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Story How did you find about the existence of incels?

How did you find about the existence of incels?

  • Elliot Rodger

    Votes: 15 14.2%
  • Toronto Incel attack( Maycels)

    Votes: 5 4.7%
  • Through other subreddits such as... r/amiugly, r/foreveralone, r/rateme etc.

    Votes: 31 29.2%
  • Youtube (Vice news, SootHouse, Glink etc.)

    Votes: 12 11.3%
  • Other (Please tell below)

    Votes: 43 40.6%

  • Total voters
    106
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Back in 2017 June i found about a subreddit called r/amiugly. I found the concept very nice. I was very afraid to post a picture of myself because i knew that people would tell me that i am ugly. Yet, i posted there and got some "yea you are ugly" and some "youre ok, dont worry. Work on your personality !!!!".

Well after a few days of browsing that place i found out about other subs such as r/truerateme where people would rate you very honest and in the most brutal way possible(btw after a few months i was very good with the mods and managed to get into the mod team). However i saw a guy commenting to an other guy that he could pass as an incel as ugly as he is. I was very curios about that term and started doing some research about that and found out about r/incels.

What about your story. I am really curious.
 
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leaked in imageboards pretty early
 
From r/foreveralone where they were talking about how "at least we aren't hateful like r/incels"
 
Other, I discovered incels in 2013 when I took part in an Italian forum that was about ugliness and incelosphere.
 
Back when the incel subreddit was still a thing and foreveralone was getting more cucked by the minute, I heard incels being thrown around and decided to check it out. I clicked more with the incel group than foreveralone so I stayed
 
Found some youtube video about poles done in incels.is and got an idea about the people on this site, the guy in the video was blue/redpilled but I realized I agreed with alot of the opinions that the incels in the video had so I took a look at the site and soon felt at home.
 
Well and how did you find about r9k/incels?
Was a /b/tard for a long ass time, then transitioned to /pol/, then to /r9k/, and now I'm here.
I also used to browse /fit/ and misc during my gymcel coping phase.
I used to frequent Sluthate as well.
I guess you could say I've been around the block.
 
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Sluthate and lookism then ER happened
 
Through r/muhredpill and r/foreveralone.

Posted for a few months on the legendary r/incels before it got shut down.
 
At the end of february I watched a video about Elliot Rodger and in the comment section somone mentioned incels.is. I read the posts and joine some time later in May.
 
Youtube. I don't remember if cuestar or soothouse. All i remember that he/they were mocking incels. At first i laughed but then i realized that i was an incel too. :feelsohh:
 
Youtube. I don't remember if cuestar or soothouse. All i remember that he/they were mocking incels. At first i laughed but then i realized that i was an incel to. :feelsohh:

:feelscry::lul:
 
Youtube. I don't remember if cuestar or soothouse. All i remember that he/they were mocking incels. At first i laughed but then i realized that i was an incel too. :feelsohh:
Ironic
 
2005. Love Shy. I came out as an Incel.
 
i think i was searching on reddit various words related to incelhood, then some post mocking incels came up. From there i found /r/incels and it became my online home.
 
Well ,randomly, i was bluepilled :feelsbadman::bluepill:for many years and i was sad that i couldn't achive anything. So i knew something was off with me.

I didn't know there where many people like me who had the same problem and they where called incels. So since i had too much free time and spent to much time online i eventually heard the word mentioned....in chans on youtube and on random blogs. So i searched and found this Forum (recently a few moths ago) and also some reddit pages and some posts about similar problems on rk9 but that was long ago.
I saw the :blackpill: read about it and i knew from the start that's me i must swallow it and accept my fate
. I didn't register in either in the beggining nor speaked openly with anybody for incels , because i was akward to do so and i had the language problem, there aren't any incels where i live or at least they don't know they are..:feelstastyman:So i braved up one day decided i got nothing to loose since nobody will care of my looks or character here. Now i am still afraid to spread the blackpill priniciples to strangers and tell them the truth yet. But at least i see the real world.
 
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reddit. i even got caught up in the hate circlejerk at one point since i was a bluepilled cuck back then. i went to the incels sub and everything clicked.
 
I always knew ugly people existed who couldn't find love but never knew they were called I N C E L S
 
From FaceAndLMS on Youtube.. most black-pilling thing I have ever watched and the perspective of women literally was destroyed for me.
 
4chan, motly /r9k/ and /a/. For long time I deluded myself thinking that there is no way I am an incel, but over time I connected the dots and realized that indeed I am one.
 
From FaceAndLMS on Youtube.. most black-pilling thing I have ever watched and the perspective of women literally was destroyed for me.

