Serious How are you supposed to keep a conversation going?

[Deleted member 2429]

I just remembered a few weeks ago, I got assigned a female partner in class (attractive girl) and she was evidently repulsed at first and rarely interacted. As the week progressed, she started to tolerate my presence, but mostly one word replies (examples: mhm, yeah, I agree) even when I try to extend the conversation.

It was so awkward, and I noticed that other normies seem to be able to talk for hours and they never run out of shit to say. The other people are also equally into the conversations with each other. How tf do you actually keep a conversation going without getting ghosted or one word answers?

 

[nauten788]

Idk it's so weird. One word responses are the absolute worst.

 

[Mahlo]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

 

[KyloRen]

Finding common interesting is step number one. Start generally then get more specific.

 

[universallyabhorred]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

 

[Deleted member 2429]

Finding common interesting is step number one. Start generally then get more specific.

Yeah I tried that. We both love horror movies and are similar in other interests, yet it doesn't seem to work. It's more like an interrogation or some shit even if that's not my intention.

 

[KyloRen]

Yeah I tried that. We both love horror movies and are similar in other interests, yet it doesn't seem to work. It's more like an interrogation or some shit even if that's not my intention.

Sounds like you have a case of the ugliness. Have you tried showering?

 

[Tellem--T]

Be attractive that's the only way

 

[imbored21]

You either have it or you don't. You need to find a girl who likes you for your looks so she won't care that you are autistic.

 

[Mahlo]

low IQ post maybe the girl was not in the mood to talk. Doesn't mean it's BECAUSE rafaelvicuna3 was not good looking enough

You have much to learn

 

[ProudIncelistani]

Be 6'0" or above and 8/10 or above in looks.

 

[nauten788]

Be attractive that's the only way

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

low IQ post maybe the girl was not in the mood to talk. Doesn't mean it's BECAUSE rafaelvicuna3 was not good looking enough

 

[ProudIncelistani]

"1,337 messages"
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[universallyabhorred]

low IQ post maybe the girl was not in the mood to talk. Doesn't mean it's BECAUSE rafaelvicuna3 was not good looking enough

Have you ever even seen females interact with chads or chadlites? They are almost always interested in everything he says, hell they will even initiate most of the conversation.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

I'm ugly as fuck and I can keep a conversation going with anyone anywhere any time. It's all about picking a subject and then asking questions, providing anecdotes, making jokes, and then asking more questions.

You kind of have to be a one man show. It works pretty well. The only girls I ever got in my life were in university when I had the chance to talk to girls like this on a regular basis and build comfort/rapport.

eg. This class sucks, man I hate this project. (Her: Me too) What would you rather be doing? I'd probably rather ___. But I guess the teacher's okay, at least he's not a dick like ____. (Her: haha yeah he's the worse) I like your necklace that's cool. (Her: Umm okay) Okay so what are we supposed to be doing for this project, did you hear a word he said because I'm not sure I did. (Her: um I dunno!) Okay so let's figure this out...

etc.

School is literally the easiest time to practice and succeed from social skills. Once you get past school, you will have almost zero opportunities, since girls online won't reply to you if you're ugly and girls in clubs won't even be basically polite if you try to chat them up. Take advantage.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

Have you ever even seen females interact with chads or chadlites? They are almost always interested in everything he says, hell they will even initiate most of the conversation.

True true true even the "unfunny" stuff are funny to the girls because he's attractive.

 

[Mahlo]

I'm ugly as fuck and I can keep a conversation going with anyone anywhere any time. It's all about picking a subject and then asking questions, providing anecdotes, making jokes, and then asking more questions.

eg. This class sucks, man I hate this project. (Her: Me too) What would you rather be doing? I'd probably rather ___. But I guess the teacher's okay, at least he's not a dick like ____. (Her: haha yeah he's the worse) I like your necklace that's cool. (Her: Umm okay) Okay so what are we supposed to be doing for this project, did you hear a word he said because I'm not sure I did. (Her: um I dunno!) Okay so let's figure this out...

etc.

Or maybe you're just better looking than you think. If a Walking Vagina gives you the time of day it means she doesn't find you totally repulsive.

 

[nauten788]

Have you ever even seen females interact with chads or chadlites? They are almost always interested in everything he says, hell they will even initiate most of the conversation.

Ah that's true.

