Is it social circle or death with them? Does a normie ever get cold approached by a girl?
I've often wondered that too. Sometimes I'll think maybe I have a chance with a girl, but then I think of the hundreds of messages pouring into her inbox every day and realize that there's no way I could compete, even if I were above average. But then I'll see a normal-looking guy with a girl I'd be perfectly happy to date, and I wonder what miracle must have taken place.
By orbiting foids non stop
normies dont get approached tbh, they need to orbit
I know a really good looking female, she used to say she wasn’t interested in a relationship but there was this one guy who kept orbiting her for years. They ended up getting in a relationship idk success through orbiting is a jackpot, very rare. Requires too much time and emotional burden. It’s a pass from me, but if I knew for sure that a girl like that is going to be mine after orbiting. Then I’d do it.
Ps: the guy had a jewy nose, wasn’t fit and he was poor. Jackpot for him
Wow, so orbiting actually works occasionally?! I thought those guys NEVER got laid. It reminds me of a funny and VERY blackpilling story of a girl I orbited back in my blue pill days.
I worked with this girl for a while, and after I left that job, we were corresponding via e-mail. I don't remember exactly what was said because it was years ago, but this is the general idea:
* At some point, she sent me some of her modeling photos. I would later find out that she sent them because she thought of me as so asexual, she didn't even expect me to get turned on by them.
* In a different e-mail, She mentioned that she had a falling out with her boyfriend. I expressed interest in dating her. She was offended and grossed out.
* I thought she got the impression that I was a pervert who just wanted to use her for cheap sexual gratification. (This was before I knew that handsome guys were encouraged to be that way.) So, I described how I'd like to have someone with whom to curl up while watching TV, etc.
* She was even more grossed out and appalled than before. Her level of shock and indignation was like if her decrepit grandfather were hitting on her.
Here's what's funny:
I'm sure you've seen the meme posts titled "Incels only want one thing, and it's disgusting" that show sweet, innocuous joys, like hand-holding and sharing a sunset with a girlfriend. While the meme is supposed to be sarcastic, it's actually true. If you're ugly, women are unironically disgusted by your desire to participate in humanity, no matter how innocent it is. And they're totally oblivious to the fact that they're judging you by your looks. They sincerely believe that their disgust reaction is because you're a bad person.