Serious How did you cope with being bullied?

[Curious0]

My last thread got deleted, so I'm posting it again in edited form:

I did not get bullied, but today a classmate showed that he does not respect me. He said "Curious0 just be quiet". I said "Why should I?" and he responded "Wanna deal with it outside?". I did not know what to say. He was seeking fights for no reason. Later he said "Why are you looking at me?" which was also very disrespectful. Let's say serious bullying begins when a person tries to degrade you by physically harming you. If someone has ever done that to you, how did you cope? Everyone of us has an ego, so how do you deal with thoughts of revenge?
How did you deal with getting bullied? Did you completely lose your ego and let them bully you or did you fight back?

 

[Damo the incel]

Would u beat him in a fight

 

[Newbite]

You got cucked

 

[Curious0]

You got cucked

Saying that I committed or even would commit a violent deed would get me banned.

 

[Deleted member 12256]

My last thread got deleted, so I'm posting it again in edited form:

I did not get bullied, but today a classmate showed that he does not respect me. He said "Curious0 just be quiet". I said "Why should I?" and he responded "Wanna deal with it outside?". I did not know what to say. He was seeking fights for no reason. Later he said "Why are you looking at me?" which was also very disrespectful. Let's say serious bullying begins when a person tries to degrade you by physically harming you. If someone has ever done that to you, how did you cope? Everyone of us has an ego, so how do you deal with thoughts of revenge?
How did you deal with getting bullied? Did you completely lose your ego and let them bully you or did you fight back?

You fight back.....If you let him push you now, guys like him will push you through your whole life. Bullies are usually chads or normies they try to impress females by bulling you and be dominant. If i tell you how to fight back this thread will have unnecessary violent provocation. So just figure it out how to fight back.

 

[UBERCEL]

I'm a fucking uggo who looks like a potato.
So when I transferred schools I decided the shitshow should stop. Basically I fought with half of my class for the first year and then I got my reputation. It was fun nglngl, I wanted to fight more but no one offered fights, so rest of school was chill.



Btw it was in self defense that I reciprocated violence.

Inb4 Mods put my head at the guillotine for discussing """illegal""" activities

 

[lastchancel]

people bullied me, i always took revenge in the only way i could. I broke lockers in, so they had to pay for them to be repaired (policy in our school), I always took note of what their bag looked like so when they left their bag outside of a classroom, studyhall or the canteen (areas not surrounded by cameras), I took books, ipads, phones, cash etc.

 

[Curious0]

You fight back.....If you let him push you now, guys like him will push you through your whole life. Bullies are usually chads or normies they try to impress females by bulling you and be dominant.

I agree. He probably carried a weapon whereas I did not so that would have been a bad idea in this situation. This guy is not attractive, he's shorter than me and despite going to the gym a lot he does not look intimidating. He'd be considered a framecel here. The only issue is that he had a friend at his site and he probably has an arabic clan at his side. These guys are never strong alone- the problem is they are never alone.

 

[Ritalincel]

I didn't.

 

[Deleted member 12256]

I agree. He probably carried a weapon whereas I did not so that would have been a bad idea in this situation. This guy is not attractive, he's shorter than me and despite going to the gym a lot he does not look intimidating. He'd be considered a framecel here. The only issue is that he had a friend at his site and he probably has an arabic clan at his side. These guys are never strong alone- the problem is they are never alone.

I am telling once more, we can't talk about violent activities here....Use your brains, he can't be with friends all the time. Just fight back, if he overpower you, your life will be miserable for letting him do that.

 

[FlyFace]

You fight back.....If you let him push you now, guys like him will push you through your whole life. Bullies are usually chads or normies they try to impress females by bulling you and be dominant. If i tell you how to fight back this thread will have unnecessary violent provocation. So just figure it out how to fight back.

Yeah this works.. my bullies never came for me again after I stood up for myself.. real proud of past me.

 

[Jockcel]

I was not bullied, merely isolated.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

bring a sock-n-lock then beat his ass with it, ideally get to it somewhere private.
also JFL @ everyone here so scared to talk about fights for "illegal discussion" so many people openly tell you how to buy drugs online

 

[Curious0]

bring a sock-n-lock then beat his ass with it, ideally get to it somewhere private.

Lmao I read your thread about low inhib like 20 times and in this exact moment I was thinking about your lock in sock technique.

 

[LichenRhubarbAFX]

I usually try to keep to myself and the few friends I have. I draw or make music on my phone and ignore everyone, because if I got into a fight I would end up hurting someone really bad

 

[Curious0]

bring a sock-n-lock then beat his ass with it, ideally get to it somewhere private.
also JFL @ everyone here so scared to talk about fights for "illegal discussion" so many people openly tell you how to buy drugs online

I got 40% warning for implying that I'd possibly commit violent deeds in the future

 

[Deleted member 5861]

I got 40% warning for implying that I'd possibly commit violent deeds in the future

You can say you'll beat up a bully, just don't write anything that stands out kind of ERish or sounds like "assault" in the classical gang jumping way (like you'll go out and beat up a random foid just because)

 

[IronMike]

I fought back until 5th grade, I kept getting suspended and the belt on my ass, so i started becoming a doormat

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

Stand up for yourself now or it will continue

 

[horseshit]

Started pulling knives on them. It ends really quick if you show them you’re batshit insane.

 

[Curious0]

Stand up for yourself now or it will continue

I will if someone seriously tries to bully me by attacking me. I really need to start hitting the gym to feel more confident and carry a weapon for feeling safe. Did you get bullied and did you stand up for yourself?

 

[Summer202]

I didn't do anything back in the day, wish I had tho.

I'm filled with resentment to this day.

