If you want to make a lot of money you first need to invest a lot of time (and money).
An example of this would be to study something in University which is complex and takes a lot of time, will, and ability to learn and master, like studying medicine or law (these jobs are more complex and therefore there are fewer people who do them although the need is high, which equates to more money earned).
Another example of investment of time and money would be starting a business of your own and being an entrepreneur. If you have a good idea and the ability to execute it you can make a lot of money, but you will first need to earn money and invest that in addition to a lot of time before you can start earning big bucks (obviously luck plays a part in your success here).
Being an incel might to a degree make it harder to find a job at an employer for various reasons, but if you study a certain subject and show that you are able to succeed in it, I'm sure you'll find a high paying job doing that type of work.