If you're the kind of person like from IT or cuckcel subreddits who thinks 'I might be a virgin but at least I'm not incel', they are generally lefties or left-leaning males who deny the red pill and the black pill and think that white-knighting and throwing incels who haven't handed their balls over to globohomo under the bus will get them noticed by females online and in real life and get them laid
I used to be exactly like this, not necessarily white-knighting but I thought that staying away from 'bad stuff' online, like the deep web, 4chan, right-wing websites, gore sites, etc, and surrendering somewhat to leftism would help me to get better social skills and attract a 'nice girl' because I'm such a 'nice guy', right? It was only after I discovered /r9k/ and the black pill for the first time when I was still in uni that I couldn't deny the evidence I was seeing, and how many other people were posting with the same issues and struggles in trying to get laid, get a gf, get anything in today's society really, after that I went a bit crazy, it slowly dawned on me that my entire life has been a lie and apart from looksmaxxing there was never really anything that I could do to improve my lot in society unless I became a full-on oversocialised soy faggot cuck or dedicated myself to jestermaxxing to the point of going insane
The black pill community, and to some extent the red pill community, as well as nationalist communities in my country, have done more to improve my mental health than almost any therapy I've ever tried. Thank you my brocels