Serious How did you previously rationalize your inceldom, before swallowing the BlackPill ?

[BlackpilledAF]

Once I was exposed to the BlackPill, suddenly all the events in my life and the world in general made sense.

However, before that, I used to cope with the "social anxiety" meme. I used to think that I've never had a girlfriend because of my "social anxiety" and lack of social skills..

Post-BlackPill, I cringe at how I used to rationalize my inceldom and low-status in society. In retrospect, I believe that I've always been somewhat neurotypical enough to function in society, but I was never given any chances because of my looks.

What about you incelbros ? How did you rationalize your inceldom before swallowing the blackpill ?

 

[whogivesafucc]

i swallowed it half-way

i legit never see the blackpill irl. ever.

thus it's hard for me to take the final step

 

[universallyabhorred]

I thought it was my poor social skills, lack of social circle and the fact I never asked out females but after seeing chads literally being surrounded by females and worshipped while females even refused to interact with me and when I smiled at them they looked away in disgust, I began to analyze my face in the mirror and from that I came to a startling realization.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

I thought I would change completely the older I got. I thought that I was just unlucky and maybe someone would like me one day. My parents tricked me into believing there was a chance, but as time went on what they said didn't come true and things only got worse.
Even with all the bullying it took me far longer than it should have because of my hope.

 

[i_a_m_i]

I honestly can't remember. I never thought about it. When I think back to when I was in middle and high school, I think, "Oh, I get it. They're treating me this way because I'm ugly."
But I can't remember what my thoughts were at the time. If I had to guess, I'd say I just felt empty and weird, aware that I was out of place, but with no real understanding of why I was so out of place.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

I thought it was because I was shy.
When I found psl years ago, I finally understood why I was always treated like shit.

 

[Scorn]

rationalized it with lack of confidence years ago
and then i've began to see a pattern

 

[masterwizard]

I could never fully rationalize it although I sort of knew, because looking at photos of myself was EUGH, extremely uncomfortable. Yet in the mirror I thought I was genuinely quite attractive.

Then I took a picture of myself in full side profile, whilst reading about recessed chins, and it all made sense. I have a very weak chin, which torpedos my attractiveness.

The sideprofilepill is a real horse sized pill to swallow.

 

[justenditall]

below age 18: "its normal, nobody is having sex at our age anyway" (yes i really believed that, cringy bluepilled cuck that i was)
18 to 20: "eh i guess i'm just a late bloomer, it'll be fine"
21 to 23: "why is this happening to me? what is wrong with me?"
24+: blackpilled

 

[Izayacel]

i first thought there was something wrong with me, always introverted, not even a near social circle, ( not that i care ) weak social stkill and mental, its all about being superior in looks and or tons of money wich you brag about , im now 23 neeting at moms basement, 121 kg heavy ( i gained like 40kg over the past years or so ) i should cardiocel again just for the lols, i did it in the past even gymcelled(propably not hard enough ) but it aint got me something so i gave in

and + all of that my father died since i was 9

 

[Deleted member 6101]

I never rationalized it, though.
I remeber knowing how shallow women are when I was like 5 or 6. I observed the interactions, idolizations and the way my female cousins and their friends behaved- it left a significant imprint on my impressionable mind- cartoons fed me the same message. ~17 years later, I haven't really changed any of my views, since the feedback's been the same.

 

[FlyFace]

Swallowed it in High School. Was an incredibly bitter pill to swallow at such a young age... well maybe not fully blackpilled mind you, but it was definitely the start.

 

[Nakuro]

Once I was exposed to the BlackPill, suddenly all the events in my life and the world in general made sense.

However, before that, I used to cope with the "social anxiety" meme. I used to think that I've never had a girlfriend because of my "social anxiety" and lack of social skills..

Post-BlackPill, I cringe at how I used to rationalize my inceldom and low-status in society. In retrospect, I believe that I've always been somewhat neurotypical enough to function in society, but I was never given any chances because of my looks.

What about you incelbros ? How did you rationalize your inceldom before swallowing the blackpill ?

I swallowed it when my Mom Said to me this "son you are ugly, so to get a woman or getting married you have to Focus in study and university so you would get a good career and forget about others things.." so you can wonder how broke and blackpilled i'm

 

[IsolationHurts]

The history of my rationalizations:

Firstly, when i was a kid, i thought i was from other planet (no kidding), and, later, thought i was adopted ("I dont fit because im from other planet/family"..)

