How?
Serious How can you kill your psychological sex drive? (need for validation)
Actually sex drive and need for validation are two different things.
Did roids earlier this year and spend 2 months after the cycle with my t production halted. It wen from 650 to 150.
My sex drive had gone to 0. But it was replaced with a constant need of validation and to feel needed (tbh i was ressembling a foid). I became emotional and wanted to cry several times a day. It was horrible.
Now my test is driving up and the sex drive is back. Pure sex drive is much more manageable than need for validation, because you can fap.
Did roids earlier this year and spend 2 months after the cycle with my t production halted. It wen from 650 to 150.
My sex drive had gone to 0. But it was replaced with a constant need of validation and to feel needed (tbh i was ressembling a foid). I became emotional and wanted to cry several times a day. It was horrible.
Now my test is driving up and the sex drive is back. Pure sex drive is much more manageable than need for validation, because you can fap.
just kys to end it
The blackpill killed my need for validation. Why would I care what others think of me if they're perfectly willing to reject certain facets of reality?
To need validation you need to at least somewhat respect the opinions of others.
To need validation you need to at least somewhat respect the opinions of others.
Monkmaxxing. Bonus points if you do it as a theravada buddhist, as its al about killing any kind of desire, feeling disgusted by the human body and sex, enjoying exotic jhanas (altered bit calmed mental states), NEETing...
Hatred
Stop lying. Or projecting more like. Would be cool to will yourself into that state don't get me wrong but it hasn't happened.
Actually it doesn't require me to will myself at all. I'd have to will myself to care what others think. Needing validation from others is a ton of work.
I should add that incels should have an easier time than normies when it comes to giving up the need for validation, since part of the requirement is a blackpill-like realization that society is both idiotic and hopeless and an ensuing loss of respect for everyone around you, along with their opinions on what is valid.
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Sounds like heaven. That's some Fight Club style liberation from society's constrains right there. No validation at all wow. What are you doing here I ask if that's the case, you must be happy as hell all the time (not sarcasm).
Obviously I'm here because I'm an incel. I believe I'd be happier if I could get sex of course.
But a common point of confusion on these forums is that other people are happier than incels solely because they're getting sex. I would argue that this isn't the case except for Chads, since Chads can have an endless amount of sex with extremely attractive people on top of every other advantage that society has to offer.
Most normies I've come across seem less happy than myself (despite getting more sex than me) because their lives just aren't all that great to begin with, and their misery is compounded because they care way too much about validation from others.
Normies are the worst culprits when it comes to validation teet suckling type behavior can't argue with that.
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