this is the true problem after school for an incel, where to go is hard to decipher, you hope that by going to a random place outside could make you encounter a special foid, like fate, but is not possible, very unlikely; on the internet, is even harder, because you will on type to her and will be an cold way of knowing each other, since an encounter on real life works by chemistry between the two, even then meeting is hard and is unlikely to find the foid that you wanna meet in person because she most likely is not on the same place and region as you, finding the answer is the true task, cryptic