How do I stop being nice to people?

[Corvus]

Everyone is so hateful and selfish. But I cant help but being nice to people which is a horrible thing to do.

People dont like nice people. Foids want to be beaten and abused (its a thin line that ill never understand), men have to be treated badly or theyll step on your eyeballs.

The problem is you have to be a certain degree of mean. Too mean and people hate you, too nice and they hate you.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

I'm naturally nice to everyone too because I was raised this way. The best I can do is ignore others so I don't get trapped, and especially with women who have used me 100% of the time.

 

[Darth Aquarius]

Being nice comes with being high inhib. It’s a way to protect yourself from people, and avoid any altercations necessary. It’s one of those high functioning autist traits, it’s not easy to change since it was how you’re wired

 

[Phallusy]

Being nice comes with being high inhib. It’s a way to protect yourself from people, and avoid any altercations necessary. It’s one of those high functioning autist traits, it’s not easy to change since it was how you’re wired

I can attest, I'm like that

 

[Corvus]

I'm naturally nice to everyone too because I was raised this way. The best I can do is ignore others so I don't get trapped, and especially with women who have used me 100% of the time.

A foid at my work told me shes getting married to a sociopath.

 

[Darth Aquarius]

A foid at my work told me shes getting married to a sociopath.

I would reply with “I hope he beats you every night”

 

[antisocialcel]

Hate is necessary, hate is everything, hate makes you strong

 

[NearestNeighbor]

Being nice comes with being high inhib. It’s a way to protect yourself from people, and avoid any altercations necessary. It’s one of those high functioning autist traits, it’s not easy to change since it was how you’re wired

exactly, i know i'm weak and cant even talk to defend myself, the best thing i can do is be nice and avoid fights and discussions, it fucking sucks

 

[Fatimacel]

I'm naturally nice to everyone too because I was raised this way. The best I can do is ignore others so I don't get trapped, and especially with women who have used me 100% of the time.

 

[Emba]

Being nice comes with being high inhib. It’s a way to protect yourself from people, and avoid any altercations necessary. It’s one of those high functioning autist traits, it’s not easy to change since it was how you’re wired

Yeah. Everyone has a short fuse. they're bombs... Never know who will explode...

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

It's not something you can change, it's genetic. You're simply weak and need to find a coping mechanism to deal with life

 

[Darth Aquarius]

exactly, i know i'm weak and cant even talk to defend myself, the best thing i can do is be nice and avoid fights and discussions, it fucking sucks

I hate it too but it’s probably saved my ass many times

 

[FumoCum]

You can't really change that shortly. It's something you change in years, but you will sure change and grow to ignore people because you're going to be fed up of them fucking you over the moment you want to talk with them.

Talk with people normaly only if they have good intentions (will be rare so don't really worry bout that).

Ignore the rest, but don't ignore by not saying anything because you will look like a sperg, just respond in the most uninteresting way by saying shit like "yea", "ok" and other very short responses. They will get bored because you won't be enough of a lolcow for them.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I'm naturally nice to everyone too because I was raised this way. The best I can do is ignore others so I don't get trapped, and especially with women who have used me 100% of the time.

Me too I'm still respectful doesn't mean I love people

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

Hate is necessary, hate is everything, hate makes you strong

It's like Evil people see love as a weakness the evil the darkest of evil brutes like demons in human flesh

 

[citycel]

People at the bottom of the pile are nice because they have to be.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

exactly, i know i'm weak and cant even talk to defend myself, the best thing i can do is be nice and avoid fights and discussions, it fucking sucks

I mean you don't want to get beaten

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

You can't really change that shortly. It's something you change in years, but you will sure change and grow to ignore people because you're going to be fed up of them fucking you over the moment you want to talk with them.

Talk with people normaly only if they have good intentions (will be rare so don't really worry bout that).

Ignore the rest, but don't ignore by not saying anything because you will look like a sperg, just respond in the most uninteresting way by saying shit like "yea", "ok" and other very short responses. They will get bored because you won't be enough of a lolcow for them.

