How do you cope with the emptiness?

[ionlycopenow]

How do you cope with the eternal inner dread and fear knowing you have been condemned to rot alone and be excluded from any meaningful connection or meaning? That we basically have pointless lives with nothing to live for.

I sometimes get heavy panic attacks when fully realizing this and break down. They are extremely vicious and I have learned to cope with them, but they put me in a state of terror beyond any way I can describe in words. i can describe being frightened in a physical situation, but not these intense internal feelings of panic and dread whenever they strike at the realization of how absolutely fucked you are via things out of your control.

So me personally, I cope heavily with alcohol, and vidya. It numbs the pain of realizing you live in a horror story.

 

[Deleted member 41104]

maladaptive daydreaming

 

[ionlycopenow]

maladaptive daydreaming

I used to do this a lot as a kid. I think it’s the only thing that kept me from roping then.

 

[subhuman]

LDARmaxxing, junk food, porn, soft drinks, binging on this site, and suicidal ideation

 

[ionlycopenow]

LDARmaxxing, junk food, porn, soft drinks, binging on this site, and suicidal ideation

I have periods of self improvement and then I burn out and realize that shit is pointless and a cope and then binge all the unhealthy habits like this.

 

[bing]

food, vidya when I can force myself

Just remaining as comfortable as possible while leeching off parents as much as possible

May start drinking soon but don’t feel as miserable as you so not in a rush

 

[subhuman]

I have periods of self improvement and then I burn out and realize that shit is pointless and a cope and then binge all the unhealthy habits like this.

same. self improvement is a feedback loop. your motivation gets you over the initial hurdle but you need success to keep you going. if you aren't making progress because of shit genetics or shit situation and you aren't having foids and a social support network getting you through it you will inevitably fail. self improvement as an incel is an exercise in futility. i've self improved for the last time and am now on a death trip

 

[IchWillSterben]

Junk food and sleep

 

[ionlycopenow]

food, vidya when I can force myself

Just remaining as comfortable as possible while leeching off parents as much as possible

May start drinking soon but don’t feel as miserable as you so not in a rush

I get periods where I just puke all day long after or feel nauseous all day after. If you don’t drink then don’t start. It’s not fun. It’s just a crutch if you are neurotic

 

[bing]

I get periods where I just puke all day long after or feel nauseous all day after. If you don’t drink then don’t start. It’s not fun. It’s just a crutch if you are neurotic

I understand bro it’s literal poison lol.

Drinking and doing stuff is fun though. Helps to ease that neuroticism like u said. I’d probably go outside more if I was drunk

 

[ionlycopenow]

I understand bro it’s literal poison lol.

Drinking and doing stuff is fun though. Helps to ease that neuroticism like u said. I’d probably go outside more if I was drunk

That sucks too. I get paranoid at people knowing I’m shitfaced so even though I am less inhib I simultaneously become more high inhib at panicking if others can tell I am inebriated and larping being NT. (Pro tip, they can, even if you aren’t swaying or slurring speech or shit like that).

On the phone though I sound NT as fuck when wasted.

It sucks. If only painkillers and opioids/Benzos weren’t such addicting destructive kike poison. I would definitely be addicted to them if they were not. I don’t get hangovers from alcohol, I literally just get nausea and vomiting and it is seriously not fun to just puke for hours at a time.

 

[bing]

That sucks too. I get paranoid at people knowing I’m shitfaced so even though I am less inhib I simultaneously become more high inhib at panicking if others can tell I am inebriated and larping being NT. (Pro tip, they can, even if you aren’t swaying or slurring speech or shit like that).

On the phone though I sound NT as fuck when wasted.

It sucks. If only painkillers and opioids/Benzos weren’t such addicting destructive kike poison. I would definitely be addicted to them if they were not. I don’t get hangovers from alcohol, I literally just get nausea and vomiting and it is seriously not fun to just puke for hours at a time.

This is how I know I’m in the right spot. Best feelings I got and felt NT was when I was high on oxycodone and hydros

It’s addictive because it works boyo

I should have tried the drink pill before I lost my job being retarded. Oh well haha it’s all cope anyway

 

[Quarantined]

I try leanrning coding during the day(so I can make money in future) then feel like shit at night knowing I'm getting nowhere

 

[ionlycopenow]

This is how I know I’m in the right spot. Best feelings I got and felt NT was when I was high on oxycodone and hydros

It’s addictive because it works boyo

I should have tried the drink pill before I lost my job being retarded. Oh well haha it’s all cope anyway

I once was prescribed Oxy after being hospitalized. I didn’t feel anything even though I took like 1.5-2x the dosage it said to. I was too high inhib to go further than that so I just was disappointed

 

[K9Otaku]

How do you cope with the eternal inner dread and fear knowing you have been condemned to rot alone and be excluded from any meaningful connection or meaning? That we basically have pointless lives with nothing to live for.

That is not the case. There is meaning to be had and reasons to live as an incel.

The reason so many incels have this impression of emptiness is because we overwhelmingly equate "meaning" and "something to live for" with foid validation.

What I am saying is that you have to de-intoxicate yourself from foid-worship thoroughly before you can see the rest of the world, just like a hard-drug addict has to become clean before he can find pleasure in anything but his drug. And don't tell me you are not a foid worshiper. You are. You just don't know how deep it goes into your psyche.

