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How do you manage to cope with the fact that, not only are we incels, but our lives are meaningless, and we'll cease to exist like we never were? Death really bothers me, in all honesty. Sure, it ends the pain, but it also makes it all in vain at the same time.
 
I just think of it like sleeping. Doesn't bother me too much
 
Death does not bother me in the slightest. I hate living. I can't envision a life for myself which I would enjoy living, so I don't mind the thought of death.
 
I don't think about it much, i more so just think about the life i'm living is miserable.
 
I try to think of it every 10 minutes
 
How do you manage to cope with the fact that, not only are we incels, but our lives are meaningless, and we'll cease to exist like we never were? Death really bothers me, in all honesty. Sure, it ends the pain, but it also makes it all in vain at the same time.
I feel that death is actually appealing. since our existence serves no ultimate purpose your screw ups mean nothing to the cosmos.
 
If you remember the trillions of other lesser organisms that also live shitty lives and die just like that it helps put things into perspective.

Even if there was a purpose, its impossible to know to any meaningful degree. So it's futile whichever way you cut it.
 
you can still turn out great people like nietzsche or Isaac newton were basically incels
 
As an incel you should less worry about death, more like how to cope witcha life twin
 
Why does the thought of non-existence bother you when you won't even be there to experience it?
 
I like to think of a nap that lasts forvever and you dont dream
 
I've already been dead
 
If you remember the trillions of other lesser organisms that also live shitty lives and die just like that it helps put things into perspective.

Even if there was a purpose, its impossible to know to any meaningful degree. So it's futile whichever way you cut it.
Those lesser organisms are less aware of their suffering and lack the cognition required for mental anguish. Not in all cases, but the vast majority. It's also entirely subjective what "lesser" vs. "greater" is when it comes to organisms. If survival and reproduction are the name of the game, then how can we say we're greater than anything else when there are species that far out-reproduce us?
 
Why does the thought of non-existence bother you when you won't even be there to experience it?
It's not not existing that I have a problem with. It's going from experience to non-experience. It's that loss. It's the lack of amounting to anything. It begs the question of why I had to even exist at all when I'm just erased in the end, like I never was. I still can't believe how unlucky I was to be born. I wish I had never been.
 
You don't cope, you just acknowledge that you will cease to exist one day. It's a crazy thought
 
I'm so scared of finally being rid of this cursed existence... Oh no!...
 
I'm so scared of finally being rid of this cursed existence... Oh no!...
I loathe the fact that it didn't have to be this way. By that, I mean all that has happened, and everything I'm afflicted with isn't an immutable constant of the universe. Just poor luck.
 
You don't cope, you just acknowledge that you will cease to exist one day. It's a crazy thought
I'm not entirely sure what you meant, but my view is that death is something you can't cope with. It's an issue with no accessible solution. Why should we be afflicted with knowledge of something we cannot fight against? A cope is something that softens the blow or redirects attention, but with death, there isn't a real way to cope. I guess religion or spirituality that posits death isn't the end, or life is meaningful in some way. That seems to be the only real way to cope. Take inceldom for example, I can reasonably cope with porn. It isn't one-to-one, but it satisfies the urge in the moment. With death, there's no outlet for coping.
 
Just take it as it comes, not much you can do about it
 
Those lesser organisms are less aware of their suffering and lack the cognition required for mental anguish. Not in all cases, but the vast majority. It's also entirely subjective what "lesser" vs. "greater" is when it comes to organisms. If survival and reproduction are the name of the game, then how can we say we're greater than anything else when there are species that far out-reproduce us?
What makes us outliers is our capacity for self awareness and reflection but you don't need that to feel fear or pain. Reproduction isn't a purpose anymore than breathing or eating are.
 
I will never die. I will never let the knowledge of my suffering get lost in time. I will defy the laws of the universe, of physics just so that the knowledge of my pain, my suffering lives on forever in my memory.
Lol it's so cringe and edgy but thinking shit like this helps me cope
 
I will never die. I will never let the knowledge of my suffering get lost in time. I will defy the laws of the universe, of physics just so that the knowledge of my pain, my suffering lives on forever in my memory.
Lol it's so cringe and edgy but thinking shit like this helps me cope
Sometimes I do that too, wish I could genuinely believe it. In my case, I'd always take a painful existence over non-existence. Unless that painful existence is so perpetual that the pain is intense and never stops.
 
I unironically don't believe it exists—not how most people think of it, anyway. I am confident that the 'soul,' 'spirit,' or whatever one chooses to call it, continues to live on to what could very well be eternity. One simply goes through body after body, constantly starting over in life again repeatedly with no memory of who they once were. However, who you actually are—something akin to a 'personality' but more abstract—remains constant.

Obviously, it sounds insane. It started off as just a stupid cope I forged together that was fun to think about, and I obviously didn't truly believe in it. It was just plausible enough that I kept it around and quite enjoyed dwelling on the thought every now and then. Ridiculous stuff such as fantasizing who I used to be, how I have remained and matured into the same general 'person' again and again, held back only by my own mortality.