@FACEandLMS did a good job at spreading the blackpill tbh
 
>r9k
>"FUCKING INCELS WANT 2 LEGALIZE RAPE!"
>sounds awesome
>search "incel" and found r/incels
 
I'm a certified tfwnogf poster since at least 2007 on various national forums. Been posting feels on /r9k/ and /b/ since around late 2008 and an originalfag of the post-nuke /r9k/ from 2011. St. Elliot Rodger's shooting spree feels like yesterday. People from ~2016 onwards don't even register as newfriends to me.
 
i knew about r9k and stuff like that from checking out 4chan, but i'm pretty sure it was ER in 2014 that made me take a closer look at r9k and what was going on there, it was pretty interesting and familiar what they were talking about, in a few years it became a hell of a lot more relevant as i was getting to my last reserves of sanity so i tried to figure out if there was more to cope with, i went to some shitty "incel" discords full of traps and anime, and eventually found this place
 
Searched high cheek bones on google images, saw image that was linked to SlutHate, read a lot of threads, FACEandLMS video was in someone's signature, watched video, BlackPilled.
 
probably either the doc 'shy boys IRL' or some message board, over 6 years ago
 
4chan since 2008 i was born here
 
Think it was some normie thread on reddit, they were talking out the “worst” subreddits, back in 2016.
 
I found this site linked on an anti-feminist group on Facebook.
 
I had a vision while sucking my own dick.
 
Found it via Nofap Subreddit. Back in 2016 I thought I'd give me magical magnetic powers. This is the highest IQ reason for starting Nofap btw. Anyways, there was this guy there who had Incel in his name and in his posts he had posted on Incels. I thought it was a bunch of angry boys and left. But back then I thought I still had a chance to even be happy, which I know is practically impossible now.
 
Almost nobody came for ER or Toronto ... FBI is sad ...:feelskek:
 
Around a year ago, I used to lurk on r/AssReddit to kill time, see what sort of things other people talked about, etc. There would fairly often be threads like "What, in your humble opinion, you magnificent bastard, my good sir, is the most toxic Subreddit?" Every time, without fail, someone would post: r/Incels. You'd always see the same predictable comments:

"What's an 'In-Cel?'"

"You don't want to know. Basically it's a bunch of entitled virgins blaming women for their bad personalities, advocating for pedophilia with 17 year olds, and talking about doing an "acid wash" to women, whom'st won't have sex with them."

"Wow that's terrifying. I can't believe there are people like that. I've had enough internets for one day. Lost my faith in humanity. I can't fap to this."

I wasn't exactly reeled in my the alarmism, but still trusted their word a bit too much: I figured it would be filled with 18 year old hapas venting about feeble revenge plots and nothing else. I had lurked a while on ForeverAlone and was struck by the desperation, the sadness, and the confusion radiating from every corner and expected a lot of the same from related places.

Around the same time, my hatred for foids was starting to boil over and I was listening to Whitehouse all the time, reading Sade, etc. I was finally starting to discard a lot of the mental blocks of "high road" thinking that years of liberal-left hegemony had put in my head: I actually started looking at what the "Alt-Right" had to say, at MGTOW, etc. This was only about a year ago. I felt a fire stoked in my heart that had been dim and flagging for years. In this spirit, I checked out r/Incels and was immediately stuck by the stark constrast to ForeverAlone. Instead of some guy talking about "putting himself out there" going to Salsa lessons, then returning to an empty apartment and crying into his pillow after another in an unbroken chain of failures, you had people brimming with life, with anger, with humor. Catfishers, bitter memes, the direct action of sidewalk harassment, insults. I would browse it in public and suppress laughter, browse it before bed and pump my fist. It was like coming home.

Everyone had lied about the place and my hatred for the liars climbed yet higher. It was a revelation that "women's rights", sexual liberalism, everything, was a total scam. It's alright to be a sad, lonely man, just please be courteous, neat, and prompt about heading over into the corner to die. You'd better not ever claim that this is actually a problem though. We are letting you die. We are not killing you. And you don't even thank us.
 
I remember those guys from True Forced Loneliness years ago.

It was during my PUA time.
 
I was on 4chan since 2012, eventually I started frequenting /r9k/ where I found out about the concept of incels.
 
Misc > lookism > incels
 
I found out about incels through LoveShy.com about a decade ago. Their forum wasn’t really my taste as it was just a lot of complaining and hostility with no real self-improvement advice. It was more blaming women for picking bad boys than on choosing good looks. A few posters saw the light though and figured out that it WAS their lack of good looks that made them incel and how personality meant fuckall. So yeah, that was my introduction to the incel community.
 

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