Serious How can I embrace my suffering and accept my fate

[Tellem--T]

How can I accept being a low status, low value male, Ive reached a new low mentally these past couple of weeks since I can't gymcel due to an ac joint injury, I want to embrace this mental suffering and accept myself as a loser, I want to feel a full numb and acceptance, I still have moments when I have emotions, I think I broke down and cried 3 times this past week just thinking about the situation of my life and my past, and now this injury where I can't return to my best cope which is gymcelling for 1-2weeks. Everywhere i see is Normies living a good life and having normal social lives which is crucial for human development. But me I'm so behind socially and mentally, I want to accept and embrace this flaw, is it possible? How can I embrace being an undelevloped male?

 

[Solitarian_Walker]

Embrace the rope.

 

[ItheIthe]

Christmaxxing made me realize that only my internal happiness matters and not external standards made up by hedonistic scum if im being honest.

 

[SomeRandomCreep]

Embrace the rope.

Become the rope

 

[KyloRen]

You can embrace it, but the feeling of being a loser will never leave you. Why? Because you will always want to be with a woman. The problem is that they will never want to be with you. This disconnect will cause immense feelings of inadequacy, which will follow us for the rest of our lives.

The only way to "accept" our fate is by chemically altering our bodies. Kill the source. Kill the desire for a woman.

 

[Tellem--T]

Christmaxxing made me realize that only my internal happiness matters and not external standards made up by hedonistic scum if im being honest.

I tried Islammaxxing, but the boredom made the shaytaan get to me, I tried to be a good Muslim many times but my heart and spiritually is destroyed from porn,depression and years of social isolation and obviously browsing this site and its blackpills

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

how do you accept? Stop resisting/ you will become a normie realize you are different and were not ment to become one.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

YOU ARE A LOSER ON A VIRGIN WEBSITE....

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

there is no gym for your face...

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

then you will become numb

 

[Tellem--T]

You can embrace it, but the feeling of being a loser will never leave you. Why? Because you will always want to be with a woman. The problem is that they will never want to be with you. This disconnect will cause immense feelings of inadequacy, which will follow us for the rest of our lives.

The only way to "accept" our fate is by chemically altering our bodies. Kill the source. Kill the desire for a woman.

It's not weemen tbh, it just im a loser in every other aspect of life, when I'm too broken emotionally, mentally to do anything about it, that's when it sucks, I wish I had a father figure or an older brother that can help get out of this situations, because I'm to mentally damage to do anything about it

 

[Eternaldarkness]

Go ER.

 

[Tellem--T]

there is no gym for your face...

Not even ugly lol

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

i still wanna believe i will get a girlfriend wife but thats unrealistic due to my inexperience

 

[VisVoi]

Perhaps try resisting all sexual urges until you become impotent? Other than that, cope-cope-cope or rope.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Not even ugly lol

why hit the gym when you dont get laid and arent ugly?

 

[KyloRen]

It's not weemen tbh, it just im a loser in every other aspect of life, when I'm too broken emotionally, mentally to do anything about it, that's when it sucks, I wish I had a father figure or an older brother that can help get out of this situations, because I'm to mentally damage to do anything about it

Why are you mentally damaged? If there are no external factors (like relationships) at play, then it's an internal factor. Medication can help.

 

[Tellem--T]

I'm not sexually frustrated guys, I just can't cope with being behind in life as a 21 year old male, and I'm not mentally capable of changing my life since I'm a pussy and severely lack motivation and mentally damaged

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

so you are a failed normie...

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

volcel

 

[Tellem--T]

Why are you mentally damaged? If there are no external factors (like relationships) at play, then it's an internal factor. Medication can help.

There is so many factors is to why I'm mentally damaged, it's like a long list tbh, I don't know what medication would help, I don't want to go to a therapist since I heard bad experiences from incels about there visit

 

[KyloRen]

There is so many factors is to why I'm mentally damaged, it's like a long list tbh, I don't know what medication would help, I don't want to go to a therapist since I heard bad experiences from incels about there visit

You need medication, not a therapist. Seek a psychiatrist (doctor).

That can help you jumpstart going to school, getting a job, talking to people, making friends, etc.

 

[ItheIthe]

I tried Islammaxxing, but the boredom made the shaytaan get to me, I tried to be a good Muslim many times but my heart and spiritually is destroyed from porn,depression and years of social isolation and obviously browsing this site and its blackpills

Yes no doubt there are many environmental factors in play that is why one must put Christ above all. Worked for me then I came down when I realized I was sellout scum.

