Venting How did you imagine your life was going to be as an adult?

[Yabadadabadoo]

I thought I would be an average guy with an average girl and an office job aswell as two kids.

Certainly I didnt expect being a virgin with no friends that rots all day but it is what it is

 

[9009]

Exciting but turned out to be regretful

 

[Sunset]

I didnt even think about it, but now here i am, almost 20

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

I had high hopes

 

[Pancakecel]

Better, but it just got worse

 

[Drekavac]

i never thought itd be good

 

[B33troot]

I imagined I'd eventually find a GF because I thought it's just how life works. My logic was "Every man has a wife or GF, so it HAS to happen to me also".

 

[Cryotron]

when i was a kid i though it will be fine, but around age of 16-18 i was certain that it's over

 

[Poopless One]

I thought Id be the proud publisher of my own comic series as hobby while supporting myself with a real job and having a tall loving Christian wife.

 

[$₦øωǤя!†₲ų¥]

I had ridicules dreams for the future. I wanted to be good looking (dressing like someone from the Victorian era and similar cringe type things..), have a wife that loves me and average life things that everyone wants. Work a job that I will like. I thought that one day I will be happy and have friends. That nobody will bully me anymore.

I really did failed the younger me... I guess I was dreaming too much without considering that it was over before it even begun.

 

[RealSchizo]

I thought I would be an average guy with an average girl and an office job aswell as two kids.

Certainly I didnt expect being a virgin with no friends that rots all day but it is what it is

I don't even have to write anything on my own. You've described it good.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

I don't even have to write anything on my own. You've described it good.

We had low expectations yet didnt even fulfill them

 

[Anthrofurrcel]

Not as miserable as it is now

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I thought I would live a normal life. I thought I would get married and maybe have a kid or two. But hey, I guess I'm an evil misogynist for ever expecting something like that.

 

[DarkStar]

I had kinda high hopes- Fighter pilot, soldier, detective for the FBI/CSI, astronaut, astronomer, lawyer, even some kind of inventor

Sadly, reality hit me differently

Eventually I began to crave what you wanted, but now know it's unattainable

 

[HeinzKell]

I thought everything would get better in my early 20s once I really got into college. lol

 

[fatass30000]

i thought i would be a charismatic jacked dude going to a good university for a high paying job, being surrounded by bitches. Not a single thing came true.

 

[Poopless One]

I thought I would live a normal life. I thought I would get married and maybe have a kid or two. But hey, I guess I'm an evil misogynist for ever expecting something like that.

 

[Poopless One]

I imagined I'd eventually find a GF because I thought it's just how life works. My logic was "Every man has a wife or GF, so it HAS to happen to me also".

I'm sure we all thought this.

 

[Deep.Nest]

i thought i would be a charismatic jacked dude going to a good university for a high paying job, being surrounded by bitches. Not a single thing came true.

likewise

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I'm sure we all thought this.

No kid ever believes that they are going to end up as an incel. We grow up thinking that dates, love, sex, marriage, and children are natural rites of passage. Society shows us this in fairytales, movies, and TV shows. But they only start telling you that you're entitled for having these expectations when you grow up and become a sub 5 man. Funny how that works.

it is fucked how we can't even grieve for these shattered dreams without normies insinuating that we are bad people. They are allowed to express despair and bitterness when they become ill or give birth to disabled children, but incels aren't even allowed to vent about living a miserable, lonely and sexless life.

 

[asuraxia]

i never planned for the future which is probably why i turned out like this

 

[Poopless One]

it is fucked how we can't even grieve for these shattered dreams without normies insinuating that we are bad people. They are allowed to express despair and bitterness when they become ill or give birth to disabled children, but incels aren't even allowed to vent about living a miserable, lonely and sexless life.

They only care about themselves. They are cowards and frauds who deserve God's wrath!

