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How did you cope before blackpill

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I used to convince myself i was attractive but in an unconventional way :lul:
 
I used to convince myself i was attractive but in an unconventional way :lul:
I thought I wasn't trying and I just need to get in shape. Now, I gave up and only want to be healthy for myself.
 
I used to believe in the redpill cope "i will rise above my bullies; i will show then."
 
I suffered deeply by simping and humiliating myself-- there IS no coping without the blackpill
 
I didn't, I was having suicidal thoughts and wanted to off myself for being such a bad lacking person with evil personality :feelsclown:
 
Back in high school I convinced myself (or at least, tried to convince myself) I was average and that all the people calling me "horse face" "ugly" etc. were just "haters" and that they insulted everyone's looks. But even then, deep down I knew I was coping.
 
i thought i would become a chad when i grow up for some reason, yes, the exact chad that pslers are talking about
 
I tried to convince myself that my ugliness was just in my head and that I have body dysmorphia, in reality I don't. I'm just ugly and hate what I see in the mirror which is a completely normal reaction.
 
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I had delusions where women had crushes on me
 
I took it for granted that I have a good future ahead of me and that I was at least a normie who was just bullied for no real reason:feelsbadman::feelsUnreal::feelskek:.

I thought I wasn't trying and I just need to get in shape. Now, I gave up and only want to be healthy for myself.
I used to believe in the redpill cope "i will rise above my bullies; i will show then."
Back in high school I convinced myself (or at least, tried to convince myself) I was average
 
thought i just needed the right woman to appear and that she would love me for who i am

(never happened)
 
stupidity, ignorance, weed
 
The funniest cope I had was in elementary/middle school where I thought I was good looking because I had blonde hair and blue eyes which is uncommon in my country. Didn't think facial features mattered that much and was super confused when everyone thought this super dark guy was the best looking in our class.
 
that I can somehow cover up for my shortcomings with careermaxxing and self improvement
 
Faking confidence
 
I used to think that I was attractive because my Mom said I was, lmao.
 
I coped by watching Mr. Incredible becoming uncanny videos :forcedsmile:

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I thought STEMmaxxing would do me good, but it was all completely useless from a dating perspective. I still get personal satisfaction out of it though.
 
I was bluepilled to the point i thought wikiHow articles "how to make your crush like you" would work
 
I unironically thought I just needed a "good haircut" but at the time I started balding anyway
 
i never did, i always knew i would be a genetic dead end
 
Too many ways
 
I unironically used to believe bluepillers and my mom telling me I'm handsome despite being a severe reccesed skullcel
 
Back in high school I convinced myself (or at least, tried to convince myself) I was average and that all the people calling me "horse face" "ugly" etc. were just "haters" and that they insulted everyone's looks. But even then, deep down I knew I was coping.
 
I coped with red pill garbage. But even before knowing the black pill ideology, i was aware that it was likely over for me

I didn't cope too hard and knew that i was missing out on teenage milestones as a teen
 

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