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Serious How can we band together as incels to help each other with validation?

Aarvind

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Genuine validation and a feeling of importance are critical to wellbeing of an individual


In what ways can we, as the incel community, work on helping each other with our wellbeing? Maybe writing dedication posts to certain users for example? It doesnt even have to be positive but just characteristic of that user.

People just like attention, be it negative or positive. Idk I think would be cool to celebrate each others entertaining contributions to the forum
 
going ER but together as a group
 
fuck each other
That's how traps where created, bunch of virgin guys wanted sex, they gathered and they decide to fuck eachother.
 
For example, we all love Hunter bcoz he always adds a sadistic spin to every comment he makes! :p or something hue

if anything im more well known as the nofap guy here.
 
An incel cannot validate or invalidate someone else, even another incel. This is because incels are lowest on the hierachy and only someone you consider superior to yourself can effect you.
 
going ER but together as a group
I'd prefer gathering together to run reconnaissance game in China and manipulating Chinese men into Incel Rebellion there. Using social media. Instead of social media controlling our way of life, we use what they use to spread the Blackpill and make the Incel Rebellion finally happen.
 
Incels.me alerts are good enough validation
 
good. rn im trying to get past my best streak(day 42). i plan to reach day 90 before christmas.
my highest was 30 day I will try to go ovER that and maybe quit forever because it makes me suicidical afterwards and gives me social anxiety.
 
Any mechanism can cause blowback on itself. Let's say that we start a thirs board dedicated to copes with progression. I post about my stunted shitty potato plant, somenody posts something else, we all circlejerk. Eventually somebody ups the ante. Then everybody feels obliged to perform up to a certain minimum, and a sliver of joy disappears. Praise becomes commodified, with people starting to complain that they didn't get their fair share or that someone else got too much.

None of this is an argument against this very good idea. I just hope people realiase the social dynamics it may release. I've had male normies interrogate me on why I didn't reciprocate their friend request and shit, and that kind of normie pettiness may rear its ugly head here.
 
Genuine validation and a feeling of importance are critical to wellbeing of an individual


In what ways can we, as the incel community, work on helping each other with our wellbeing? Maybe writing dedication posts to certain users for example? It doesnt even have to be positive but just characteristic of that user.

People just like attention, be it negative or positive. Idk I think would be cool to celebrate each others entertaining contributions to the forum
https://incels.is/threads/seeking-fellow-incels-to-wage-jlhad-with.70825/

I wrote a post describing how we can help each other get money and have purpose....
 
Any mechanism can cause blowback on itself. Let's say that we start a thirs board dedicated to copes with progression. I post about my stunted shitty potato plant, somenody posts something else, we all circlejerk. Eventually somebody ups the ante. Then everybody feels obliged to perform up to a certain minimum, and a sliver of joy disappears. Praise becomes commodified, with people starting to complain that they didn't get their fair share or that someone else got too much.

None of this is an argument against this very good idea. I just hope people realiase the social dynamics it may release. I've had male normies interrogate me on why I didn't reciprocate their friend request and shit, and that kind of normie pettiness may rear its ugly head here.
agreed 100%, thats why I asked for suggestions cos im genuinely not sure what kind of system could work.

Its nice to think maybe we can figure out a way to uplift each other but at the same time the whole "Feed one cow, the entire herd expects food too" kinda thing is significant. Eh idk.
 
if anything im more well known as the nofap guy here.
NoFap is brahmacharya for beginners. You are on the path to gaining siddhu powers.
 
my highest was 30 day I will try to go ovER that and maybe quit forever because it makes me suicidical afterwards and gives me social anxiety.

you flatline. once you reach about 90 days or so no flatlining but you feel much greater than you evER have before.
NoFap is brahmacharya for beginners. You are on the path to gaining siddhu powers.

im christian not buddhist.
 
you flatline. once you reach about 90 days or so no flatlining but you feel much greater than you evER have before.


im christian not buddhist.
My dad is a Christian Buddhist, he's the one who told me about Micheal Roach and The Diamond Cutter technique. As soon as he told me about Micheal Roach and I watched the lecture I was like "holy shit! this is how to save the incels!"...Brahmacharya is more of a hindu thing though, the Buddhist do the same shit but they call it something different, I'm sure there is a Christian and Sufi Muslim version as well.
 
My dad is a Christian Buddhist, he's the one who told me about Micheal Roach and The Diamond Cutter technique. As soon as he told me about Micheal Roach and I watched the lecture I was like "holy shit! this is how to save the incels!"...Brahmacharya is more of a hindu thing though, the Buddhist do the same shit but they call it something different, I'm sure there is a Christian and Sufi Muslim version as well.

ill have to look into it. i heard its related to my binaural beats as well.
 
ill have to look into it. i heard its related to my binaural beats as well.
Have you noticed anything from binaural beats?
 
i was a member of a FA nerds groups on facebook when i was 16. the point of the group was to like and comment on everything on every member profile lmao. feels patethic af
at least now im blackpilled and idc about social media
 
you flatline. once you reach about 90 days or so no flatlining but you feel much greater than you evER have before.

I meant that pmo makes me suicidical and gives social anxiety but the flatline too but atleast the flatline goes away after some time. Since nofap I kinda feel better about myself in social situations
 
Just read ALL my posts! I literally EXUDE wisdom!!
 

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