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It's Over How do you cope?

Antarctic

Antarctic

This is the end. Beautiful friend.
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How do You cope with knowing no one will ever care about you? I can't bring myself to do it anymore after all the things that have happened to me in my life..I don't know what to do anymore, my life consists of working, school, and then staying on this stupid computer all day until I fall asleep. I want to know what I can do to keep on living for the next year. I'm about to turn 24 in a few days and I want to at least start going outside when its sunny out for one more year before I rope for good. Any suggestions?
 
Video games , a break for gym, break for drugs , more video games, watch movies or some series, another break for food. And then fap 2 times and go to bed.
 
Go out for walks/exercise buddy, believe me, staying sat at a computer for long periods is really bad for you.

I used to spend all my evenings on my pc, now 3-4 times a week I go for long walks. I go on different routes, and only when its dark-ish outside. Sometimes I buy some food or just sit on a bench and practice deep breathing. It will help with your depression.
 
Go out for walks/exercise buddy, believe me, staying sat at a computer for long periods is really bad for you.

I used to spend all my evenings on my pc, now 3-4 times a week I go for long walks. I go on different routes, and only when its dark-ish outside. Sometimes I buy some food or just sit on a bench and practice deep breathing. It will help with your depression.
i barely have the strength to go outside. its really over for me
 
Go out for walks/exercise buddy, believe me, staying sat at a computer for long periods is really bad for you.

I used to spend all my evenings on my pc, now 3-4 times a week I go for long walks. I go on different routes, and only when its dark-ish outside. Sometimes I buy some food or just sit on a bench and practice deep breathing. It will help with your depression.
Luckily I just moved out of my apartment to a friends house for a few months. They have a nice park I used to go to often as a kid. I think I'll walk around that a few times a day instead of dwelling here forever. But idk, it seems like my black dog just keeps getting bigger.

 
Vidya, internet, thats it really
 
I coped by becoming an emotionless zombie. It shows in my face, voice, posture, etc. All I do is absorb blackpills and brush my hair all day.
 
recognize that society is evil and everyone are out to get you
 
i barely have the strength to go outside. its really over for me

Yeah I felt this way too. It's because your body isn't used to it. Or it could be a diet problem. We all have the energy to do things, we just need to get past the initial struggle, which is forcing your body to get out and do stuff.
Luckily I just moved out of my apartment to a friends house for a few months. They have a nice park I used to go to often as a kid. I think I'll walk around that a few times a day instead of dwelling here forever. But idk, it seems like my black dog just keeps getting bigger.



Good idea buddy, when I'm in a park I try to appreciate nature, whether thats the clouds, the trees, the birds... simple nature really is amazing to me, most humans just take it for granted.
 
Vidya, wank, lifting, repeat
 
You seem like a nice guy so please don't rope ._.
 
You seem like a nice guy so please don't rope ._.
Thanks based Hoppipolla. People tell me I'm smart all the time but I feel stupid because I haven't finished community college on time. And I REALLY want to get a well paying job to support my family. But it's hard because I'm in debt. I have a car and a lot of material things. I guess I take care of myself but I just find it hard to be alone all the time.
 
Drugs and Music all day, only the one hour gymceiling can clear my head from everything.
 
Video games , a break for gym, break for drugs , more video games, watch movies or some series, another break for food. And then fap 2 times and go to bed.
Sounds comfy, you're a NEET I assume?
 
Sounds comfy, you're a NEET I assume?
I am rn, but nothing will change if i find a job, i will just but in in between those.
 
Vidya, anime, watching movies/series, food, sleep. I cope with this.
 
I'm NEET and it's hell, when i had a job it was beyond hell
 
anime fighters are a good cope, also have to stay alive to watch the heavens feel movie trilogy
 
gym is good cope.
 
Coping by being in inceldom community, playing video games and wagecucking to save up for some surgeries.
 
im numb to it .

a few years ago I repeatedly headbutted a door till it broke out of frustration and disbelief that this could be my life.

I feel nothing but emptiness now. theres no way elicit real emotions out of me. I'll likely end up roping before I'm 30 if shit doesn't change for me
 
Thanks based Hoppipolla. People tell me I'm smart all the time but I feel stupid because I haven't finished community college on time. And I REALLY want to get a well paying job to support my family. But it's hard because I'm in debt. I have a car and a lot of material things. I guess I take care of myself but I just find it hard to be alone all the time.

Hm. You did finish though? And I think most people have some form of debt by their mid-20s to be honest. I'm 33 and I have debt from at least two different sources and I was always relatively careful.

Did you study something that might help you significantly to get a good job? As I know that some courses are much better for high paying work in the long run than others.
 
I'm NEET and it's hell, when i had a job it was beyond hell
Summed up pretty well.

Anyways, my copes are basically browsing this site and watching conspiracy vids on YouTube. I'm not interested in anything else.
 
Hm. You did finish though? And I think most people have some form of debt by their mid-20s to be honest. I'm 33 and I have debt from at least two different sources and I was always relatively careful.

Did you study something that might help you significantly to get a good job? As I know that some courses are much better for high paying work in the long run than others.
No I haven't finished yet. I have about 5 more classes to go until I'm done with college for good I guess. Its a drafting degree, I wanted to work on building and welding machine parts for oil and gas companies using Solidworks. I also want to eventually move into an industrial design company similar to one I had an internship in about 2 years ago during a summer. It was really fun and I worked on a lot of different buildings and their interior designs. I even helped design and edit some parts for the Dallas cowboys practice field using excel and AutoCAD.
 
No I haven't finished yet. I have about 5 more classes to go until I'm done with college for good I guess. Its a drafting degree, I wanted to work on building and welding machine parts for oil and gas companies using Solidworks. I also want to eventually move into an industrial design company similar to one I had an internship in about 2 years ago during a summer. It was really fun and I worked on a lot of different buildings and their interior designs. I even helped design and edit some parts for the Dallas cowboys practice field using excel and AutoCAD.

Well... that all sounds promising :)

So... fingers crossed things should go fine, right?
 
Porn and memes tbh without those things I would have roped already
 
Making music, drawing, coding, exercise, escorts occasionally but trying to stop.
 
Staying in bed all day cause too depressed to get up
 
Right now drinking alcohol. It's a great cope. It really helps you escape.
 
Brooding in complete darkness works for me.
 
I dont. Im just rotting away
 

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