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Blackpill how did u guys cope in ur 19s

uglycel122

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how do u guys cope with this reality as a ugly male i mean i tried all types of copes but i just dont have happiness anymore its like i am losing my mind i wonder how will i be in my future. i want to ask how did u guys cope when u were 19 did u rot or tried to self improve.
 
I tried to learn "game" and cold approach cuz I thought college was the perfect place to ascend

it didn't work
 
proudweeb said:
I tried to learn "game" and cold approach cuz I thought college was the perfect place to ascend

it didn't work
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for me i dont dare to look people int he eye because i am a genetic failure
 
I just rot all day every day smoking weed playing games and watching anime.
 
Twinblade said:
Video games and porn. Nothing changes when you hit your early 20s unless you are a burgerfag that has to wait until they're 21 to legally drink
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i play vidya and listen to music. i recently cutted porn because that shit fucked my brain up
 
Well that was just last year so I remember quite well. I just played video games, went on walks with and without my dog, listened to a lot of music, had a few breakdowns, got on meds, got off meds, looked at a lot of porn and read a lot of erotic stories, read a few books and went to a lot of historical sites and museums.
 
EnglishCel said:
Well that was just last year so I remember quite well. I just played video games, went on walks with and without my dog, listened to a lot of music, had a few breakdowns, got on meds, got off meds, looked at a lot of porn and read a lot of erotic stories, read a few books and went to a lot of historical sites and museums.
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atleast u did something productive
 
I'm 19 and I just rot in my bed everyday mindlessly scrolling yt shorts
 
uglycel122 said:
i wish i can drop out but my parents wont let me. how bad was ur deprssion if u dont mind me asking
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It was quite bad tbh I got medicated and would just sleep half of the day cause I had no motivation to do anything at all.
 
flipcel said:
It was quite bad tbh I got medicated and would just sleep half of the day
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brutal bro i feel like i am losin gmy mind the past few day sprobably from lonlnness and too much rotting
 
Smoked hookka, watched anime, movies, series, games all day and night. I lived in different district because of college so no nagging family. Did it for a year and half before dropping out.

Best time of my life
 
adharmi said:
Smoked hookka, watched anime, movies, series, games all day and night. I lived in different district because of college so no nagging family. Did it for a year and half before dropping out.

Best time of my life
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how is it going for u now
 
weed, alcohol, and music are great copes
 
Was in university that age, failed studying because low iq and short attentionspan. Also fell in love with an ugly girl "looksmatch" in class. Spent alot of time with her because our dormrooms were next to each other and we used to have dinner together. Found out after one semester that she had a chad boyfriend all this time and it crushed me and sent me into depression that made me drop out. I was failing in class to begin with but it was the last drop.
I stopped trying and failing at like 26 years.
U cant give up at 19 thou, there are legit late blommers that actually make it and I know people like that.
Most common trait with these guys is that they manage to carrer maxx and find a good job.
If u have that ur chances of acsending is increased significantly
 
proudweeb said:
I tried to learn "game" and cold approach cuz I thought college was the perfect place to ascend

it didn't work
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We all make that same mistake. I also thought game was important esp since every black guy says to “spit game” but you need a face/solid height to back it up which unfortunately a lot of us here don’t have.
 
The peak of my approaching days. It’s over
 
Rejection left right up down front back, I didn’t care at first cause “there’s so many fish in the sea” but when you pull crazy numbers like 0-80, 0-85 you realize it’s time to hang it up and stop trying.
 
played vidya 12-13 hours a day, tried to work at a job for a month or 2 to gather neetbucks than quit, enjoyed comfy food copes with doordash so i didnt have to walk anywhere
 
NonNTsubhuman said:
Was in university that age, failed studying because low iq and short attentionspan. Also fell in love with an ugly girl "looksmatch" in class. Spent alot of time with her because our dormrooms were next to each other and we used to have dinner together. Found out after one semester that she had a chad boyfriend all this time and it crushed me and sent me into depression that made me drop out. I was failing in class to begin with but it was the last drop.
I stopped trying and failing at like 26 years.
U cant give up at 19 thou, there are legit late blommers that actually make it and I know people like that.
Most common trait with these guys is that they manage to carrer maxx and find a good job.
If u have that ur chances of acsending is increased significantly
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Brutal
 
