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brutal as usual
 
Hopefully they both die.
 
Yikes, sweaty, so insecure of you, which normal person even cares about bodycount:foidSoy:? Be happy that you may not be his first, but you are his last:feelsYall:.
 
How do I get over how many men my girlfriend has been with?

I [26M] am struggling with the amount of men my girlfriend [26F] has been with, we have been together for over 1 year. I'm really struggling with who she seemed to be before me. There must be other guys in this thread who have felt the same, and I'm wondering how do I get over it or minimize feeling this way?

When we first met, we never had a conversation about how many people we'd been with. I just told her that I wasn't the type of guy to sleep around and she told me she wasn't like that, either. However, since, I've found out she has slept with so many guys, and also football teams. From the start of the relationship, she told me that she wouldn't look at pictures of dogs and a few months back she asked me to Google something on her phone and loads of pictures of them came up along with a bestiality forum for women. She also had a really bad wandering eye for a long time, which has NEVER stopped.


She was sat next to me texting her friend and the previous message from before me was about how great my best friend's dick was. She was also trying to show me something on her Instagram DMs and as she was scrolling down lots it showed a copy and pasted message, something to do with meeting up with the local football team, I have recently moved to her home city with her, and had a random guy come up to me over and over (he was drunk), telling me what a slut my girlfriend is and that he ran a train on her at a party a while back. She also follows tons of guys she has slept with on Instagram.

She has since told me that she has slept with a lot of guys, and it was just that she never liked any of them and used them for sex—assuring me that her heart belongs to me.

Anyway... I find myself obsessing over this. Whenever I go anywhere in the city with her, I dread that we will bump into a guy she's slept with, every time she asks me to go to the gym I feel upset that she will get railed by my neighbor while I'm away. Every time she's on her phone I think she's looking at guys or I worry she's messaging another guy. I started a job and I was so scared one would work there and it would ruin my work too. She asked me to go to a festival with a big group, I asked if a guy she's slept with would be there, she said there might be some now I feel like not going. I can't stop thinking about it, and it is genuinely making me feel depressed and so sad 24/7. I don't search up guys/compare myself to them, but I'm just sick of the thought that she was this way before me. Does anyone have any advice? When I talk to her about it she gets annoyed at me and says that past is the past. I do understand that, but I just don't know how to get out of feeling this way and I want to feel different.

Please, any advice is so helpful.
 
Haha that's what you get for getting into a relationship with a good looking guy that can fuck foids
 
there r so many blackpills sprinkled all over this post..

Lookspill, Chadpill, Juggernaut Law, etc etc..

it never fucking ends does it-
 

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