You just can't drop the whole thing. Normie brains get overcharged by that kind of thinking, and they reject it. It has to be done bit by bit. Like ZOGpill, which starts with the frugal jew stereotype. Jokes like "wire was invented when 2 jews were fighting for a coin" or "Why did jews spend 400 years in a desert? Someone lost 10 cents". Then the gradual making them doubt history books and credibility of media, easy enough with fake news. Then slowly pointing out jews in high positions of power: Soros, Rothchilds, Zuckenberg, Jews in holywood and other media, all done over period of months. Bit by bit the zogpill is swallowed. It is not a single pill, but a long slow treatment of the pill that is needed. At no point inflict your opinion on them. Give slight plausibly deniable hints to nudge them in the right directions.
Most normies, regardless of how blue pill have heard of women stereotypes. Baby coming out black, or a womans marriage is a mans funeral. Ask him - how many of the girls he knows are single to compare it to the number of guys. But not directly. Point out how you see so many single guys these days. Then a lot later point out how women especially are addicted to social media. Don't ask him why, let him make conclusions with out imposing. Then complaing about divorce laws and how they are tilted towards females once a case comes up in near vicinity. Again, slowly, over long periods of time. Then point out how unfair all the affirmative action for women is. Again not putting dating into it like you are complaining, but tie it to a personal story of some kind. Then find an example of a woman lying. Has to be done over periods of months, because if you dump it straight, he will instantly go into PC cuck mode about you objectifyng women.
tl;dr slowly drop hints of the blackpill examples in your imediate social circle and slowly blackpill him over months.
