I think I can cut through all the bullshit and lay it out how it is
You dont go up to chicks and say “ill give you 20 bucks an hour if you talk to me”, you start giving her things, buying her things, validating her when she talks to you, and then she will talk to you, or more accurately she will talk at you, without giving two shits what you have to say. If you have money women will use you for that even if you are not chad. Simps have to navigate through a bunch of social interactions to get to that point, though
Women dont like the idea of talking to 2/10 curries but I have seen many of them with average looking guys, and I know of many marriages where they just use their husbands money and have zero sexual interest in him.
Obviously, the way it REALLY is, is that the woman uses the guy for money and maybe emotional validation, but the way it is interpreted by normies is that they are friends or some other bullshit like that.
So, of course, you dont go up to a woman and say “ill give you money if you talk to me”, but you are doing the same thing with added layers of social bullshit on top of it.