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Serious How do you define masculinity?

Ticcel

Ticcel

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If that term means nothing to you, then what are good traits that a man should possess besides the obvious physical characteristics like face and height? I’m really not even sure what it means.
 
In my opinion masculinity should be about who you are as man, that means ideals, principles, values, actions. If you're stubborn and truly believe in your principles and do what is truly right, then you're a man. No foid should tell you otherwise because she is a woman and has a hole, she shouldn't tell you the definition of a "man".
 
Not being a cuck piece of shit and sticking up for yourself like a man. If bitches tell you you're ugly, it's your job to bitch slap them to oblivion. BEAT THEM. RETAIN MENTAL FRAME.
 
The direct opposite of a cuck
 
  1. deep voice
  2. aggressive or numb as stone
  3. into guns, martial arts, knives, bodybuilding, etc
  4. works a manly job like construction, warehouse, plumbing, welding, automotive, HVAC, or any trade... Maybe Soldier or cop or firefighter or paramedic... If high IQ, doctor, lawyer, any stem field.
  5. walks around with a straight back, stomach in chest out
 
  1. deep voice
  2. aggressive or numb as stone
  3. into guns, martial arts, knives, bodybuilding, etc
  4. works a manly job like construction, warehouse, plumbing, welding, automotive, HVAC, or any trade... Maybe Soldier or cop or firefighter or paramedic... If high IQ, doctor, lawyer, any stem field.
  5. walks around with a straight back, stomach in chest out

  1. yes
  2. getting to be numb now
  3. most or all of these
  4. done stuff like HVAC climb high ladders carrying stuff etc..
  5. yes, it take flexibility and lower back strength to do this, take focus to walk like those ballroom dancers.
 
Not being a cuck piece of shit and sticking up for yourself like a man. If bitches tell you you're ugly, it's your job to bitch slap them to oblivion. BEAT THEM. RETAIN MENTAL FRAME.
The best defense strat is to look at their hands. Most of the foids have trash tier hands and they cant do anything to hide it.
Hands are their weak point.
 
having a sense of honor and caring about your people would be a great masculine trait and would advance society to a new era


instead modern masculinity is only about dick size and its fucking OVER
 
masculinity = whatever benefits women > marry a single mother with 3 kids, get cheated on and take her back like a real man



feminine = whatever doesn't benefit women > mgtow, hookers and no marriage




on a physical note, masculinity is the guy that looks more physically imposing than 80% of men
 
Masculinity is about "bragging" all the day about sex with foids, jocking about it, talking about sex all the time, laugh at virgin guys and say that we are losers, that women are easy... In other words something extraterrestial for an incel.
 
Masculinity is about having high T levels.That's it.
 
The best defense strat is to look at their hands. Most of the foids have trash tier hands and they cant do anything to hide it.
Hands are their weak point.
Never heard of that strategy before, I'll start doing that!
 
  1. deep voice
  2. aggressive or numb as stone
  3. into guns, martial arts, knives, bodybuilding, etc
  4. works a manly job like construction, warehouse, plumbing, welding, automotive, HVAC, or any trade... Maybe Soldier or cop or firefighter or paramedic... If high IQ, doctor, lawyer, any stem field.
  5. walks around with a straight back, stomach in chest out
Tbh
 
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@Ticcel
I don't define masculinity, because it is no longer even a factor, I only care about about making logical decisions that benefit my existence, and most of those decisions revolve around money due to the nature of modern society

If you care about masculinity as a "concept" then you are already lost, you've fallen for the meme, you still see yourself as "one of them" (normies), so you are stuck trying to fit a mold of criteria so you can feel proud of yourself for meeting that "standard of masculinity"

I have this saying, one should not strive to be BETTER THAN, one should strive to be BETTER OFF THAN, adding a simple word inbetween the other two makes a huge difference, its the difference between trying to meet subjective criteria, and trying to meet objective criteria.

The entire concept of trying to be a "real man" is trying to be BETTER THAN others by attaining that standard, its all really subjective, some of you will say things like honor, modesty, honesty, etc are what defines "masculinity", others will say its dependability, good work ethic, etc.Everybody just picks and chooses the criteria that best fits their personality and that they know they could possibly work towards to attain it, or they already have attained that standard (how convenient).

I don't want to be a "real man" I want to be a "resourceful man", I want to have wealth, not to meet some societal standard, but so that I can acquire the things I desire

Trying to fit a standard of masculinity is very blue pilled, this entire thread might very well be a well designed trick question to get men who are still blue pilled to inadvertently oust themselves, good job @Ticcel , whether you did this on purpose or not lol.
 
When you see an attractive lady on the street and your Gillette razor shaving friend is nowhere in sight to cockblock you, so you approach her like a normal human being.
 