 

[Asianmanletcel]

I wish when I was 14 that I already knew how to ask google such questions but there was still no search suggestions back then
or just too low iq
youngcels have it easy on how the internet is today

 

[Deleted member 2429]

I wish when I was 14 that I already knew how to ask google such questions but there was still no search suggestions back then
or just too low iq
youngcels have it easy on how the internet is today

Yeah I see all these "conversation starters" on google and on other websites, but it's almost always usually the same result.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

Or maybe you're just better looking than you think. If a Walking Vagina gives you the time of day it means she doesn't find you totally repulsive.

Guys who get bullied for being ugly like that Petersen guy from the incel casts are in my experience moreso picked on because of their awkwardness. He's dramatically better looking than I could ever dream of being but he's probably been called "ugly" more than I have.

If you're ugly as fuck but socially extroverted and well calibrated, people can get comfortable with you still in these types of environments and they don't give you much of a hard time. It's hard as hell to make them attracted to you, but you can at least interact.

This requires high EQ which most people here probably lack though tbh.

 

[nauten788]

Guys who get bullied for being ugly like that Petersen guy from the incel casts are in my experience moreso picked on because of their awkwardness. He's dramatically better looking than I could ever dream of being but he's probably been called "ugly" more than I have.

If you're ugly as fuck but socially extroverted and well calibrated, people can get comfortable with you still in these types of environments and they don't give you much of a hard time. It's hard as hell to make them attracted to you, but you can at least interact.

This requires high EQ which most people here probably lack though tbh.

No, I have good social skills, and they don't want anything to do with me either way.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

No, I have good social skills, and they don't want anything to do with me either way.

JFL this reminds me when I was discussing programming with another girl and she couldn't have appeared more uninterested if I tried.

"Mm okay"

"Oh cool"

That's literally all she said the entire time.

 

[nauten788]

JFL this reminds me when I was discussing programming with another girl and she couldn't have appeared more uninterested if I tried.

"Mm okay"

"Oh cool"

That's literally all she said the entire time.

LMFAO oh shit don't talk about programming with them. Most aren't interested in that stuff

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

JFL this reminds me when I was discussing programming with another girl and she couldn't have appeared more uninterested if I tried.

"Mm okay"

"Oh cool"

That's literally all she said the entire time.

Why would you have been discussing programming with her? Was it mandatory? Like a project? If so, when girls act like spoiled shits in these situations it's important to call them on it.

ie. after one of her empty answers, stare blankly at her for a few seconds and say, "Are you planning on making even the slightest effort with this? ... Do you care even in the tiniest bit? ..." (Her: yeah) "Well it would be nice to get more than a one word reply, we're supposed to be having a conversation here to work this out. Can you do that?"

Important not to sound angry if you do things like this though. You have to do it very calm and measured and just call her out on her lazy bullshit.

If it wasn't a project, then don't talk about programming with girls. They don't give a shit.

 

[0764]

I'm ugly as fuck and I can keep a conversation going with anyone anywhere any time. It's all about picking a subject and then asking questions, providing anecdotes, making jokes, and then asking more questions.

You kind of have to be a one man show. It works pretty well. The only girls I ever got in my life were in university when I had the chance to talk to girls like this on a regular basis and build comfort/rapport.

eg. This class sucks, man I hate this project. (Her: Me too) What would you rather be doing? I'd probably rather ___. But I guess the teacher's okay, at least he's not a dick like ____. (Her: haha yeah he's the worse) I like your necklace that's cool. (Her: Umm okay) Okay so what are we supposed to be doing for this project, did you hear a word he said because I'm not sure I did. (Her: um I dunno!) Okay so let's figure this out...

etc.

School is literally the easiest time to practice and succeed from social skills. Once you get past school, you will have almost zero opportunities, since girls online won't reply to you if you're ugly and girls in clubs won't even be basically polite if you try to chat them up. Take advantage.

Go fuck yourself. If you’re truly ugly as sin no one will even stand to look at you much less talk to you

 

[Deleted member 2429]

Why would you have been discussing programming with her? Was it mandatory? Like a project? If so, when girls act like spoiled shits in these situations it's important to call them on it.

ie. after one of her empty answers, stare blankly at her for a few seconds and say, "Are you planning on making even the slightest effort with this? ... Do you care even in the tiniest bit? ..." (Her: yeah) "Well it would be nice to get more than a one word reply, we're supposed to be having a conversation here to work this out. Can you do that?"

Important not to sound angry if you do things like this though. You have to do it very calm and measured and just call her out on her lazy bullshit.

