Hoppipolla
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Right... how can I write this without it getting a warning for being bluepilled. Hm.
OK so bluepilled basically means thinking that "Looks don't matter for men. Women want a confident guy who works hard and shows respect. If you can do that, the women will come to you!"
OK!! I will avoid that.
Basically... on the way home I was thinking that I think looks are like... step 1. Looks get your foot in the door. I am not a bad looking guy. Step 2 though is having a masculine personality. I'm a softy so I fail at step 2 a lot!
So that is NOT bluepilled OK! I am saying that BOTH matter!
Also if you don't have a very masculine personality you are less likely to feel OK about approaching lots of women.
I do think that submissive soft men do better than dominant soft men. But most men (including me) do not want to be submissive.
I guess that's all. I just wanted to share those thoughts.
OK so bluepilled basically means thinking that "Looks don't matter for men. Women want a confident guy who works hard and shows respect. If you can do that, the women will come to you!"
OK!! I will avoid that.
Basically... on the way home I was thinking that I think looks are like... step 1. Looks get your foot in the door. I am not a bad looking guy. Step 2 though is having a masculine personality. I'm a softy so I fail at step 2 a lot!
So that is NOT bluepilled OK! I am saying that BOTH matter!
Also if you don't have a very masculine personality you are less likely to feel OK about approaching lots of women.
I do think that submissive soft men do better than dominant soft men. But most men (including me) do not want to be submissive.
I guess that's all. I just wanted to share those thoughts.
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