 

[Tellem--T]

volcel

Not really since I'm being holded back by mental barriers

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

so you are a failed normie...

 

[Jockcel]

You can't just embrace suffering. ThERe is a way out through.

 

[Tellem--T]

so you are a failed normie...

Lol 95% of this site is failed Normies

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

goto therapy op or rot sounds to me you are just mentally ill.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Lol 95% of this site is failed Normies

and yet its astonishing the term incel has no WEIGHT.

 

[TG-25]

12g buck—->skull

 

[mariaimdrunk]

12g buck—->skull

No, slug. Through the mouth, aim for the brainstem.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

No, slug. Through the mouth, aim for the brainstem.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Not really since I'm being holded back by mental barriers

Have you done anything to treat your mental illness? It's not too late at 21

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Have you done anything to treat your mental illness? It's not too late at 21

 

[NeverSubmit]

Well you are not that ugly we've seen your face. If you can't find a job then learn some skills online and make money from home that's what I do.

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Well you are not that ugly we've seen your face. If you can't find a job then learn some skills online and make money from home that's what I do.

this this this

 

[Deleted member 2119]

@UnfortunatelyINCEL98

What you're doing right now is literally hardcore spamming. I mean 15 posts for one thread in this short amount of time? Come on

You're not even having a discussion

 

[Tellem--T]

Have you done anything to treat your mental illness? It's not too late at 21

I tried nofap,being religious, taken a break from this site, and I still manage to not find any motivation to change my life, I feel it's not only my mind, but my soul, it's like, I lack the juice of being a human if that makes sense, I don't function like a regular male

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

@UnfortunatelyINCEL98

What you're doing right now is literally hardcore spamming. I mean 15 posts for one thread in this short amount of time? Come on

You're not even having a discussion

i am asking questions? and quoting?

 

[theultimate341]

I tried nofap,being religious, taken a break from this site, and I still manage to not find any motivation to change my life, I feel it's not only my mind, but my soul, it's like, I lack the juice of being a human if that makes sense, I don't function like a regular male

maybe you need a change in location

 

[Tellem--T]

maybe you need a change in location

Yes location is a big factor, you have no idea of bad this town is, I'm like the only ethnic muslim within my age group top kek

 

[Deleted member 2119]

i am asking questions? and quoting?

Most of these posts can just fit into one post. You don't need to make an extra post for making a question mark. It takes a while to receive replies

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

Most of these posts can just fit into one post. You don't need to make an extra post for making a question mark. It takes a while to receive replies

you should be a mod

 

[Deleted member 2119]

you should be a mod

No I shouldn't. I am a 19 year old edgy teen and I think all mods should be Oldcels

 

[NothingButALoser]

You can't because you ae bilogically programmed to want to reproduce. Its a gith between instinct and logic

 

[Fontaine]

I tried nofap,being religious, taken a break from this site, and I still manage to not find any motivation to change my life, I feel it's not only my mind, but my soul, it's like, I lack the juice of being a human if that makes sense, I don't function like a regular male

This sounds like clinical depression, speaking from experience

Go see psychiatrists until one of them gives you a prescription for Wellbutrin or whatever SNRI is popular in the States

 

[Yoyo]

Christmaxxing made me realize that only my internal happiness matters and not external standards made up by hedonistic scum if im being honest.

i wish to stop comparing my life to the happy life of normies, it makes me frustrated and depressed. I need to do some exercises to calm me down if only i could strengthen my faith and pull the degenerate thoughts away

 

[_incelinside]

I tried normiemaxxing for the past 8 years of my life. It bought me nothing but pain and stress because I was too autistic to maintain social relationships. I've just accepted I'm not normal and will never be normal (5300 posts on a incel website ffs). I just let go of normiedom and LDAR.

I'm also on medication now

 

[Maeror]

No I shouldn't. I am a 19 year old edgy teen and I think all mods should be Oldcels

This is just being honest, not edgy.

 

[masterwizard]

Yes location is a big factor, you have no idea of bad this town is, I'm like the only ethnic muslim within my age group top kek

I thought you were from France? If you are the solution is obvious - move to Paris and blend in with the hordes of ethnics shitting up the streets with their refuse. The few white people left are so used to being raped and abused you will find a blonde gf no problem, especially if you can protect her.