I got so fucking tired of receiving indifference, sometimes I just want to be loved and have honest friends that shit can change you

 

[witheredcherry]

You just one day gotta start doing it.
I remember when I stopped greeting people and so on because this society doesn't deserve it due to how it has treated me all my life, a fucking hag literally complained about me not saying "hello" when I entered the waiting room at the doctor. Women feel THIS entitled to being acknowledged for their mere existence when they get older. Fucking awful

 

[FumoCum]

I got so fucking tired of receiving indifference, sometimes I just want to be loved and have honest friends that shit can change you

It's all luck in the end. You can't meet friends if you ward off everyone, but you're taken for a fool when you don't ward off strangers.
And it's a matter of pattern recognition and experience to know who might be a sack of shit or a genuinely good person.

If you want all the luck on your side to find people, try shit, try everything, just don't give to those who don't deserve it.

It's not clear cut, you will find people who are assholes, a lot, also a lot of people who just don't care about you no matter how close you believed to be for them. It's up to you if it's worth it to talk with many assholes just to find one good person.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

It's all luck in the end. You can't meet friends if you ward off everyone, but you're taken for a fool when you don't ward off strangers.
And it's a matter of pattern recognition and experience to know who might be a sack of shit or a genuinely good person.

If you want all the luck on your side to find people, try shit, try everything, just don't give to those who don't deserve it.

It's not clear cut, you will find people who are assholes, a lot, also a lot of people who just don't care about you no matter how close you believed to be for them. It's up to you if it's worth it to talk with many assholes just to find one good person.

Good advice I'm not as extroverted as I once was I'm not interested in making new friends anymore for that exact reason

 

[Arkansasmentalcel]

Everyone is so hateful and selfish. But I cant help but being nice to people which is a horrible thing to do.

People dont like nice people. Foids want to be beaten and abused (its a thin line that ill never understand), men have to be treated badly or theyll step on your eyeballs.

The problem is you have to be a certain degree of mean. Too mean and people hate you, too nice and they hate you.

It is very hard to me aswell because I was raised with southern etiquette

 

[estonia2k]

Everyone is so hateful and selfish. But I cant help but being nice to people which is a horrible thing to do.

People dont like nice people. Foids want to be beaten and abused (its a thin line that ill never understand), men have to be treated badly or theyll step on your eyeballs.

The problem is you have to be a certain degree of mean. Too mean and people hate you, too nice and they hate you.

They will hate you either way.

 

[poorenglishcel]

Being nice comes with being high inhib. It’s a way to protect yourself from people, and avoid any altercations necessary. It’s one of those high functioning autist traits, it’s not easy to change since it was how you’re wired

 

[thisgoodlife]

A majority of it is psychological wiring and upbringing. If you’ve been treated like a dog your entire life, then chances are you’ll still wag your tail to try and avoid that suffering. That is to say, it’s almost always a permanent consequence.
If you’re really so inclined to change this behavior, then only psychologically detrimental behaviors such as drinking, drugging yourself, or self-isolation is really going to affect the “self.” No amount of exposure therapy or any other external intervention can really rewrite the already established inner wiring.

 

[OmegaRicecel]

I'm naturally nice to everyone too because I was raised this way. The best I can do is ignore others so I don't get trapped, and especially with women who have used me 100% of the time.

Real. Im too passive and timid, and Im too programmed to be nice to everyone around me. it makes me look weak and like a easy target

 

[Izayacel]

You need to completely unterstand in what Situation you are in . Once you know you have no Reason to be to Nice anymore .

 

[DarkStar]

i just keep everything as short & simple as possible

 

[UglyDumbass]

Everyone is so hateful and selfish. But I cant help but being nice to people which is a horrible thing to do.

People dont like nice people. Foids want to be beaten and abused (its a thin line that ill never understand), men have to be treated badly or theyll step on your eyeballs.

The problem is you have to be a certain degree of mean. Too mean and people hate you, too nice and they hate you.

I’m trying to learn this too. We have to keep telling our selves to help ourselves only and no one else.