 

[DutchCel01]

Even when i was young i struggled hard. I knew back then i wasnt made for this world and too weak and mentally fucked. It really set in once i hit puberty and saw how behind i was to my peers.

 

[DutchCel01]

Even when i was young i struggled hard. I knew back then i wasnt made for this world and too weak and mentally fucked. It really set in once i hit puberty and saw how behind i was to my peers.

Story time i just got out of a call with some old online 'friends' who i have known for 5+ years but havent talked to in a while, 1 runs a small business and is doing good, the other is ripped and has lots of hoes. We used to all just be a bunch of losers together but they have far exceeded me. I felt completely mogged just talking to them and it made me feel like shit honestly. They didnt even rub it in it was just me asking them how its going and stuff. Why am i such a loser still i dont know.

 

[Wolnir]

I knew that I was fucked since I was a teen. I knew that I was an incel as a teen. I got treated like shit by foids back then and assumed that it would be the same for the rest of my life and I was right.

 

[avoidthefoid2]

I didnt even think about it, but now here i am, almost 20

you have to fix your life before it's too late buddy

I was 20 a second ago and now I'm 35

 

[undertaker77]

I thought I'd have a beautiful white wife and have white children. But that never happened for me.

 

[Waterbender5]

you have to fix your life before it's too late buddy

I was 20 a second ago and now I'm 35

whats it like being that age? do you have more freedom/are you happier than when you were 18-20?

 

[Animecel2D]

anything but this…

 

[CopingForLife]

I thought I would have a hot white woman as a wife.

 

[InternalJizzz]

nothing like the way it turned out i thought i’d having a gf and a good job at least.

 

[UnchargedSamsung]

I’m a young adult

I thought I would be having the “best time” of my life in college when I was younger

Except I’m doing the same shit i was doing in high school and middle and elementary just go to school gymcope and home same shit agin and again and again

Now I’m neet and I only go out to gymcope and buy groceries

 

[Mecoja]

As a kid i thought that it was gonna be "normal" which for me was what i saw in American movies and tv shows.

 

[Steiner_Atlas]

When I was a kid I thought I'd be some big shot researcher, although by the time I was in Middle School I pretty much guessed I was going to be ldar'ing the rest of my days

 

[Deportedcel]

I thought I would be an average guy with an average girl and an office job aswell as two kids.

Certainly I didnt expect being a virgin with no friends that rots all day but it is what it is

I thought I could be a huge YouTuber with a massive house and loving gf.

nothing came true.

 

[cooked in life]

I thought i would just have a normal life somehow. Instead im rotting all day getting shit on by my family

 

[RandomGuy]

I thought I would have a hot white woman as a wife.

I bought this same car in the same color when they first came out, it didn’t get me anything but a speeding ticket.
Now I drive cheaper jap car after realizing nothing helps a non-NT ugly face.


View: https://youtube.com/shorts/OVhSwzxE3ps?si=C8wfN5SNvtVzPt9I

 

[Allah (Real)]

i thought i would improove and become popular. i fantasized that one day people will see my positives, that my emotional wounds would heal. i thought that in the end everything would be ok.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Actually I had a feeling I knew I was gonna be a loser. Probably when I was like 8 or 9 I started to realize that.

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

I expected to be a loser barely scraping by and dying a homeless genetic dead end, but I assumed I'd be able to get least get a couple dates in my life even if they never lead to physical affection. I've never even had a first date despite losing weight, having low standards, and outright lying about my height and status.

 

[superpsycho]

i just became a legal adult a little over 3 months ago but im going down the path of what cuckciety deems a "loser"

 

[Friezacel]

i never planned for the future which is probably why i turned out like this

Futurr planning is cope. If it doesnt happen naturally then its over for you

 

[sadlemon]

I'm not sure. I always kind of drifted in this life of mine. It's like i'm always floating around without much thought.

What i know is that i for sure did not expect this outcome, at the very least a gf would have been fine. And i would have loved to be retired by now, alas it took me like 5 years to get my frist job