Homelandercel said:
played vidya 12-13 hours a day, tried to work at a job for a month or 2 to gather neetbucks than quit, enjoyed comfy food copes with doordash so i didnt have to walk anywhere
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Sorry to hear that must be brutal
 
uglycel122 said:
how do u guys cope with this reality as a ugly male i mean i tried all types of copes but i just dont have happiness anymore its like i am losing my mind i wonder how will i be in my future. i want to ask how did u guys cope when u were 19 did u rot or tried to self improve.
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It gets easier when you get older. Just wank yourself dry until the thoughts go away
 
uglycel122 said:
how is it going for u now
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Going to a different college now. Gym few times a week. No pussy, still virgin at 23. Living with parents.

People i used to study with in school and College got jobs, some of them are even married. I have no contact with them but my nephew sends me pictures of them with their wives because I used to be friends with them in my childhood and in my teens.

I not jealous of them a bit, i just feel frustrated over my incompetence and my luck.

Normies are living their lives, am just a dead body who's rotting as the days go by
 
toughluck said:
It gets easier when you get older. Just wank yourself dry until the thoughts go away
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I stopped
adharmi said:
Going to a different college now. Gym few times a week. No pussy, still virgin at 23. Living with parents.

People i used to study with in school and College got jobs, some of them are even married. I have no contact with them but my nephew sends me pictures of them with their wives because I used to be friends with them in my childhood and in my teens.

I not jealous of them a bit, i just feel frustrated over my incompetence and my luck.

Normies are living their lives, am just a dead body who's rotting as the days go by
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sorry to hear that I am also rotting
 
Make friends with people with similar interests. I think that's what got me through that age.
 
uglycel122 said:
How though I barely go outside
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If you like vidya maybe there are events or meetups you can try out? Local game stores might have spaces with consoles (or things like board games) that you can go play at during certain hours, you might also be able to find groups online nearby that meet up at certain times to play things together. I'm sure it's ok if you go to just watch or try talking to one or two people, I think these groups tend to attract people who may lack conventional social skills so you won't be too out of place if you're someone quiet or anxious about talking. If you like playing games with other people then that's even better.
 
God I wish I could be 19 again. I had self esteem, hope and life felt like it was going somewhere. I felt like I could conquer the world.
 
uglycel122 said:
how do u guys cope with this reality as a ugly male i mean i tried all types of copes but i just dont have happiness anymore its like i am losing my mind i wonder how will i be in my future. i want to ask how did u guys cope when u were 19 did u rot or tried to self improve.
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rotting
 
Caesercel said:
God I wish I could be 19 again. I had self esteem, hope and life felt like it was going somewhere. I felt like I could conquer the world.
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Well shit I thought my life wouId be good but turns out it was terrible
 
Epedaphic said:
If you like vidya maybe there are events or meetups you can try out? Local game stores might have spaces with consoles (or things like board games) that you can go play at during certain hours, you might also be able to find groups online nearby that meet up at certain times to play things together. I'm sure it's ok if you go to just watch or try talking to one or two people, I think these groups tend to attract people who may lack conventional social skills so you won't be too out of place if you're someone quiet or anxious about talking. If you like playing games with other people then that's even better.
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I don’t think there is but even if there were I won’t go outside
 
At 19 I studied, helped priest at Church, read books including religious books. Walked with dog.
Life was pretty bleak for me but that period was pretty stable and stress-free.
I had solace in reading religious, spiritual texts.
 
I still had oneitis and thought I would make it.
 
NorthernWind said:
At 19 I studied, helped priest at Church, read books including religious books. Walked with dog.
Life was pretty bleak for me but that period was pretty stable and stress-free.
I had solace in reading religious, spiritual texts.
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Oh that’s nice atleast u did something
 
I’m already 31, kek
 
uglycel122 said:
Oh that’s nice atleast u did something
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I have low libido so it probably was easy for me to go through life without sex. But still felt depressing.
 
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