If it wasn't a project, then don't talk about programming with girls. They don't give a shit.

I'll try this the next time.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

If you even have to "try" then just give up as the girl obviously thinks you are ugly.
Girls that are into you will keep spilling garbage out their mouths if they like you so they can keep the conversation going. They. THEY. THEY!
NOT you. You do absolutely nothing but stand there and look pretty and have a big cock on you so they can suck it later.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

Go fuck yourself. If you’re truly ugly as sin no one will even stand to look at you much less talk to you

Average white guy. There aren't enough surgeries in the world that could make me this attractive.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I'll try this the next time.

Cool. Just don't come off as angry like I said or you'll be "harassing" her. You can either do it half jokingly with a smirk or like you're bored with her.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Petersen had severe cystic acne covering his entire face when he was in school. That's why he got bullied badly, not because of his awkwardness.

 

[BasedGod1]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

This is literally it, we are so fucking primal it hurts.

 

[th62eathhts2]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

 

[_incelinside]

I'm ugly as fuck and I can keep a conversation going with anyone anywhere any time. It's all about picking a subject and then asking questions, providing anecdotes, making jokes, and then asking more questions.

You kind of have to be a one man show. It works pretty well. The only girls I ever got in my life were in university when I had the chance to talk to girls like this on a regular basis and build comfort/rapport.

eg. This class sucks, man I hate this project. (Her: Me too) What would you rather be doing? I'd probably rather ___. But I guess the teacher's okay, at least he's not a dick like ____. (Her: haha yeah he's the worse) I like your necklace that's cool. (Her: Umm okay) Okay so what are we supposed to be doing for this project, did you hear a word he said because I'm not sure I did. (Her: um I dunno!) Okay so let's figure this out...

etc.

School is literally the easiest time to practice and succeed from social skills. Once you get past school, you will have almost zero opportunities, since girls online won't reply to you if you're ugly and girls in clubs won't even be basically polite if you try to chat them up. Take advantage.

Yeah. If your social skills are good enough or you are entertaining most foids will let you orbit them. I have seen a few truecels talking to girls.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

no idea, ive never understood how normies keep convos going, i cant relate to people at all.

 

[Deleted member 2429]

no idea, ive never understood how normies keep convos going, i cant relate to people at all.

I know that feel bro.

 

[Givingup20]

If you need to keep the conversation going it means you're not good looking enough

Simple as that really

 

[MogekoLord]

you're asking the wrong person
i cant hold a conversation to save my life

 

[GaelicIrish]

It is very hard when you are depressed because I have no interest in conversation when depression.

 

[Maeror]

You cant when you are ugly.

 

[Templarcel421]

Start talking about DragonBall Z and other anime

 

[UnfortunatelyINCEL98]

youDONT

 

[EVILcel]

I struggle with this soo much, no one ever follows the script in my head and I’m too autismo to come up with quick, witty responses

 

[lifefuel]

if you are chad she will talk your ear off and you cant get her to stfu sooner

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

Be chad.

I am gonna post a blackpill to show you how girls keep the conversation going with chad and they make sure it doesn’t get awkward.
They keep coming with awkward ice breakers. And even if the conversation goes terrible, they still give him their number

But with sub 8s, girl can’t be bothered to put effort. They rather let the conversation die because they don’t give a shit.

 

[IronMike]

conversations have ebbs and flows, even with my best friends their are dead points in a convo

FHOs tho....shit I have no clue

 

[Schizoidcel]

Just be hyper-neurotypical

 

[Weed]

Just DON'T TALK. That's what I do, stop being extroverted as a sub5. Just keep quiet, it's better that way because people won't think as much bad stuff as they already do in your presence.

 

[lifefuel]

Be chad.

I am gonna post a blackpill to show you how girls keep the conversation going with chad and they make sure it doesn’t get awkward.
They keep coming with awkward ice breakers. And even if the conversation goes terrible, they still give him their number

But with sub 8s, girl can’t be bothered to put effort. They rather let the conversation die because they don’t give a shit.

you should try a hardcore Trump supporter chad account for NYC and other liberal areas.

These bitches all act like they hate trump and say "no trump supporters" like that actually matters.

CHAD IN A MAGA HAT vs an incel feminist author who makes bank. I wonder what they'll choose.

 

[Grotesque]

By being attractive which causes people to gravitate toward you and please you in groups.