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How do I cope? Cope recommendations? [Im going off the rails]

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NeverBegan5063

Greycel
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>early 20s
>5'7
>sub3
I'm almost 25 and I still can't believe my social/romantic life has been so abysmal. There are literal teens who've had more fulfilling and enjoying lives and it pains me to think about it. All I ever see online is content that's either about foid and relationships, or something that pertains to them. It's pretty much intertwined with the entirety of all media. Songs, movies, TV, hobbies, magazines, etc. Guys like us used to have refuges like anime and the internet but even they've been compromised.

I need a good cope. Something to take my mind of things, and help deal with the FOMO that I experience pretty much every day.

I'm poor, always have been, so I need copes that are relatively inexpensive. Activities are not my thing because I hate going outside and interacting with normies/foids, but I'm not entirely opposed to it.
Any cope or hobby you recommend needs to be as foid-free as possible. I know that's not really possible anymore since they've already infiltrated or been shoehorned into almost every community you can think of.... but there has to be something. Also, something preferable online. I can tolerate normies (online) to an extent. But I'd prefer to interact with them as little as possible. Hopefully you can guys can point me to something where I'll meet other guys my age who are the same position as me.

Thank you.
 
do you have PC?
 
I cope by listening to music, drinking alcohol and eating junk food. I find programming and practicing guitar to be good if you want something more productive, though I don't really have the energy for these anymore.
 
just live however u want, give up on trying hard to fitin in any way and do everything to please urself.
 
Adding on to what others said, learning a language is great if you have the patience and time for it. It feels super productive + has a fuck ton of cognitive benefits apparently (reduces dementia, and increases memory)
 
Alcohol, music and racism.

Rednecks and Skinheads showed that this is a great way to live
 
Gaming- you can get some roms of older games for free and play them through an emulator

Tv/film - pirate any media you want to watch.
 
I cope by listening to music, drinking alcohol and eating junk food. I find programming and practicing guitar to be good if you want something more productive, though I don't really have the energy for these anymore.
I don't have the energy or drive to program. I used to love it, and did a bit of coding in my spare time but I just can't anymore. Plus, AI can already mog even some of the most experienced coders.
 
Gaming, reading, working
 
then play games, watch movies, browse the web, whatever you like.
The issue with that is I hardly ever experience real enjoyment from it. My anhedonia is strong
 
>early 20s
>5'7
>sub3
I'm almost 25 and I still can't believe my social/romantic life has been so abysmal. There are literal teens who've had more fulfilling and enjoying lives and it pains me to think about it. All I ever see online is content that's either about foid and relationships, or something that pertains to them. It's pretty much intertwined with the entirety of all media. Songs, movies, TV, hobbies, magazines, etc. Guys like us used to have refuges like anime and the internet but even they've been compromised.

I need a good cope. Something to take my mind of things, and help deal with the FOMO that I experience pretty much every day.

I'm poor, always have been, so I need copes that are relatively inexpensive. Activities are not my thing because I hate going outside and interacting with normies/foids, but I'm not entirely opposed to it.
Any cope or hobby you recommend needs to be as foid-free as possible. I know that's not really possible anymore since they've already infiltrated or been shoehorned into almost every community you can think of.... but there has to be something. Also, something preferable online. I can tolerate normies (online) to an extent. But I'd prefer to interact with them as little as possible. Hopefully you can guys can point me to something where I'll meet other guys my age who are the same position as me.

Thank you.
I have no copes sadly.
 
Recently I’ve been coping with anime and manga only; don’t really have much time for video games anymore.
 
If you're an autistic stemcel just try and solve math,physics or programming problems all day.
 
Getting good at calisthenics either at home or street parks is an underrated cope. It makes you feel stronger.
 

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