Then, during high school, i thought i just had bad luck. I didnt even see the problem for some time, and hoped that i could get friends and a gf as soon as i left my home and go abroad to study what i liked ("I have no problem, im just unlucky")

Then, first years of college, was a radical feminist/leftist. A proffesional orbiter. ("Women dont like me because im not generous, pacient, kind... enough with them. I have to spend even more time and money in them, and they will realize im better than any tall, handsome and rich dude" etc)

Then, i became a meditator (almost a monk). I begin to think that i was a reincarnatiof of some hated guy from a completely different culture. I began to notice that some (blackpilled) ideas were accurate, but didnt want to accept it. ("Nobody loves me because i didnt love anybody in my past lifes, i have to love everyone, specially the poorest, in order to get the karma i need and be loved in this life")

Then, i litteraly joined tibetan buddhism and thought that if i meditated enough (also, postrations, mantralization, reading of sacred texts, praying, etc...) i could be reborn as a person with social skills, handsome and in a healthy family, i would become buddhist again and i would have a beautiful gf, also buddhist, to practice together and get enlightened together. I really wanted to ignore my actual life for the next 50-60 years due to the extreme pain of depression, isolation and inceldom, but I failed miserably. Trying to repress sexual urges and thoughts every day non stop almost made me lose my mind. Specially when almost nobody has to torture himself like that because they can have sex.... ("Sex is bad, im lucky to actually be rejected by every foid during this life. In my next reincarnation i will be able to practice "pure" or "sacred" sex, in other words, tantra; so its not a bad thing but a oportunity, im very lucky.... ")

Then, i got my degree and gave up. I fully realized how the sexual market works, and began to rot as a NEET ("I never had a gf because im ugly, lack social skills and im poor")

Finally, the "black pill" was "discovered" or "invented" and i recognized myself in it ("Im a pathetic incel, genetic trash, and i litteraly deserve to die. All i did was deluded and a waste of time. There is no hope at all...")

 

[Deleted member 5653]

14-19: I don't want to socialize with normies and girls because most of them are degenerates anyway and its waste of time.
20: Wait a second, I am not capable of socializing with girls, how could this happen I AM IN CHARGE HERE. I guess I just need to be more confident, girls will notice that :^).
At around 21: Ok, I have gotten the short end of a stick. Started coping with anime and vidya.

 

[Incel801]

Knee deep in pua..i just wasn't trying hard enough!!

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I used to think it was lack of social circle when I was 18 to 19-ish as well as bad luck and trying to believe 'nice' girls existed. But I have met so many male loner Chads with glorious sex lives in the following years that "needing friends for social proof" is irrelevant to getting laid.

At 21, I had a Chad-lite flatmate that was a loner (actually he had 1 guy friend who was more of his go-to Cannabis dealer than friend) who was brining home the bacon almost every week (bacon meaning fit/passable girls).

That really was a smack in the face with a black brick. That Chad-lite flatmate had nothing going for him. No talents at all. A waste of space that went out partying and smoking pot.

My bro was also a loner that got many dates and women, but he's 6'2, big frame and a solid 6.5 in his prime.

I'm 5'9, small frame and never got above a 4.5 in my life. I will say no more.

 

[JovanD]

I was always broke and from poor family, that was my excuse, but also at the back of my mind i knew exactly what was going on.

 

[TomathonClancy]

I never rationalinized it, I knew I was ugly ever since my friends and girls pointed that out in middle school

 

[Cancel]

I rationalized it by deluding myself that women gave me a second thought.

I became blackpilled when I realized that the women I cared about never cared for me. I'm not even talking about caring for me sexually or romantically. I'm talking about simply being a friend or an acquaintance. I realized I meant nothing to them and any connection I had with them was all in my head.

 

[JdawgYUNGmoney]

That I was young and went to the worst school in the world.

 

[Doub]

Since I was 14 I've worked in a 90%+ male environment (technical high school, engineering university, software jobs). I assumed my situation was normal as I don't look like I belong to the top 10% of males. On top of that I got a shitty family where everyone hates each other, that didn't really make romantic relationships appealing. Near the end of university I finally saw some happy couples among my friends. Few years later I tried to date. I'm not sure I'm blackpilled, but I'm far enough into the fringes of maledom that I know I won't mate.

 

[Newbite]

At one point i actually thought i was so attractive i was intimidating

 

[Kokoro]

told myself i had to just wait and that it would get better. maybe i would grow a bit

 

[Total Imbecile]

below age 18: "its normal, nobody is having sex at our age anyway" (yes i really believed that, cringy bluepilled cuck that i was)
18 to 20: "eh i guess i'm just a late bloomer, it'll be fine"
21 to 23: "why is this happening to me? what is wrong with me?"
24+: blackpilled

Same. Under 18 me used to believe that "its not a big deal" and that "not a whole lot of people are having sex anyway, Im just a late boomer". At 18, right before starting college, I swallowed the blackpill and it all made sense to me then.

I cant believe that I used to think that I look "just fine, if not slightly above average."