'll NEVER be low inhib enough to do that. And cold approach doesn't really work even for Chad. I'm not going through 100 rejections to get laid once.

Well, that is what guys do. If you want it bad enough you approach. Sales is exactly that. If salesmen talked like you they would starve. I remember once a place tried to sell us a software product, and we told him no. But he would slip and email in here and there, a phone call, ask the right question, blah blah. Meanwhile he ended up with a 100K sale and we saved 10x that amount (a few employees). If you are a high quality male and have shit to offer women even if your looks aren't 100% it may be worth a shot.

 

[gstvtrp]

Jfl at what this site has become. Fakecels giving IT tier Tinder tips. If you dont look attractive absolutly none of these strategies will work. For them to work you have to be Chad but in that case they are redundant because roasties will message you first.

This man, Tinder is absolutely useless to me. It will never work, even if I swiped 10,000 times.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I'll NEVER be low inhib enough to do that. And cold approach doesn't really work even for Chad. I'm not going through 100 rejections to get laid once.

Why do you think cold approach doesn’t work for Chad?

 

[itsOVER]

Well, that is what guys do. If you want it bad enough you approach. Sales is exactly that. If salesmen talked like you they would starve. I remember once a place tried to sell us a software product, and we told him no. But he would slip and email in here and there, a phone call, ask the right question, blah blah. Meanwhile he ended up with a 100K sale and we saved 10x that amount (a few employees). If you are a high quality male and have shit to offer women even if your looks aren't 100% it may be worth a shot.

This isn't a PUA site. Even Chad doesn't cold approach.

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Why do you think cold approach doesn’t work for Chad?

Plenty of evidence from the gods of PUA themselves that the best approaches have a 1/40 success rate. The BEST. That's fucking dire. If Chad does the same thing via social circle he gets 30/40 at least.

 

[TheRealChincel]

This isn't a PUA site. Even Chad doesn't cold approach.

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Plenty of evidence from the gods of PUA themselves that the best approaches have a 1/40 success rate. The BEST. That's fucking dire. If Chad does the same thing via social circle he gets 30/40 at least.

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Eh, what Chads are approaching? Are we talking daygame or night?

 

[itsOVER]

Eh, what Chads are approaching? Are we talking daygame or night?

If you Google PUA success rate you'll find plenty of writing from the 'top' guys on the subject. And not ALL of them are beta normies, there's at least some good looking PUA's.

 

[universallyabhorred]

This man, Tinder is absolutely useless to me. It will never work, even if I swiped 10,000  times.

How do you get dates and numbers from females?

 

[CopingGymcel]

They do it because they want to get laid more than any discomfort there is in trying to do so, that's it.

We have a biological need to get sex that drives the majority of the populations towards trying to achieve it. Now, there are some rare cases like with you and me (and other people on this site), where the fear of rejection and humiliation overshadows the biological drive to have sex. But we're the exception, not the norm.

 

[nausea]

I don't have that dorm experience which would probably be suicide fuel

not probably, surely HIGHOCTANESELFPROPELLEDNUCLEARSUICIDEFUELFROMHELL