I will not try to tell you where you can find meaning elsewhere because before de-intoxication, you would not understand it. But I know it exists because I have experienced it.

I sometimes get heavy panic attacks when fully realizing this and break down. They are extremely vicious and I have learned to cope with them, but they put me in a state of terror beyond any way I can describe in words. i can describe being frightened in a physical situation, but not these intense internal feelings of panic and dread whenever they strike at the realization of how absolutely fucked you are via things out of your control.

Basically, you are in a state of spiritual starvation. That is what is causing the panic.

You can only imagine "meaning" through a foid and yet foids reject you. You are basically being rejected by your own religion (take that word in a broad sense). There is indeed nothing worse for a human being.

 

[ionlycopenow]

That is not the case. There is meaning to be had and reasons to live as an incel.

The reason so many incels have this impression of emptiness is because we overwhelmingly equate "meaning" and "something to live for" with foid validation.

What I am saying is that you have to de-intoxicate yourself from foid-worship thoroughly before you can see the rest of the world, just like a hard-drug addict has to become clean before he can find pleasure in anything but his drug. And don't tell me you are not a foid worshiper. You are. You just don't know how deep it goes into your psyche.

I will not try to tell you where you can find meaning elsewhere because before de-intoxication, you would not understand it. But I know it exists because I have experienced it.

Basically, you are in a state of spiritual starvation. That is what is causing the panic.

You can only imagine "meaning" through a foid and yet foids reject you. You are basically being rejected by your own religion (take that word in a broad sense). There is indeed nothing worse for a human being.

I get what you are saying, but you are dead wrong to think I still give a single shit about foids or normies. I don’t acknowledge they exist and feel nothing when I see one.

 

[텍스트]

simply LDAR

 

[Izayacel]

same. self improvement is a feedback loop. your motivation gets you over the initial hurdle but you need success to keep you going. if you aren't making progress because of shit genetics or shit situation and you aren't having foids and a social support network getting you through it you will inevitably fail. self improvement as an incel is an exercise in futility. i've self improved for the last time and am now on a death trip

 

[K9Otaku]

I get what you are saying, but you are dead wrong to think I still give a single shit about foids or normies. I don’t acknowledge they exist and feel nothing when I see one.

My reasoning is that if you really did not give a shit you would not have panic attacks

 

[ionlycopenow]

My reasoning is that if you really did not give a shit you would not have panic attacks

It is not due to them. I don’t know what is causing it.

 

[flipcel]

Feeling the same brocel

 

[K9Otaku]

It is not due to them. I don’t know what is causing it.

I am pretty sure it is. Only the feeling of "being rejected by your own god (goddess here)" can create such a state of distress.

You should take time to think about this. Don't reject that idea too quickly. In my experience (I am an oldcel), I have seen very, very few incels who are really de-intoxicated from foid worship. I don't consider myself to be entirely free from it. The idea that foids represent everything that is good was drilled into us so deeply and thoroughly in our childhood that getting rid of it is an enormous undertaking.

 

[UglyandLoveless]

Gratuitous sadism maxxing.

 

[ionlycopenow]

I am pretty sure it is. Only the feeling of "being rejected by your own god (goddess here)" can create such a state of distress.

You should take time to think about this. Don't reject that idea too quickly. In my experience (I am an oldcel), I have seen very, very few incels who are really de-intoxicated from foid worship. I don't consider myself to be entirely free from it. The idea that foids represent everything that is good was drilled into us so deeply and thoroughly in our childhood that getting rid of it is an enormous undertaking.

Once again the problem is something else. It is a spiritual crisis for sure, but I seriously doubt it’s due to foids. I guess I will consider it though but I still doubt it.

 

[K9Otaku]

Once again the problem is something else. It is a spiritual crisis for sure, but I seriously doubt it’s due to foids. I guess I will consider it though but I still doubt it.

What else can it be?

 

[iceandblood]

By loving myself and having self respect on me. Knowing my own company is wonderful and knowing only I understand my own "language", only I understand the things I like, etc. That's why I rather be alone. Of course, perfect foid that has the perfect autist-friendly personality would be very welcome, but we don't live in a fantasy world unfourtunately.

 

[Deleted member 41988]

LDARmaxxing, junk food, porn, soft drinks, binging on this site, and suicidal ideation

 

[BlackPilledNeet]

I cope heavily with alcohol,

How much you drink in a week?

 

[Deleted member 41741]

These forums are a good cope.

 

[IncelHeII]

Realizing it's out of my control and the game was rigged from the start, and it's going to end eventually.

 

[allDead]

I don't which is why I'm covered in self harm scars and have been drunk every day since I was 21

 

[Deleted member 42309]

Gym and studymaxxing to the point i forget im a human and i need breaks

 

[UglyandLoveless]

Eating, spending time with my little sister, and working out.

 

[BCNincel]

LDARmaxxing, junk food, porn, soft drinks, binging on this site, and suicidal ideation

 

[bignose]

gymmaxxx , junk food , videogames,

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Junk food and sleep

Nothing quite like some sugary snack before heading off to the pillows.