Serious How do you get motivated?

[ChinaCurry]

With everything I have seen since taking the blackpill, I have given up on ever having any kind of happiness like Chad, I'm just too broken.

I know it is good to throw yourself into finding professional success, eat healthy, get jacked, do stuff like scenic hikes etc.

The problem is I basically can't find ANY motivation to do any of that and instead after work just want to come home and LDAR. I have even lost motivation in some of the copes I used to have, like horology or food.

Had anyone here managed to snap out of it and love a positive life, knowing what we know?

 

[Akkadian]

I try forgetting the fact that I will never get a foid so I just focus on myself, but every now and then I feel despair.

 

[TheSecondComing]

see here's the thing, it's really hard but I have found a way through experience, the way it works for me :

Spoiler

it doesn't

 

[Glast]

Being white, all I can do is hope the hapas are right after all so that once I'm ready I can up and JBWmaxx.

 

[MaxZM98]

it isn't easy.

 

[Romello Gaghan 2]

Cocaine

 

[AntiPain]

you dont, it slowly fades away as does your will to live

 

[Uglyme]

I think about suicide and how easy it'd be to just end this shit. And alcohol. Lots of it.

 

[zangano1]

I don't

 

[thebuddhacel]

Doing my copes, and hoping something new to happen.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

You either are or you aren't

 

[Deleted member 19546]

The world doesn't care about me, doesn't care if I rot.

I don't want to rot, I want to survive and live throught the destruction and fall of society.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

Getting messages from cute teen girls. But no messages

 

[LastGerman]

I have given up on ever having any kind of happiness like Chad, I'm just too broken.

There will be no happiness. At this point you can only hit the gym brutally.

 

[Deleted member 13785]

You could hit the gym sure, but looking good is pointless if you aren't going to get a relationship from it. I refuse to believe all the "just do it for yourself bruh" stuff. Wow you look better now and for what? Maybe my opinion will change over time but right now I don't see the point of improving if it doesn't end in a relationship.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

I don’t find it particularly hard to motivate honestly unless you are talking about workplace productivity. Being in school I have to wageslave on the side. When I do things like read/study or play guitar, I feel gratified knowing I’m building my own skills rather than doing repetitive labor to make someone else rich. At this point I have accepted that pretty much no woman sees me as a potential mate because of how I look. That doesn’t mean I can’t do things for personal fulfillment

 

[ChinaCurry]

You could hit the gym sure, but looking good is pointless if you aren't going to get a relationship from it. I refuse to believe all the "just do it for yourself bruh" stuff. Wow you look better now and for what? Maybe my opinion will change over time but right now I don't see the point of improving if it doesn't end in a relationship.

exactly this, I'm never gonna be a Chad, and I even have to put in way more effort in gym and food to get same results as Chad or tyrone. add to that the fact that my gym is located in area full of all the expat bars, where all the jbwmaxxers are being degenerate with noodlewhores, and I prefer to just rot here every night...

 

[1680]

I wouldnt be able to live with myself if I became a hikki when my old man immigrated to the US with fifty cents in his pocket and worked to being a homeowner.

 

[Cuyen]

it isn't easy.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

this is never supposed to happen

you're supposed to get most of this shit nailed down while you still have your youthful energy and enthusiasm, when you're very young you can have terrible things happen to you and recover immediately, just wipe away your tears and be on your way like nothing happened

and yet your youth was 99% just people and authorities shitting all over you until all your motivation finally ran out

 

[Mystic]

Ye who enter here abandon all hope tbh

 

[Deleted member 15737]

and yet your youth was 99% just people and authorities shitting all over you until all your motivation finally ran out

This is so true that it hurt.

The Boomers stole my birthright by allowing and encouraging the society to become shit. They ruined the West in one generation and they raised the Millennials into the SJW’s we have today.

Fuckkkkkkk! Everything would be different if I was born just a few decades earlier. I wouldn’t feel like a fucking social pariah for wanting a virgin wife and a family.

 

[ChinaCurry]

this is never supposed to happen

you're supposed to get most of this shit nailed down while you still have your youthful energy and enthusiasm, when you're very young you can have terrible things happen to you and recover immediately, just wipe away your tears and be on your way like nothing happened

and yet your youth was 99% just people and authorities shitting all over you until all your motivation finally ran out

So so true...

 

[needsolution]

i have no motivation in myself tbh ngl

 

[BrendioEEE]

I cope with the hope that everything will get better the more effort I put into making things get better.