Well, I make it sound like I thought about it often, but it was only occasionally. In one particular case, I was dwelling on the thought one day because of a strange dream I had a few days prior that kind of related. However, just as I was ruminating, I got a random notification on my phone from JewTube. I decided to check it out because I was doing literally nothing else important and may as well have.

IT WAS THIS

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MY JAW IMMEDIATELY DROPPED. The cunt even called me by my proper name for zero reason. On top of that, the way he structured his thing literally could not have been interpreted any way other than this person speaking to me as if he fully expected me to know what I was talking about. Mind you, I have NOTHING on my profile on ANY PLATFORM that would suggest that I thought this. He never responded back to my reply either.

It very well could have been a coincidence, and that's honestly the most likely explanation. Still, it makes my hairs stand up a bit...
 
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It is a non issue for me.
 

IT WAS THIS

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MY JAW IMMEDIATELY DROPPED. The cunt even called me by my proper name for zero reason. On top of that, the way he structured his thing literally could not have been interpreted any way other than this person speaking to me as if he fully expected me to know what I was talking about. Mind you, I have NOTHING on my profile on ANY PLATFORM that would suggest that I thought this. He never responded back to my reply either.

It very well could have been a coincidence, and that's honestly the most likely explanation. Still, it makes my hairs stand up a bit...
I'm confused. Under what type of video are these comments being made. Tbh your comment is inappropriate and misplaced as a response to what he said but I don't know the full context
 
I'm not entirely sure what you meant, but my view is that death is something you can't cope with. It's an issue with no accessible solution. Why should we be afflicted with knowledge of something we cannot fight against? A cope is something that softens the blow or redirects attention, but with death, there isn't a real way to cope. I guess religion or spirituality that posits death isn't the end, or life is meaningful in some way. That seems to be the only real way to cope. Take inceldom for example, I can reasonably cope with porn. It isn't one-to-one, but it satisfies the urge in the moment. With death, there's no outlet for coping.
The idea of living forever in a material world scares me way more than non existence.
 
I'm confused. Under what type of video are these comments being made. Tbh your comment is inappropriate and misplaced as a response to what he said but I don't know the full context
I don't even recall, honestly. I believe it was a short on the famine in Gaza while it was ongoing. When I originally saw the main comment whilst scrolling, I simply couldn't stop myself from being curious. Before I even posted my reply, I ended up scrolling through the guy's channel and glancing at his content he posted. He had a good handful of videos where he attempted to record what I can only assume were video guides for Mobile Legends. His profile picture also interested me because it was just a generic, standard anime picture. I ended up realizing that this guy really was just a normal person, and very well could have interests in stuff similar to the stuff that I like.

And so, I got curious enough to ask him how impending death felt—it's not often that you find an opportunity like that, after all. I'm fairly certain that people ended up misinterpreting my comment as being meant to disrespect the People of Gaza or Palestinians, but that really wasn't my intention. I would have asked the same thing regardless of who it was, really.

It could have been a Jizzraeli, African, Bong, or even Curry for all I cared... I was simply interested in the desolation that comes with death.
 
I don't even recall, honestly. I believe it was a short on the famine in Gaza while it was ongoing. When I originally saw the main comment whilst scrolling, I simply couldn't stop myself from being curious. Before I even posted my reply, I ended up scrolling through the guy's channel and glancing at his content he posted. He had a good handful of videos where he attempted to record what I can only assume were video guides for Mobile Legends. His profile picture also interested me because it was just a generic, standard anime picture. I ended up realizing that this guy really was just a normal person, and very well could have interests in stuff similar to the stuff that I like.

And so, I got curious enough to ask him how impending death felt—it's not often that you find an opportunity like that, after all. I'm fairly certain that people ended up misinterpreting my comment as being meant to disrespect the People of Gaza or Palestinians, but that really wasn't my intention. I would have asked the same thing regardless of who it was, really.

It could have been a Jizzraeli, African, Bong, or even Curry for all I cared... I was simply interested in the desolation that comes with death.
Understandable. Normies most likely will misunderstand your question and take it as a jab at them.
 
The idea of living forever in a material world scares me way more than non existence.
I don't think the material world is inherently evil; it's the fact that consciousness is beholden to matter and not the other way around. There's also an issue regarding consent in our present condition. I didn't consent to being born, I didn't consent to having sexual or any other kind of desire, and I don't consent to dying.
 
I dont care anymore
 
The fact that I will die one day and all of this will end is my cope for my existence.
Process of dying scares me (like jumping off a bridge) but I am very much comforted by the fact that everything will end one day.

No more pain
No more memories
No sensation
No nothing
 
Death does not bother me in the slightest. I hate living. I can't envision a life for myself which I would enjoy living, so I don't mind the thought of death.
 
I don't have to cope, if something has to happen, it'll come without our asking and consent
 

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