SuicideFuel How are you supposed to be NT if you have no friends?

[Zer0/∞]

If you don’t have friends, how are supposed to improve and practice your non existent social skills?

And if you don’t have any social skills, how can you get friends?

Even if you get lucky enough to find friends, they would be just like you, as boring, shy and quiet as you and would likely invite you to nowhere, trapping you in the same cycle.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

The system is rigged against us. Sub 5 and non-NT men aren't meant to succeed.

 

[Incelius Savage]

Family is the only way.

 

[Deleted member 40252]

The system is rigged against us. Sub 5 and non-NT men aren't meant to succeed.

 

[Deleted member 43367]

If you don’t have friends, how are supposed to improve and practice your non existent social skills?

And if you don’t have any social skills, how can you get friends?

Even if you get lucky enough to find friends, they would be just like you, as boring, shy and quiet as you and would likely invite you to nowhere, trapping you in the same cycle.

Play a team sport like soccer.

You can make friends there.

 

[Transcended Trucel]

brutal truth. I learned this the hard way. Also many of these friends require lots of "upkeep", reply to their text, meet them weekly etc. Too much work for shit reward.

 

[ldargoblin]

The system is rigged against us. Sub 5 and non-NT men aren't meant to succeed.

 

[IchWillSterben]

I have zero friend

 

[Chevalier]

Very difficult to make friends if you don't have friends already...increasingly so in our soyciety where everyone is attached to their phones when you go out in the wild.. esp after high school normies already have their dumb social circle and become increasingly busy with wageslaving and watching crap on Netflix

 

[Balding Subhuman]

I think "social skills" is a cope mostly. Either you feel like you want to socialise and you have fun with it, which is perceived as you being a good socialiser, or you don't. There's no "skill." If you are a sperg you probably have too much glutamate in your system, so you should aim to decrease it.

Alcohol is NMDA receptor antagonist, so it decreases glutamate. In the game of life, life is a bar and normies are the drunks, while spergs are the sober people who feel awkward around the drunks who can socialise with ease. Because autist brains are full of glutamate, and normies have a lot less of it.

 

[Atavistic Autist]

I think "social skills" is a cope mostly. Either you feel like you want to socialise and you have fun with it, which is perceived as you being a good socialiser, or you don't. There's no "skill." If you are a sperg you probably have too much glutamate in your system, so you should aim to decrease it.

Alcohol is NMDA receptor antagonist, so it decreases glutamate. In the game of life, life is a bar and normies are the drunks, while spergs are the sober people who feel awkward around the drunks who can socialise with ease. Because autist brains are full of glutamate, and normies have a lot less of it.

All autists should definitely try things which increase GABA and decrease glutamate.

But the biggest genetic commonality among spergs is actually having high blood serotonin. So dopamine-maxxing is also warranted (given that serotonin and dopamine contravene each other).

Phenibut and bromantane accomplish both of these things. And yes, alcohol.

 

[Balding Subhuman]

All autists should definitely try things which increase GABA and decrease glutamate.

But the biggest genetic commonality among spergs is actually having high blood serotonin. So dopamine-maxxing is also warranted (given that serotonin and dopamine contravene each other).

Phenibut and bromantane accomplish both of these things. And yes, alcohol.

I've been on keto diet for 4 months now and it seems to work. I'm not as anxious as before, and I tolerate coffee much better. Success!

 

[Zer0/∞]

Family is the only way.

I have no extended family in my country.

 

[Incelius Savage]

I have no extended family in my country.

What about main family?

 

[Zer0/∞]

What about main family?

My younger brother is just a basement rotter, dropped out of Highschool and plays video games every waking hour.

 

[Incelius Savage]

My younger brother is just a basement rotter, dropped out of Highschool and plays video games every waking hour.

Wasnt he doing school work a week ago are you guys close? Tell him to go back to school!

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

The system is rigged against us. Sub 5 and non-NT men aren't meant to succeed.

Negative feedback loops are cruel

 

[BraincelsRefugee]

Wasnt he doing school work a week ago are you guys close? Tell him to go back to school!

He is a bongo probably has like 3/4 siblings.

 

[haterofemoids]

You could just chat with werdios on the internet until you find someone you find interesting. It might just be a digital friendship but its somthing.

 

[Zer0/∞]

Bump

 

[turbosperg]

If you don’t have friends, how are supposed to improve and practice your non existent social skills?

And if you don’t have any social skills, how can you get friends?

Even if you get lucky enough to find friends, they would be just like you, as boring, shy and quiet as you and would likely invite you to nowhere, trapping you in the same cycle.

I have made some friends in two circles/groups:

--- nerdy friends, many of which are spergs, I made from my time with D&D and anime.
--- college friends. We were the only metalheads in our class, so we stayed together.
(Heavy Metal is considered a slightly "nerdy" subculture, in Brazil)

Nowadays I rarely see them. Last time was 6 months ago. I barely exchange messages with them because I have nothing to say. They have their own lives, and I have mine. We moved all over.

So, I'd say it's possible to make friends as a sperg, if you join early into a niche subculture that you can fit inside.

My social skills are still trash, and I still have trouble navigating day-to-day interactions with people I must deal with. Having these friends groups didn't massively improve my social skills, maybe only slightly.

What I miss nowadays is not only friends, but mainly the ability to make new friendly acquaintances and do some "networking" to find people who can help me with this or that thing. Normies always seem to know someone who can do something, I don't have such an easy time getting to know my neighbors, or being friendly with them. They see me as a recluse weirdo.