Height, big bones, big hands and wrists, strong genetics like ogrecels brag about all the time, in terms of bones size and bodymass I have the strengths of a 13 year old boy. It must be nice as a man to feel physically strong and intimidating it has so many pro´s in life it´s insane, people will move out of your way when you walk (there is even a video shared on here with that experiment), people don´t want to mess with you and you can even get away from yelling back at people or flipping them off because as soon as they see your size they back off I have seen this happen with bodybuilder little brother several times and he is the same height as me 5´7" when people see a big guy they back off like any animal would it´s just nature like it would happen to all other animals they don´t want to fight the biggest alpha male they can see because it´s too big of a thread.

The people on this forum that has giving me shit about complaining about this are all big guys and they of course give me shit because they have never experienced to be small do you think anyone the size of a young teenage boy will get respect in society and people will be intimidated by him? No all this is just pure nature size commands respect.
 
My definition is simple. Masculinity is what differentiates men from women on a biological level.
So everything that has to do with the effects of male hormones and testosterone = masculinity.
 
good looks and nothing else

you can wear pink and take aids dicks up the ass daily


but if you look handsome and you're tall, you're 'masculine'
 
@Ticcel
I don't define masculinity, because it is no longer even a factor, I only care about about making logical decisions that benefit my existence, and most of those decisions revolve around money due to the nature of modern society

If you care about masculinity as a "concept" then you are already lost, you've fallen for the meme, you still see yourself as "one of them" (normies), so you are stuck trying to fit a mold of criteria so you can feel proud of yourself for meeting that "standard of masculinity"

I have this saying, one should not strive to be BETTER THAN, one should strive to be BETTER OFF THAN, adding a simple word inbetween the other two makes a huge difference, its the difference between trying to meet subjective criteria, and trying to meet objective criteria.

The entire concept of trying to be a "real man" is trying to be BETTER THAN others by attaining that standard, its all really subjective, some of you will say things like honor, modesty, honesty, etc are what defines "masculinity", others will say its dependability, good work ethic, etc.Everybody just picks and chooses the criteria that best fits their personality and that they know they could possibly work towards to attain it, or they already have attained that standard (how convenient).

I don't want to be a "real man" I want to be a "resourceful man", I want to have wealth, not to meet some societal standard, but so that I can acquire the things I desire

Trying to fit a standard of masculinity is very blue pilled, this entire thread might very well be a well designed trick question to get men who are still blue pilled to inadvertently oust themselves, good job @Ticcel , whether you did this on purpose or not lol.
I was just curious how people here define it. The word doesn’t mean much to me. Like many here have said: masculinity is basically how you are perceived by women. There are masculine men and unmasculine men. There are men who cope by saying masculinity is about being stoic and tough—qualities that give you the illusion that you have control over your masculinity since those qualities aren’t exactly empirical like your height. I do agree that if you’re going to compete in this competitive world, you’re better off competing for things like money and resources. Competing against other men to be the most masculine seems futile due to limited amount of control we have over how women perceive our masculinity(sex appeal imo). I guess it’s a good thing though; while some men compete to be the most masculine, others, like you I suppose, invest in your time in something more practical like moneymaxxing.
 
Competing against other men to be the most masculine seems futile due to limited amount of control we have over how women perceive our masculinity(sex appeal imo)

Exactly, its wasted effort

Either way, attractiveness is a depreciating asset (for both men and women) whereas money and wealth are appreciating assets

As incels we already have very little looks and even if we did have high level looks, just by the nature of the assets, its more logical to invest ones time and effort into acquiring wealth and money, this is why I never put much effort into looksmaxxing to begin with, and I think the men that do it are idiots, spending hundreds to thousands on buying the "right" clothes or "right" cologne, matching colours to suit your features (especially eyes), getting haircuts to draw attention to yourself and that suit your skull shape, buying brand names to attract women, etc, all a waste of time

Also looksmaxxing always felt ironically pathetic to me, since its men literally emulating women, the same men who complain and hate women for female nature ironically don't see the contradiction in emulating that nature through looksmaxxing, they are basically making themselves bitches, trying to one up eachother in looks points as though they are women, its disgustingly pathetic, its like men are bitches these days, there's a complete role reversal, I won't take part in it
 
Masculinity is involuntary behavior caused by the effects of testosterone.
 
Exactly, its wasted effort

Either way, attractiveness is a depreciating asset (for both men and women) whereas money and wealth are appreciating assets

As incels we already have very little looks and even if we did have high level looks, just by the nature of the assets, its more logical to invest ones time and effort into acquiring wealth and money, this is why I never put much effort into looksmaxxing to begin with, and I think the men that do it are idiots, spending hundreds to thousands on buying the "right" clothes or "right" cologne, matching colours to suit your features (especially eyes), getting haircuts to draw attention to yourself and that suit your skull shape, buying brand names to attract women, etc, all a waste of time

Also looksmaxxing always felt ironically pathetic to me, since its men literally emulating women, the same men who complain and hate women for female nature ironically don't see the contradiction in emulating that nature through looksmaxxing, they are basically making themselves bitches, trying to one up eachother in looks points as though they are women, its disgustingly pathetic, its like men are bitches these days, there's a complete role reversal, I won't take part in it
Yeah, I’m trying to STEMmaxx and go to SEA. I feel like that’s my only option.
 
One word:
CHAD
 

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