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How do people react when you tell them you’re a virgin or never had your first kiss?

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Edmund_Kemper

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As if I ever tell anyone. Would also be a lie now because I escortcelled my way out of virginity.
 
My doctor asked once. Motherfucker made the most unprofessional expression. Needless to say, he's not my doc anymore.
 
I typically don't actively tell people i'm a virgin, nor do I have a reason to.
 
Isn't this normal in 2019 with women going for high status males only
 
they are not surprised
you can tell im a virgin by looks alone though so it's almost a compliment to get asked (as if there's a possibility I wouldn't be, bluepilled cope)
 
I don't tell anybody this in real as I have no friends to tell this to.
 
You don't tell people that you are virgin.

Recently I had a talk about inceldom in a company of friendly normalfags and they showered me with platitudes. Then they realized that I have already tried everything.
 
I don't have irl friends, and I don't talk about it anyway.
 
Everyone knows I'm a virgin but if I told them that I havent kissed a girl I'd probably get lynched
 
I typically don't actively tell people i'm a virgin, nor do I have a reason to.
This, why would I ever actively tell people I'm a virgin? Besides my looks/mannerisms already show I am anyway.
 
They don't even need me to tell them, they already know just by looking at me
 
I just tell them I am autistic so I don't have to deal with any more questions like that
 
Why would we tell anyone?
 
You're asking for problem. They'll beat you with a stick.
Don't think they'd understand your situation. If one day one the cute girl from your department is asking if you're virgin, you can be sure they're trying to set you up.
 
People don't ask me that thing nor I tell anyone.
 
I only talked about being a 28-yr old virgin on normie forums and the responses i got were:

"Maybe you are gay."

"You need a coach/pua who can get you women."

"Don't bother getting into a relationship if you are friendless. The girl will leave you in 5 sec."

I can't remember the rest but typical Normie advices.
 
I don't talk to anyone
 
I never talk about things like that. My parents obviously know that I'm still a virgin as I never brought any foid home. People at work most likely know it too as I can get visibly uncomfortable when someone is talking about sex and relationships. I think it's pretty easy to tell if someone is still a virgin. Your looks and your mannerisms are pretty obvious signs you never punched your v-card.
 
i don’t tell them that , I have no reason to. Although sometimes I wonder what if they ask details of my first time
 
i don't actively tell anyone this. However if somebody asks me I just lie.
 
Give details
i normally keep it a secret at all cost and only confide in people i can trust because they've made sacrifices for me or invested in some way, thus cannot just sell me out in one second like the average shitheaded normie

anyway, my one somewhat authentic friend dissimulated his reaction so I couldn't quite read it, but he did his best to pretend like it wasn't a big deal and changed the subject (possibly so it wouldn't ruin the image he had of me, idk)
it didn't seem to impact his overall behavior towards me, probably because he already had figured it out partially, but again, that's because I chose someone who could actually handle it
 
I never tell anyone. If you admit to it you're instantly put on the bottom of the hierarchy,
 
they dont believe me
 
I used to play DayZ with 2 soyboys

one of them said, Bourbon, Do you have a girlfriend?
i said no

then he started to attack me because i'm an incel and/or virgin
 
Always will lie about it. 94 bluepillers should understand, there’s is no sympathy for admitting you’re a virgin and ya will get judged and emotionally abused for being one.
 
I'm always in my room avoiding social interactions and whenever relatives come and knock on my door I don't open because I know what kind of stupid questions they're going to ask me, my love/sex life included.
 
You guys should visit an escort so you can at least lie somewhat convincingly.

But, um, before that, they just look with an expression of pity. It's actually the reason I knew I was incel and registered here.
 
I don't socialise with people so they don't know
 
They immediately start treating me as some subhuman trash.Basically you will lose all respect from them and they will treat you below themselves
 
My doctor asked once. Motherfucker made the most unprofessional expression. Needless to say, he's not my doc anymore.
How did that came to happen and what did the doctor say to that? How old were you at the time?
 
How did that came to happen and what did the doctor say to that? How old were you at the time?
Back in college. I only answered truthfully because I thought it was important to my medical history for whatever reason.
 
They immediately start treating me as some subhuman trash.Basically you will lose all respect from them and they will treat you below themselves
This was exactly my experience after i admitted it to a guy who i thought was my friend back in my teens. He definitely told another group of people who started making virgin jokes when i appeared around them.
 
I think i never actually told that to anyone tbh.
 
Luckily my friends and co-workers have enough decency to avoid this question, the answer is obvious and they dont want to be rude.Only my parents and grandparents try to talk about this subject, I usually react with platitudes like "there's just nobody I like" and end the conversations.

I really can't understand why they ask though, for some reason they have less respect for my dignity and mental health than stacy from the accounting department. The only plausible explanation I came up with is that close relatives are just not capable of processing the though that their child is a genetic dead.
 
just casually mention you are a loser bro. everyone knows already so i don't need to say it; there is never a female around so not hard to figure out
 
Why the hell would I openly tell someone this in casual talk?
 
I have only ever been asked by psychologists and they always say shit like "oh theres nothing wrong with that teehee" and "some people just dont have sex and thats perfectly normal teehee" bullshit.
 
I just don't tell them
 
Terrible idea to tell anyone you are a virgin, lie lie lie because people will use any weakness against you.
 
"Don't bother getting into a relationship if you are friendless. The girl will leave you in 5 sec."
that only is kinda true if you are normie in looks you need to have friend network and go out to keep your gf at bay, for chad it doesn't matter
 
I always lie that i had a girlfriend back in school and already lost my virginity.
 

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