How can I stop this?

[Deleted member 6214]

I need to know how to stop this fucking disease I have.

Today on the train I saw a girl looking at me - she was my looksmatch for sure, big nose, weird chin. Two times I saw from the corner of my eye she was glancing in my direction. I just sat there for a few minutes and when I got to my station, I had a split second to decide whether to get out of the train or stay on it and perhaps initiate conversation with her. I decided against it. But I am such a fucking cuck, since then I keep thinking about her and whether I could have talked to her. I'm actually sad that I missed a major "opportunity" to actually talk to a girl I even imagined myself holding her hand and telling her I love her, just fml.

How can I stop falling in love with every girl who just looks at me in public

 

[Deleted member 1983]

realise they only want chad.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

How can I stop falling in love with every girl who just looks at me in public

By talking to her.

 

[Crustaciouse]

realise they only want chad.

Even if you stayed on the train it's not like you would have gone up to her and initiated.
She was probably looking at you because your ugly.

 

[DrunkDegenerate]

Time. It takes time to fully grasp the blackpill.
If you think you still have a chance, go for it, try to talk to her, maybe you are just autistic in behavior and can still score some roastie.
Otherwise, just accept that you will forever be in this void of missing out on love and compassion others get with ease.
Find good copes and try to move on. No reasons to dwell on the past or you will end up cucking/committing suicide/going ER.

 

[Norky]

Adopt a solipsistic mindset, you are the only thing that you can truly verify as being "real" or existing. Most women think like this.

 

[Sgtpinkie]

I need to know how to stop this fucking disease I have.

Today on the train I saw a girl looking at me - she was my looksmatch for sure, big nose, weird chin. Two times I saw from the corner of my eye she was glancing in my direction. I just sat there for a few minutes and when I got to my station, I had a split second to decide whether to get out of the train or stay on it and perhaps initiate conversation with her. I decided against it. But I am such a fucking cuck, since then I keep thinking about her and whether I could have talked to her. I'm actually sad that I missed a major "opportunity" to actually talk to a girl I even imagined myself holding her hand and telling her I love her, just fml.

How can I stop falling in love with every girl who just looks at me in public

In all honesty man I suffer the same fate, keep falling for random women who merely glance at me, one time there was this girl in my science class she was a senior and she never spoke a word to anyone. I truly fell in love with her when we both did a project together (me being me) I kinda did all the work for our hurricane project cuz I was a beta cuck back then, I even got her email to send her the project, I tried talking to her but she either ignored my messages or me speaking directly towards her. So I started stalking cuz I was a pussy boi who couldn't ask out girls. God man I really regret not asking her out or something.

 

[Kanakops]

You can control yourself but you can't cure this cancer unfortunately, just try to ignore them, realise you gonna have no story with any women and when you go home, you can congratulate yourself with porn, video game, anime ect, It's the sad truth

 

[MrFox]

Just stop being intimidated by girls. Stop being scared of intimidating her. You're a man, it's your god-given right to intimidate people. No woman likes a beta cuck.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

In all honesty man I suffer the same fate, keep falling for random women who merely glance at me, one time there was this girl in my science class she was a senior and she never spoke a word to anyone. I truly fell in love with her when we both did a project together (me being me) I kinda did all the work for our hurricane project cuz I was a beta cuck back then, I even got her email to send her the project, I tried talking to her but she either ignored my messages or me speaking directly towards her. So I started stalking cuz I was a pussy boi who couldn't ask out girls. God man I really regret not asking her out or something.

Yeah I've got a few regrets too from earlier in my life...

 

[Sgtpinkie]

Yeah I've got a few regrets too from earlier in my life...

Every time I try to remember mine I cringe so much, got hella regrets when I was younger.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Every time I try to remember mine I cringe so much, got hella regrets when I was younger.

Ikr. I still think about a oneitis I had 6 fucking years ago, I didn't ask her out cause I knew I was too ugly. I still stalk her social media from time to time... I know I have no chance but I keep doing it. Hope really is a bitch.

 

[Anonymous MG]

Looksmatch doesn't mean shit, she wants Chad or she'll settle for a BX 3 to 4 points out of her looksmatch. At this point, we should rescale the rating system to be more accurate.

 

[Sgtpinkie]

Looksmatch doesn't mean shit, she wants Chad or she'll settle for a BX 3 to 4 points out of her looksmatch. At this point, we should rescale the rating system to be more accurate.

I agree a new scale for incels need to be made, the one we use is just a normie scale on how they perceive attractiveness.

Ikr. I still think about a oneitis I had 6 fucking years ago, I didn't ask her out cause I knew I was too ugly. I still stalk her social media from time to time... I know I have no chance but I keep doing it. Hope really is a bitch.

Same here man, same here...

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

if a girl even glances in my direction ill fantasize about cohabitating and the accomodations id have to make in my house for about a week afterwards

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I need to know how to stop this fucking disease I have.

Today on the train I saw a girl looking at me - she was my looksmatch for sure, big nose, weird chin. Two times I saw from the corner of my eye she was glancing in my direction. I just sat there for a few minutes and when I got to my station, I had a split second to decide whether to get out of the train or stay on it and perhaps initiate conversation with her. I decided against it. But I am such a fucking cuck, since then I keep thinking about her and whether I could have talked to her. I'm actually sad that I missed a major "opportunity" to actually talk to a girl I even imagined myself holding her hand and telling her I love her, just fml.

How can I stop falling in love with every girl who just looks at me in public

How old are you? And are you literally falling in love like teenage falling in love?

 

[Deleted member 6214]

How old are you? And are you literally falling in love like teenage falling in love?

I'm 21. It is like teenage love, but it's not as intense as it used to be, I think I'll be over it by tomorrow.

 

[Stoiccel]

Find good copes and try to move on. No reasons to dwell on the past or you will end up cucking/committing suicide/going ER.

 

[TheGoodGuy]

I'm 21. It is like teenage love, but it's not as intense as it used to be, I think I'll be over it by tomorrow.

Wow that´s weird. I haven´t been able to fall in love or get crushes since I was a teenager, I am 24 now. And I don´t think it´s possible for me to fall in love anymore.