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Discussion How different are you Irl compared to on the forum

How different are you irl compared to on the forum

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Grodd

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Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a foid that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise foids and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
 
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The main things that are different are the beliefs I express and the fact that I'm way more comfortable talking to people on here than I am irl where especially at the moment I'm socially anxious and never go out of my way to interact with people.

Some things I can think of that are pretty similar is my style of humour, a lot of the jokes I make on here aren't that different from things I've said in the past irl minus a bit of the edginess.
 
Irl I'm an expert faker.
 
I keep telling my mother that many women are whores and that I severely dislike fat women. Some of the incel stuff I can just say openly in other scenarios as well. Sometimes I actually tell people I'm an incel and I don't face any repercussions for it. But the place where I live is not so cucked. I think you can't do this in Bongland.
 
I'm way more comfortable talking to people on here than I am irl where especially at the moment I'm socially anxious and never go out of my way to interact with people.
Same:yes:
 
It doesnt matter because according to IT, women have superpowers and can detect your misogynistic posts on an inkwell forum
 
I keep telling my mother that many women are whores and that I severely dislike fat women. Some of the incel stuff I can just say openly in other scenarios as well. Sometimes I actually tell people I'm an incel and I don't face any repercussions for it. But the place where I live is not so cucked. I think you can't do this in Bongland.
Low inhib mogs me
 
It doesnt matter because according to IT, women have superpowers and can detect your misogynistic posts on an inkwell forum
They can sense we post misogynistic things on this forum but can't sense that their next boyfriend will be abusive :feelsPop:
 
Irl I'm an expert faker.
Basically have to be to avoid the consequences that could come with openly saying what we think.
 
In real life, trust me, I am VERY different to how I am here. It's like night and day.
By day, I'm Just Your Average Guy (minus the looks shit).
By night, I rot on this site.
 
Years ago i used to say the shit i say here in real life since I didn't give a fuck about anything and used to talk shit about foids and all that, now I stopped and try to seem like a normie so family doesnt kick me out for being a NEET :feelsokman:
 
I'm very high inhib IRL but online idgaf
 
Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a foid that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise foids and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
Same here, plus being extremely high inhib and stutter brutally
 
The content of what I say in real life is different (I never bring up incel related topics nor how miserable I feel), but the manner in which I say it is similar. I'm a fair bit more thoughtful and coherent on this forum compared to real conversation because I actually have time to think.
 
I wouldn't say 99% of the things I say here IRL.
 
i m very different compared to real life!
 
I'm the same irl
 
It depends on my blood alcohol level and my mood. Anything from open confrontation to social phobia is possible for me. On a good day, I can be just as sober and ready for a fight. These days, I simply don't give a damn about a lot of things, or rather, I'm no longer afraid of them. I've already been beaten up in the homeless scene multiple times.
 
Sometimes it the same but I would use less harsh language IRL.

But most of the time I’ll just bite my tongue and not say anything.
 
i usually just troll all day so when i say weird shit that i mean my normie colleagues think its just trollinh
 
These days, I simply don't give a damn about a lot of things, or rather, I'm no longer afraid of them.
Before any nervous glownigga thinks I'm about to go ER or whatever: I fundamentally reject every act of senseless violence and other actions committed by such complete idiots.

More than that: I'm disgusted by them. I hate barbarity and uncivilized behavior of any kind. Murder and manslaughter are completely unacceptable.
Thanks for your attention.
 
you’d hate to be near me irl but that’s okay, this shit was lonely from the very beginning. i’m mostly quiet but freak out easily, the kinda unexpected thing i do is wave back my hand while walking if a homeless brother says how’s it going. that’s my only socialization the rare minute i’m outside LOL. but basically you will never meet me irl
 
no one to express my beliefs to lol
 
im more fun online, I'd imagine I come across like general CHO in real life but more cowardly and deliberately making the coversation as mild and uncontroversial as possible so I come across as normal

Like most chinks I have very shifty eyes, moreso than most chinks, so you get the sense you cant trust anything I say even IRL
 
Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a female that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise females and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
I'm honest to a fault on here. How I am in my posts is exactly how I am IRL. But I'm over 35 and old so I don't need to pretend to be something I'm not.
 
I cannot make the "Pussy smells like fish!" jokes at work as I have a corporate job and I have to keep HR in mind when speaking with coworkers, but other than that, I am practically the same as I am not angry at being an incel at 41, just depressed. I do not "hate" women or anyone else anymore in particular, as I am psychologically-drained at this stage in life and am more sad than anything else.
 
I don't really interact with society tbh. :feelsokman:

I guess I'm just myself. I'm very quiet though in person, so I hardly say anything.
 
Depends. For some things I must mask and hide, for example sui tendency, opinion on justice, and annoyance at the irrationality I see in foids. But I currently don't go to great lengths to hide that I'm ND, because I figured out normies can immediately tell when I start talking
 
Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a foid that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise foids and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
I'm the same way
 
I avoid normalfags like the plague. I mostly say what's on my mind to my mother. she's somewhat blackpilled but it's impossible to blackpill holes or boomers properly so ...
i will pretend to care just to appear as normal
:feelsUgh:
 
I'm myself as well here as IRL, but from obvious reasons - i have to restrain myself from telling various things.
 
Not much different
 
I'm not that different. I'm introverted, high inhib and socially retarded both here and irl.
 
Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a foid that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise foids and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
In comparison to the Internet in general I'm reserved , nice, and high inhib in real life. Most people think I'm just some nice normal shy guy.
 
I pretty much attempt to hide anything that will make my life more annoying but apart from that Im probably a more toned down version atleast if Im around certain people
 
I’m just a loner irl and online so I’m still the same. I don’t talk to people outside of this forum
 
im high inhib enough to know how to behave. doesn't mean i don't despise foids and know the only value they have is their collection of holes
 
My personality is pretty much the same in real life. I just control myself from saying something illegal.
 
Depends, when I first joined I used to get pretty angry and heated on here pretty regularly since I had a lot to vent about and be angry about when I first joined which is why I sought this place out in the first place, which I obviously can't do regularly irl without ending up in an asylum.
More recently I've been more numb than angry, and also just don't have as much energy to express myself as I did when I first joined, so I act closer to how I do irl.
 
I embrace my persona quite a lot except for at work, assuming I'll ever find a job again. My mid-60s parents, especially my father, know all about blackpill terminology. They can't relate to most of it (shocker), but they will agree that it has its merits. That's more self-awareness than most boomers could ever dream of having.
 
Irl i'm quite reserved and overall nice i pretty much wear a mask of normality in that i never convey my actual beliefs to anyone because if i do the consequences could be drastic, for example when someone in my family tells me about some "tragedy" to do with a foid that they heard on the news or something i will pretend to care just to appear as normal even tho inside i fucking despise foids and don't give a fuck about the bad that comes their way. Basically irl all my beliefs and things i say on here are the same but i never tell anyone my thoughts irl.

I've never told anyone irl that i'm incel because i will be hated on for it.
sometimes i’ll be honest and direct
 
I've tried to kinda explain all of the things we are fighting against to my friends and family. Some of them partially get it and agree with me, but most don't really care or understand about what I'm saying.
 
Very, deception is essential to my persistence in society.

No-one would care if I talked about being alone anyway.
 

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