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

I will if someone seriously tries to bully me by attacking me. I really need to start hitting the gym to feel more confident and carry a weapon for feeling safe. Did you get bullied and did you stand up for yourself?

I got verbally bullied, but never physical. I just talked back to the bully and he would threaten me and I just always said "Cool." He never did anything because he would forget about it.

 

[Deleted member 10150]

run and hide or lock @ home

 

[anon]

I laughed and joked while being bullied. Basically pic related.

 

[Deleted member 6101]

Started pulling knives on them. It ends really quick if you show them you’re batshit insane.

This strategy works miracles- I've seen it work multiple times in and out of school.

 

[TheRealChincel]

It was mostly verbal bullying with me, I couldn’t really do anything because if I did then I felt that I was showing that I let it get to me. Luckily after ignoring it for a while, they moved on to guys who were easy to provoke.

 

[The Abyss]

I didn't deal with it which was the wrong decision. Mental illness parents, no support from family/ friend circle. Neglected as a kid, didn't realize at time that it was because my parents mental illness issues plus legal drug addiction was the cause. I didn't react as I thought getting in trouble would make them more disappointed in me, combine this with autist introvert personality, small stature at the time, anxiety and being white in a highly non white part of London. My father never taught me how to fight or stand up for myself; probably 'cos he's passive and my mother was overprotective.

Anyway, my advice to anyone in a potential bullying situation is fuck worrying about getting in trouble or what your family think. Go full on psycho on anyone trying to start shit with you.

You'll earn a reputation as a nutcase but chances are others will be more hesitant to mess with you. Nip that shit in the bud early before it gets worse or inhibition starts kicking in. You can get away with a lot more when you're considered a minor compared to an adult just like how a Foid can commit the same crime as a man but get off with a warning or light sentence compared to the guy.

 

[Curious0]

I didn't deal with it which was the wrong decision. Mental illness parents, no support from family/ friend circle. Neglected as a kid, didn't realize at time that it was because my parents mental illness issues plus legal drug addiction was the cause. I didn't react as I thought getting in trouble would make them more disappointed in me, combine this with autist introvert personality, small stature at the time, anxiety and being white in a highly non white part of London. My father never taught me how to fight or stand up for myself; probably 'cos he's passive and my mother was overprotective.

Anyway, my advice to anyone in a potential bullying situation is fuck worrying about getting in trouble or what your family think. Go full on psycho on anyone trying to start shit with you, thumb the eyes, loud double slap the ear drums, bite, grab a nearby tool.

You'll earn a reputation as a nutcase but chances are others will be more hesitant to mess with you. Nip that shit in the bud early before it gets worse or inhibition starts kicking in. You can get away with a lot more when you're considered a minor compared to an adult just like how a Foid can commit the same crime as a man but get off with a warning or light sentence compared to the guy.

Reading this makes my testosterone rise. I'll definitely stand up for myself, but I also don't want to get suspended in my last year of school. Also I'm not a minor anymore.

 

[happiless]

I'm in my mid 20s and I still haven't gotten over it. It wasn't even very physical, but mostly being verbally humiliated and left out of everything. I probably would have forgotten it if my social life were better nowadays, but instead I get treated with disrespect by every single normalfag I interact with.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

I stuck up for myself once, made a name for myself and no one tested me again.

 

[The Abyss]

Reading this makes my testosterone rise. I'll definitely stand up for myself, but I also don't want to get suspended in my last year of school. Also I'm not a minor anymore.

Well I would say make it clear as day he started it but knowing our cucked education system in the world these days you'll both be punished the same so if it really comes to it; out of sight of others from behind. Cowardly? Sure but why have honour when dealing with those willing to pick on those they perceive as unable to fight back; that is without honour.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Stand up for yourself now or it will continue

This.
Stand up for yourself and make sure you throw the first punch so you are the aggressor, so that he knows you are not to be fucked around with.

 

[The Abyss]

Normies sit there making endless theories, pondering why school shooters exist. Doesn't take a genius, you chip away at someone's self respect and standing within' the group until they're left exiled, ridiculed and without a single shred of dignity left; chances are high they might have no more inhibition left and open fire or rope.

Normies can't understand this as they were popular enough to not be subjected to such a degree of this shit.

 

[San Salvador]

If it was one person, I told them to fuck off, and they never talked to me ever again.
If it was a group, I stood in silence, and they got bored of me.

 

[FlyoverState]

I get bullied at work practically every day.
I just ignore them and then fuck them over in subtle ways afterwards.

If you're not a queer like me, put your hands on the bullies and make them scared of you.

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

This.
Stand up for yourself and make sure you throw the first punch so you are the aggressor, so that he knows you are not to be fucked around with.

Yes. The first punch usually wins if it connects

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Yes. The first punch usually wins if it connects

Not if you are a manlet, and it’s not about winning the fight, it’s down to the fact you were the agressor and stood up for yourself so it makes him think twice about starting on you, and would rather start on someone more passive.

 

[WakeMeUpIncel]

Not if you are a manlet, and it’s not about winning the fight, it’s down to the fact you were the agressor and stood up for yourself so it makes him think twice about starting on you, and would rather start on someone more passive.

to the balls

 

[Reprobus]

I would usually take what the bully insulted me with and act like I'm exactly how he described me. I don't know why I would but it always warded people away lol

I was not bullied, merely isolated.

also this

 

[Human]

This may sound like bluepill advice, but it is always better to fight; you will continue getting harassed otherwise.

Time and time again this is what I saw in school: Bully constantly bullies the loser, then the loser finally snaps, a fight breaks out after which the bully never bullies him again (even if the loser loses terribly) it is primitive behavior that likely stems back millions of years to our ape ancestors.